As a mother, we all know that the child's personality is innate, although it can be changed the day after tomorrow, but it requires incalculable hard work
After the Chinese New Year, I also took my husband and children back to my mother's arms. Be a child who doesn't think about work, gets up early and goes to bed late, and doesn't feel anxious.
When I got home, I heard a relative's description, and I felt that the most important thing was that the child was happy and healthy.
Honghong is a beautiful little girl, 6 years old this year, currently studying in the kindergarten, her parents are old and have children, very baby, in the year Honghong was born, her parents decided to train her differently.
First of all, I went to Hong Kong and bought a large amount of insurance.
At the age of one, she is a frequent visitor to early education institutions, and she is also set as a role model by early education institutions, and she will be used as an example when other parents visit: although she is only a little more than a year old, she has been studying for half a year.
At the age of three, he was enlightened in English, and then enrolled in extracurricular classes such as small hosts, mental arithmetic, reading, children's Go, and piano. Even if the child says that he doesn't like it and doesn't want to go to school, the mother still tries to get the child into the classroom of the extracurricular class.
But like dance classes, physical fitness classes, roller skating classes. Honghong complained to her mother that she was tired after two classes, and her mother had to return the course even if she lost money, because she felt that it didn't matter, and since she didn't like it, there was no need to continue.
Honghong's mother felt that the child could not meet the requirements only in the training class to learn English, and she was too busy with work to accompany her at any time, so she found a family companion to accompany Honghong all day. The two communicated without Chinese.
Honghong can't play slides in the community like other children after kindergarten, but has to go home to complete the homework assigned by the extracurricular class, or be directly taken to the training institution for classes, so Honghong has few friends.
Half a year ago, a mother in the community tentatively told Honghong's mother that the child's eyes were a little sloppy, and he was unwilling to communicate with other children. Honghong's mother was very angry and immediately took the child home, thinking that there was something really wrong with that person, how could such a smart child have depression?
However, just half a year later, the child was diagnosed with "mild depression" by the doctor.
Honghong's mother is stunned! She couldn't believe that her education was such a failure, she obviously followed the method of her mother in Haidian District, combined with the experience of her mother in Jiangsu, and listened to the advice of teachers in various training institutions to know that no matter what you have to learn in advance: others study for three months, then I started learning a year ago, or even two years ago, it is impossible not to catch up with the school bully.
Learn in advance, this is the "core" of the chicken baby. I think that no matter what knowledge you learn in advance, you can win at the starting line.
But the premise is that the child's age, intelligence, and physical strength can only be learned when they reach a certain level.
Let the full moon child start to practice using chopsticks, it is impossible to learn after practicing for a year!
As long as the child is healthy, I will fulfill it" Do you remember when this wish first started?
From the moment a new life was conceived in the womb, NT examinations, Tang screening, four-dimensional, monitoring fetal heart and fetal movements were carried out one after another, do you pray that as long as the child is healthy, you have nothing else to ask for?!
What becomes a top student, what learns Olympiad, and what learns English are all floating clouds. At this time, health is everything.
The child does not lack arms and legs, has normal intelligence, normal hearing, and normal vision is the greatest wish.
But since when did you start asking your kids to look at flashcards?
Looking for early childhood education?
Start asking what other kids are going to?
Start looking up the various Olympiad classes, PET exams?
Beginning to start English?
Start comparing him to other kids?
Started to be disappointed in him because he couldn't learn 5+8=13?
What about the original intention? Is the original intention of being healthy and happy?
Is it normal to ask of children now?
Is there a spending that goes beyond what is now a household?
Is there a seedling to help grow?
Do you have the mentality of hoping for a son to become a Chan?
Pat your chest and ask yourself: Am I a dragon? Am I a phoenix?
Am I happier for my child to be a dragon, or am I happier when she's healthy?
Honghong's mother decided to stop work for half a year and devote herself to accompanying her children.
Extracurricular classes are cut!
Family Companion Dismissal!
On weekends, invite classmates or children of the same age to visit the free park. She found that the free ones were the best.
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We know the importance of health when we lose it.
Many times, when we are healthy, we may ignore its importance and devote more attention and energy to other aspects such as work, study, entertainment, etc. However, once we lose our health, such as suffering from illness or injury, we become deeply aware of the importance of health.
The same is true for children's education. When we blindly urge our children to learn, regardless of whether they can bear it, have we lost our hearts?
I believe that you love yourself and you love your children very, very much. But we can't let love blind us, we need to keep a clear head and rational thinking, and we need to always pay attention to the growth and development of our children.
Love your children and let them grow up healthy and happy.
Here, I wish you a good New Year, and wish you all a prosperous Year of the Dragon.