In the work "White Deer Plain", Guo Juren is over sixty years old, close to seventy years old, although he is not young and his hair is gray, his body is still strong and powerful. His father is a well-known local talent, and his mother is a local scholar. In the Bailuyuan area, the Guo Ju family's business is very successful, they not only have the title of Juren, but also own a large amount of land, which can be said to be quite prestigious.
In those wealthy families, face is always their primary concern. In the vicinity of Bailuyuan, this Guo Juren was quite a prestigious figure, and the long-term laborers he hired had to be sturdy, and to marry a young and beautiful wife, he needed to find a young partner. Although the outside world may think that Guo Juren is an absolute "success", what is shocking is that he actually used various methods to torture a 16-year-old girl, Tian Xiao'e.
Is it the pursuit of happiness or the dilemma? Tian Xiao'e, come to your senses quickly.
When it comes to Tian Xiao'e's family background, many people may think that she is poor, but this is not the case. She has liked to read since she was a child, and she is considered a literate person in the village. Tian Xiao'e's father was a talented talent, and although he was not wealthy, his family background was full of books. Although Tian Xiao'e's family background is not described in detail in the book, from the perspective of Guo Juren's character, we can still roughly infer his origin.
Considering that Guo Juren has a "good-faced" character, he will never marry the daughter of a poor family, and even the most incompetent person will be told to be reasonable. Therefore, Guo Juren had a strong interest in Tian Xiao'e, the newly grown daughter of Tian Xiucai's family. According to common sense, he, as a man in his 60s, actually planned to marry a young woman of 16 years old as his little wife, and just by observing it, it is clear that this is not a reliable choice.
If Tian Xiao'e's character is followed, will she agree to this marriage? What is she like? From what Tian Xiao'e did later, we can clearly feel that she not only established a deep relationship with Heiwa, but also cooperated with Lu Zilin and Bai Xiaowen, and everything she did proved that Tian Xiao'e was not a passive character.
For such a her, if she learns that she is about to marry an older man, can't she have a real fight with her family? But in the end, she didn't be with Guo Juren well-behaved, and I believe that there must be something unknown behind this. Guo Juren is a very "face-saving" person, and it is by no means easy to deceive Tian Xiao'e or Tian Xiucai.
Guo Juren may arrange for a matchmaker to introduce him: "Oh, this is a big family in the neighborhood, and it is the only one who lifts people." I heard that everyone knows that this is the shopkeeper Guo, the family has a prosperous career and enough wealth, and if we Xiao'e marry him, not only do we not need to work, but we can also live a happy life, what is this." "Then you go! I told you that I wanted to marry him a wife, do you think people have such good conditions? After hearing these words, Tian Xiao'e naturally took the initiative to express her love, since this is a kind of happiness, then what is there to hesitate about.
Guo Juren married Tian Xiao'e, is it really just to find such a simple partner? He brought Xiao'e to his home, not just to be a little girl, he seems to have a deeper malice, that is, to use Xiao'e to make a medicine stove and let her soak dates to enhance his physical health. It is a pity that Xiao'e is completely unaware of Guo Juren's conspiracy, and she is still immersed in fantasies about a better life in the future.
Immersed in the pain of "soaking dates" all day long, Xiao'e found the black baby, and Guo Juren's reaction was beyond everyone's expectations.
Since Xiao'e became Guo Juren's wife, her life has become extremely difficult, in addition to being busy with housework every day, at night, she even needs to help Guo Juren with some housework. Xiao'e's life is miserable. This incident is both a shame and a reality that has to be faced. Mrs. Guo not only continued to torture Xiao'e, but also forbade Guo Juren to meet with Xiao'e, and only allowed to meet once a month. In addition, Mrs. Guo will also use her ear to the door to eavesdrop.
Faced with such a situation, Xiao'e suffered great physical and mental damage, and she felt deeply remorseful, but she felt helpless. Her pain is a kind of helplessness and despair. I think that what makes Xiao'e feel heartache is not the tedious daily jujube soaking and housework, but Guo Juren's capricious behavior and remarks. His behavior deprived her of the opportunity and conditions to love her and make all efforts for it. How big the marriage commitment to Xiao'e was at the beginning, how serious the damage is now.
In my opinion, in the face of such a situation, Xiao'e has not never pleaded with Guo Juren, but how did Guo Juren act? He didn't see her as an isolated being, but chose to continue to live a leisurely life. He goes out early and returns late every day, and he works hard every day for his livelihood. When I woke up in the morning, I wanted to do a set of punches, and when it was over, I went back to the cage to rest. When I woke up, I began to instruct the long worker, and in the afternoon, I would go to walk his horse. But this period has passed, and I don't care too much about Xiao'e's feelings.
In the case of no longer being able to bear it, Xiao'e finally couldn't bear it anymore, and she vowed to take revenge on Guo Juren. She first set up a stall on the street and asked people to buy some dates and salt. First, he takes out the dates that he has soaked every day and puts them in his urine, hoping that it will allow him to truly experience the taste. Next, she plans to have a private relationship with a long-term worker, and it is at this critical moment that she meets Heiwa.
Compared to other women, Xiao'e is not so shy, and she takes the initiative to include the immature black baby in her team. Heiwa is a very smart child, and his parents both have a skill, but they don't have a good solution. It only took one or two times, and as time went by, Guo Juren learned about the matter between Xiao'e and Heiwa.
Once, when Heiwa and Xiao'e were in the room to deal with affairs, Guo Juren quietly ran outside the house and eavesdropped on their conversation. Ordinary men will definitely be very angry when they learn about this. However, Guo Juren did not show anger, on the contrary, he listened to these words with great interest, and then quietly left the scene.
When Heiwa walked into the room, Guo Juren pushed open the door without hesitation and walked in, which surprised Heiwa. He originally thought that the matter had been exposed and his life was in danger, but unexpectedly, Guo Juren not only did not cause him trouble, but instead gave him some cash and urged him to leave as soon as possible. He thought, this kid must be crazy, he must have some ulterior secret to break into my room so boldly. This does not mean that Guo Juren is a kind person, he is just out of reputation.
He was afraid that if the people from all over the country knew about it, they would laugh at him, so he would rather let Heiwa go than make things worse. He knew that Heiwa was already very famous in the township. However, the situation was not as simple as it seemed on the surface, and Guo Juren quickly sent people there, almost resulting in Heiwa's death. Later, after Heiwa's mother learned of the incident, she reported the case to the government. From this point of view, Guo Juren is indeed a person who is stern on the surface but weak on the inside.
In the grand retirement ceremony, Guo Juren's heart was full of deep thoughts.
Fortunately, Guo Juren's plan to eliminate Heiwa was unsuccessful. When Heiwa left, Guo Juren's heart was full of complex emotions. Not only is he worried about the scandal at home that will go viral, but more importantly, how he will protect his reputation. Against this background, he thought of a sinister plan - to break the marriage.
After that, Guo Juren brought Tian Xiao'e to the sedan chair again, invited a band, and returned to his residence with the sound of gongs and drums. In those days, a woman's withdrawal from marriage was seen as an embarrassing thing, usually because the woman had made some kind of mistake. Guo Juren's high-profile divorce behavior made Tian Xiao'e's matter known to the surrounding people.
Since then, Guo Juren has finally achieved his goal. Despite some problems at home, he can still blame Tian Xiao'e without scruples, accuse her of misbehavior, call her a wild character, and completely ignore his irresponsible attitude towards Xiao'e. Therefore, no matter how Tian Xiao'e explains Guo Juren's misconduct to others, I believe that everyone will lose trust in her.
Guo Juren's handling did achieve the desired effect, and after Tian Xiao'e was sent home, she was severely beaten by her father Tian Xiucai. Tian Xiucai is a person who attaches great importance to reputation, as a prestigious Xiucai, if something like this happens at home, how can he see others again in the future. In addition, the surroundings are also full of various gossip, so no matter how Tian Xiao'e explains, Tian Xiucai is unwilling to listen to it.
Guo Juren's inner thinking is really very profound, at first it was because of his own fault, but in the end it was all blamed on Xiao'e. No, Xiao'e was beaten again and her nose and face were swollen, and he was knocked to the ground before he could react. Frankly speaking, although he is already very old and a lifter, he must have a lot of coping strategies in the face of a girl like Tian Xiao'e. However, he finally chose this most vicious way, standing at the high point of criticizing Xiao'e, as if he was a victim and blaming Xiao'e for all the faults.
Considering his identity, experience, and life background, trying to control Xiao'e is actually a breeze, and instead of choosing to go in a good direction, he chooses to do the worst. He said he had an idea, but he couldn't turn it into reality. Although he gave some advice, he was very afraid of Mrs. Guo in his heart, which caused him to not even dare to meet Xiao'e, which was really disgusting for people like him.
In our daily life, the figure of "Guo Juren" can be seen everywhere".
In fact, in our daily lives, there are people like Guo Juren in almost every corner, who use their strengths to put others in a difficult situation as much as possible. At critical moments, they need to clearly recognize their own worth, resolutely not bear any consequences, and even show their good side when needed, such people are really annoying.
In everyday life, such people are not uncommon, they have a fairly good reputation, but everyone does not know much about the real face behind them. If they can't be clear about their identity for the time being, then things may become more difficult in the future. The appearance of such "people" often makes people feel strange, because they are not big heroes. So, how should we distinguish people like Guo Juren? Here, we will provide you with three strategies.
First, observe what he says in his daily life. And he said, "She is trained by the earth." In the work "White Deer Plain", Guo Juren said to Heiwa in the process of walking the horse: "This woman, like the horse, is trained on the ground." In our daily lives, as long as we pay close attention, we will find that some speakers or listeners do not behave in line with what they are saying. From this sentence, we can gain insight into the true face of Guo Juren. In our daily life observations, we can judge a person's character and character by analyzing his actions and words. If we find that there is a mistake in his remarks, and he is still smug, then it is better to keep his distance.
The second way is to observe his reputation. Actually, it's all because he has his own unique side. Here, some people may be very surprised, because Guo Juren's reputation is indeed very high, and even in the end, he is still regarded as a "big family", which is unimaginable. We all understand that the nature of human beings is complex, and therefore, the perception of people by the outside world should also be pluralistic and complex. If a person's good name is too monotonous, or if he is a very kind person, or if he has other ulterior motives, then special care must be taken in this regard.
The third way is to observe the people close to him. Things gather people in groups, the relationship between Guo Juren and Mrs. Guo is not very good, and the two are simply an alliance of bad people. In this case, we understand Mrs. Guo's character, and naturally we also know Guo Juren's character.
Guarding against others is necessary, and the intent to harm others is also indispensable. Although we are wary of becoming "Guo Juren", we should also avoid causing unnecessary distress to others when we are in an advantageous position.