All people, for better or worse, will one day end their lives and leave this world.
When people reach their old age, they must face death, reflect on their own lives, summarize their lives, and do their best to complete the unfinished business. All that's left is to remember and wait.
Be careful if the following three signs suddenly appear in an old man, because they indicate that God is trying to "get" the person.
01: Heartbroken and desperate.
Young people are only energetic when they are full of vitality and fighting spirit.
Older people no longer need this positivity or struggle. At first, you just want to quietly enjoy your achievements, but over time you will gradually lose your purpose in life, and naturally you will lose your motivation.
They will feel that there is no hope in life, and they can only wait quietly for death to come.
This feeling is due on the one hand to a decline in physical functioning, and on the other hand to a lack of hope in life due to changes in social roles.
When the elderly have these symptoms, they are really close to death.
Many seniors live a glamorous and fulfilling life even if they leave their original circle and enjoy a peaceful retirement.
Even if you have nothing to do, you can have fun. Never give up on yourself or despair.
So, don't think that those old people who talk about hopelessness are just there to get attention. The intrinsic meaning of their words is that they have lost hope for the future and need the guidance of their loved ones.
02: Think about death and stop resisting.
As we age, death is an inevitable topic.
As people get older, they have more free time to do things that interest them and meet people they are interested in, rather than dying in the first place.
They value the time they have and don't waste it with self-pity.
Therefore, if they start thinking about death and are no longer reluctant to talk about it, it means that they start thinking about themselves. As a relative, you must be vigilant.
This mindset can be the result of your own evaluation of your body and anxiety about your future.
The reason why I cherish the time I spend with my family more and take care of my physical and mental health is not just because I complain about it, but because I sense that death is approaching.
03: Cherish the love for your family more.
As people get older and have less time, they cherish their families more and want to spend their last moments with their loved ones.
However, people who are just starting out are more active in achieving their desires than they are, and they don't want to see them waste their time achieving their dreams.
They nag the children again and again, telling them to mind their own business and go home more often until they felt that their lives were over.
Behind every repetitive word is their reflection and ultimate hope.
So, if something similar happens to the elderly in your family, don't get bored. Every time you refute, their hearts will hurt and their feelings will be ignored.
Over time, they feel that life is meaningless and do not want to stay any longer.
When the time comes, you will regret it for the rest of your life.
Just because the above three signs appear suddenly in old age, does not mean that God must immediately "accept" the person. We must also face death and separation. They are all processes of life, from which no one can escape.
However, we can choose how to deal with death and separation without regret through our own efforts.
This process allows you to be kind to the elderly who have worked hard for most of their lives, making their old age as comfortable and warm as possible.
That way, when they leave us, we can accept it calmly, and when we are old, we can treat our children like elders, and they will treat us as well. This is also a good cause and a good effect.