I thought my husband was poor, and I took away 200,000 yuan after divorce, and found that it was too difficult to make money, so I begged to get back together, and my husband already had a new love
15 years ago, the young Li Xiaomei met Zhang Jian of the same age under the recommendation of a friend. Zhang Jian is an honest and responsible person, suitable for living an ordinary and happy life. Under the joint planning of their parents, the two quickly met, lived together, and then quickly got married and obtained a license.
Soon after the marriage, Li Xiaomei became pregnant, she recuperated at home, and Zhang Jian handed over her monthly salary to Li Xiaomei for management. The relationship between the two was once very good, they welcomed a son and a daughter, and the harmonious family atmosphere has continued.
However, just 4 months ago, Li Xiaomei suddenly filed for divorce. Although Zhang Jian refused her request, Li Xiaomei became irritable and often made a lot of noise in the house, blaming Zhang Jian for not making enough money.
Faced with Li Xiaomei's uneasiness, Zhang Jian finally agreed to the divorce and signed an agreement. According to the agreement, Li Xiaomei took her daughter away and received 200,000 yuan in compensation, while her son stayed with Zhang Jian. The two jointly owned a 160-square-meter property, which was left to their son.
The agreement specifically emphasized that once Li Xiaomei gets the compensation of 200,000 yuan, the house will have nothing to do with her, and she can no longer live in it. After the divorce certificate was issued, Li Xiaomei left the Zhang family with her daughter according to the agreement and moved to the town to live in a rented house. Zhang Jian continued to take care of his son at home.
Li Xiaomei thought that she could live a good life with 200,000 yuan, but she didn't expect the money to be spent quickly. In desperation, the 38-year-old decided to look for a job. However, with no work experience after 15 years of marriage, she found it difficult to find a job. Changed 4 in a week5 jobs, either you can't endure hardship, or you can't earn money, or you can't suffer grievances.
Three months have passed in a blink of an eye, and the money on hand is getting less and less, and Li Xiaomei still hasn't found a suitable job, which makes her feel a little anxious. At this moment, she happened to hear that Zhang Jian was about to get married, the new house had been renovated, and the bride was young and beautiful, many years younger than Zhang Jian.
Li Xiaomei felt incredulous and rushed to Zhang Jian's house angrily, seeing that the house that once belonged to her was renewed, and her heart was full of imbalance. She couldn't understand why her life was so difficult, but Zhang Jian could start a new life.
In this series of events, Li Xiaomei was so emotional that she couldn't restrain her anger, and as a result, she vandalized some of the items she had added to the wedding in the living room. This provoked the anger of Zhang Jian and his mother, who decided to kick her out of the house.
Li Xiaomei choked up and went to the TV station for help, claiming: "Actually, I don't really want to divorce, everything is because of Zhang Jian's mother." It turned out that in the 15 years of marriage, Li Xiaomei has never had a job, and lives a leisurely life every day under the pretext of taking care of her children, except for playing with her mobile phone, there is almost nothing else to do.
Zhang Jian's mother couldn't stand it at first, she felt that the whole family was supported by her son alone, and she felt very hard. Therefore, from time to time, she blamed Li Xiaomei for being lazy and delicious, thinking that she was not a good wife.
The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often quarreled, and after each quarrel, Li Xiaomei would complain to Zhang Jian, and Zhang Jian was caught in the middle and was in a dilemma, not daring to express his opinion, and unable to choose to support one of them.
As a result, Li Xiaomei began to feel that Zhang Jian was too weak, not only could not earn money to support the family, but also could not protect his wife, which made her dissatisfied with Zhang Jian gradually deepen, and the relationship between the husband and wife became tense.
Although Li Xiaomei has considered divorce many times, she chose to endure it for the sake of her two children. It wasn't until more than 4 months ago that Zhang Jian's mother abused her again, accusing her of not working and eating idle meals at home all day, which eventually led to a heated dispute.
After this quarrel, Li Xiaomei decided to file for divorce. She thought that Zhang Jian would not agree, because in the past, whenever Zhang Jian did not comply with her wishes, she always threatened him with divorce, and Zhang Jian always chose to compromise and appease her emotions.
However, to her surprise, this time Zhang Jian actually agreed. This surprised Li Xiaomei, but she still believed that even if she divorced, Zhang Jian would not be able to marry anyone else, and would eventually beg her to remarry. In this regard, she thought that even if she couldn't find better conditions, she could choose to remarry Zhang Jian, and she would have a better grasp of Zhang Jian and his mother at that time.
Therefore, Li Xiaomei felt unconfident, angrily quarreled loudly, and announced that she was going to divorce. However, what she didn't expect was that just three months later, her life had plummeted and there was no improvement, and her ex-husband Zhang Jian announced his remarriage at this time, and his new partner was even better than her.
This was unexpected by Li Xiaomei, she couldn't accept this reality. She took the mediator to Zhang's house, hoping to persuade Zhang Jian to agree to her return so that she could take care of their son.
However, Zhang Jian refused without hesitation. Li Xiaomei was furious and shouted: "You just want to occupy my son's house and prevent me from moving back." Don't try to make this house your new home. ”
The reason is that at the time of the divorce they reached an agreement to give the house to their son. Li Xiaomei insisted on refusing to use this house as a marriage room, and did not allow Zhang Jian's new girlfriend to move in.
Zhang Jian's mother calmly told everyone: "Zhang Jian's new girlfriend is not only young and beautiful, but also empathetic, and very good to children, and our family likes her very much." These words made Li Xiaomei angry, and she shouted loudly: "A stepmother is a stepmother, no matter how good she is, she can't compare to her own mother." Besides, no stepmother is really good to her children. ”
After she finished speaking, she suddenly fell to the ground with a thud, and began to splash and roll, crying for a while and making noise for a while, and had to move back to live.
Zhang Jian's mother unceremoniously dragged Li Xiaomei out of the door and pushed her out, but she still rushed in and was finally pushed out.
Seeing that this method did not work, Li Xiaomei began to talk nonsense again, shouting loudly: "I have only been away for three months, and Zhang Jian is about to get married, it must be that they have had an affair before we divorced." ”
The mediator also tried to persuade Zhang Jian: "After all, I have been married for 15 years and have two children, for the sake of the children, it is wiser to consider remarriage and give the children a complete family." ”
Zhang Jian shook his head indifferently and categorically refused: "I will never re-enter the whirlpool of marriage." We have been together for 15 years, and she has always been like a wayward child, often causing quarrels, and I really can't stand it. ”
Li Xiaomei was not reconciled, and her mood heated up again: "Either remarry, or let me move in to take care of my son, otherwise I will continue to make trouble." ”
Despite Li Xiaomei's pleading, Zhang Jian still insisted on refusing to remarry, let alone letting her move in. He was worried that Li Xiaomei was just taking care of her son, and once she moved in, she would not leave again.
The mediator expressed dissatisfaction with Zhang Jian: "Now that the house belongs to the child, how can you hold a wedding in the child's residence?" Living with children is also obviously not appropriate. ”
Zhang Jian reluctantly asked: "The child is not yet 10 years old, I am his guardian, shouldn't he live with me?" ”
The mediator insisted: "The child has his own house, he can live on his own." Zhang Jian questioned again: "He lives alone, who will take care of him?" The mediator was silent.
Li Xiaomei put forward a new suggestion: "We should respect the child's wishes and see whether he chooses to live with me or with Zhang Jian." So, we went to our children's school together. Unexpectedly, the child firmly expressed: "I want to live with my mother." ”
Li Xiaomei was very happy with this statement, and she advocated solemnly: "This house belongs to my son, and he agreed to let me move in, and Zhang Jian and his girlfriend are not welcome."
The mediator emphasized that the property belongs to the child and it should be decided by the child. However, Zhang Jian insisted on refusing: "The custody of the child has been mine, and as a guardian, he is still young, and his words cannot be established." ”
Li Xiaomei became emotional again and began to cheat, Zhang Jian reluctantly compromised, agreed to let Li Xiaomei live together, and allowed her to pack her luggage.
However, early the next morning, Zhang Jian regretted again: "The three of us living together will make the situation embarrassing and inappropriate." In addition, I paid Li Xiaomei 200,000 yuan in compensation, she promised not to live in this apartment at the time, and now if she wants to move in, she must return 200,000 yuan. Li Xiaomei was disappointed, but finally had to accept this reality.
The 200,000 yuan has been left by Li Xiaomeihua, and she can't come up with this money at present. To add insult to injury, she insisted that she would not return a penny even if she could. After all, she thinks that after 15 years in marriage, giving her 200,000 yuan is not excessive, but deserved.
As the dispute between the two sides escalated again, Zhang Jian no longer compromised, and Li Xiaomei decided to take legal action to seek custody of her son.
After the news spread, there was a lot of discussion in the neighborhood. Some people believe that Li Xiaomei is fighting for custody only to occupy the property, questioning whether she is capable enough to raise her children. In the concept of the neighborhood, Li Xiaomei's reputation is not good, and she is accused of being lazy and delicious, loving to splash and roll, not good at words, and disputes with others have become commonplace. No one in the village seemed to be able to get along well with her.
Despite facing many doubts, Li Xiaomei insisted on filing a lawsuit, hoping to fight for the right to raise her son, and decided to protect the child's legitimate rights and interests through legal procedures.
After 15 years of marriage, Li Xiaomei has never set foot in the workplace, and all expenses are earned by her husband Zhang Jian. However, she is still dissatisfied with life and is frequently dissatisfied with Zhang Jian's pickiness.
It wasn't until Li Xiaomei decided to try her hand at work that she realized how difficult it was to make money. It's a pity that it's too late at this time, because Zhang Jian has already ushered in a young, beautiful, gentle and virtuous new partner.
Since she chose to divorce, Li Xiaomei also understands that she no longer has the right to ask Zhang Jian about his new life. She began to think about what to do with the property. Although the house is nominally owned by his son, he is still only a 10-year-old child and cannot live on his own. Living with Zhang Jian and being cared for by him and his new partner was a natural choice.
In the case that Zhang Jian is about to remarry, can he use this house as a new home? This question is worth pondering.