It s hard for a girl with a disability

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-01

Trial: A divorce case exposed a number of ...... of his habitual rape

On October 16, 2023, the divorce case of Li Jiao (pseudonym) and Ding Hai (pseudonym) was heard in the Handan Economic and Technological Development Zone Court of Hebei Province.

This is a bizarre marriage proposal case, and another strange marriage case. The many habitual rape convictions accumulated behind it are outrageous!

Bizarre "suitors".

The woman in the divorce case is named Li Jiao, born in 1993, from Tao County, Handan, Hebei Province, she is a disabled mother who is now a premature baby.

As the trial unfolded, Li Jiao's thoughts returned to the terrifying past more than a year ago

One day in early December 2021, a good sister who opened a Douyin live broadcast to bring goods told Li Jiao that a young man had left a message many times at her delivery window, asking about your Li Jiao's *** He said that he was a doctor and was in a hurry to find you Li Jiao. So ask him if you want to tell him.

It turned out that Li Jiao, who has been smart and beautiful since childhood, was assessed as a first-class disability in 2013 due to a major traffic accident that caused spinal cord injury, fourth neck dislocation and fifth neck fracture. Since 2018, Li Jiao has been recuperating while recuperating, and she wants to try to do something with her meager strength, because her parents originally opened a small business store, but in recent years, she has spent a lot of savings for her paralysis, and her business has almost been left behind, so in order to comfort her parents and relieve the family's financial pressure, Li Jiao also opened a Douyin live broadcast to bring goods.

Li Jiao informed her parents of what her good sister said, and they all thought that since she was a doctor, it should be related to Li Jiao's ***, so it would be okay to consider contacting her first.

A few days later, a strange man suddenly came to Li Jiao's hospital bed, who was undergoing physical therapy. He introduced himself as Ding Hai, born in 1990, before a doctor, is a master's student, now in business, the company is mainly engaged in medical equipment, business efficiency is very good. He also said, "I saw you in the gratitude program of Satellite TV, learned about your experience of being paralyzed due to a car accident, and swiped your live broadcast with goods**, and left a few private messages in your live broadcast window, but you didn't reply." You are constantly striving for self-improvement, I have been silently following you, trying all kinds of methods, and I found you through the girl who brought the goods through the live broadcast. ”

Because he didn't understand him, and thinking of his current physical condition, Li Jiao replied to him: "Our family will do my business well, you can go, you don't have to look for me in the future." But he hurriedly said, "Jiaojiao, do you know, I have worked so hard to find you!" Now we've known each other and become friends. Li Jiao's parents disagreed.

After Ding Hai left, he still popped up from time to time, and even found Li Jiao's home. In order to win the favor of his family, he said to Li Jiao's mother in person: "In order to help Jiaojiao do better in live broadcasting, I can recommend professional people to support her." Rest assured, I will take good care of Jiaojiao. ”

couldn't drive away, and the Li family was glued.

After marriage, the original form was revealed.

One day in early February 2022, Ding Hai suddenly came again and found a reason to let me go for a break and do ** physiotherapy. He drove me to his company. When I went to the bathroom and just came out, he closed the office door, suddenly carried me to the bed, and forcibly grabbed my clothes and pants to have sex with me. I disagreed, but he didn't listen to me at all. I struggled to resist and tried to climb into my wheelchair and call my family on my phone, but he wouldn't let me. The strong man pressed me on the bed and ...... meLi Jiao cried and said.

I will always remember painfully that day when I dare not remember that my resistance was too small in front of him! I was about to go home, but Ding Hai didn't send it. He kept coaxing that he would be good to me, and that he would marry me how he would marry me. I was in a lot of pain during that time, what should I do? In my heart, I never wanted to marry him. How could he deceive me so much! ”

In her inner turmoil, Li Jiao suddenly found out that she was pregnant. When my parents heard the news, they asked their daughter why they didn't tell her parents earlier. "My parents may have misunderstood that I don't love myself, but I'm not! I ......Because of a car accident that led to disability, I have dragged down my parents for many years, and now there is this kind of ** thing by him, I am afraid that outsiders will gossip if they know, I can only endure the pain, how dare I say it? "A grievance, parents and daughters didn't speak for three days.

Ding Hai was afraid that something would happen, so he hurriedly ran to propose his marriage, behaved very responsibly, and expressed a lot of attitudes. Li Jiao and her parents also believed it.

On the engagement day on March 26, 2022, Ding Hai was very scheming, gave a bank card of communications, and said generously: Follow the customs of the locals, and the engagement bride price will be 13140,000 yuan, it means that I love you for a lifetime!

Registered in early April of the same year, and held a simple wedding in May, so Li Jiao was married home. After marriage, Ding Hai often asked Li Jiao for money on the grounds of business tensions. The daily expenses are maintained by the money Li Jiao earned before marriage. Ding Hai paid for his mobile phone (including his cousin's), and he invited people to dinner outside, etc., and Li Jiao also asked him for thousands of dollars, among which Ding Hai once asked for 5,000 yuan. This marital situation is uncomfortable. Li Jiao also cherishes the money she earned very hard before marriage. However, this was not enough, Ding Hai borrowed Li Jiao to get the money, but he promised to pay it back, but he found reasons to drag it again and again. What's even more unexpected is that several online lending institutions suddenly urged Li Jiao to repay, Li Jiao was inexplicable, after investigation, it turned out that Ding Hai used Li Jiao's mobile phone to secretly borrow money online in four institutions, totaling about 50,000 yuan.

One day, I asked him for the password of the bride price bank card, but Ding Hai repeatedly shirked it. In the end, Ding Hai said: "There is no money in it, because the payment is tight, it will be made up in a few days." "But he hasn't made up for it until today, and he has not fulfilled any of the things that he said about buying wedding room furniture, let alone how to take care of me, but he stared at me and my family and became his ATM. ”

In order to get the money, Ding Hai found an excuse to borrow money from Li Jiao's parents, but after borrowing 50,000 yuan, it was not enough to spend, and he tried to get Li Jiao's brother to guarantee a loan of 1 million yuan for him, but the loan was lost because the bank could not contact Ding Hai for several days at that time. Ding Hai was furious about this, and he was rude, thinking that the Li family deliberately did not help and was watching his jokes.

It didn't take long for Ding Hai to make another move, wanting to use the suite that the Li family bought for Li Jiao personally. Ding Hai said that his company's legal person was changed to Li Jiao, and Li Jiao was asked to use the house to give him a guaranteed loan of 3 million yuan. This house is Li Jiao's personal property before marriage, and it is the only living guarantee left by her parents for Li Jiao. Of course, Li Jiao disagrees with this. Ding Hai quarreled with the Li family, and when he learned that Li Jiao's parents said that "we, as elders, do not participate in the affairs of the two of you", he became angry, and when he returned home, he insulted and tortured Li Jiao until one o'clock in the middle of the night, did not let Li Jiao rest and sleep, and forced her to hand over her personal property before marriage.

Once, in the middle of the night, Ding Hai forced my parents to come over and asked my parents to pick me up. A few times, he left me alone in the middle of a winter night. Every day all kinds of words stimulate me, saying that I am disabled, with children who want you! often cold bursts, do not give normal water to eat. I was about to collapse and couldn't bear it, so I had to be admitted to the hospital to hang water**.

In just one or two months, Ding Hai's face has completely changed, for him, Li Jiao no longer has any use value? The two sides are at an impasse. Greater violence is coming.

For two nights in a row, Ding Hai went home from drinking and used the most obscene pranks to torture Li Jiao, who was disabled and pregnant. "He grabbed shit from my ass and wiped it in my mouth. I can't resist it, scold him and get out! The next night, he abused my ...... in the same way and even more brutally and for a long timeLi Jiao stated.

Also, I was pregnant with Liujia, and the relationship between the two sides was not harmonious, and I didn't want to have a relationship with him, but he forcibly raped me three times. In mid-October 2022, Li Jiao showed symptoms of premature birth, and her parents rushed to the hospital when they heard the news.

On the afternoon of the second day after giving birth to the operating table, Ding Hai chased Li Jiao to transfer her premarital property to him, and he took it for granted. "If you don't give, get a divorce. If you want children and don't want to divorce, then your parents will never be able to enter the door of Ding's house. He is both soft and hard. Faced with this hurried and strange marriage, Li Jiao dried up her tears. Because it is a premature baby (7 months pregnant), the baby is sensitive, so he was born in an incubator.

On October 24, 2022, Li Jiao was discharged from the hospital, and her parents sent her to a confinement center for recuperation, who was extremely sad and weak. On the day of the full moon, her parents took Li Jiao back to their home. From entering the delivery room to being discharged from the hospital, Ding Hai did not pay a penny, and disappeared again. Li Jiao's brother sent a leaflet about the missing person, and went to his hometown and his company to look for him, but there was no news. He has not been seen to visit.

The hidden secret of habitual rape.

In the litigation of this case, the defendant Ding Hai was lawfully summoned by the court to attend the trial. On October 30, 2023, the court of first instance finally made a judgment, finding that the relationship between the plaintiff and the defendant had indeed broken down, and ruled that the plaintiff Li Jiao and the defendant Ding Hai should be divorced, the baby would live with his mother Li Jiao, and Ding Hai would pay child support of 1,000 yuan per month until the child reached the age of 18 ....... Regarding the return of the loan in this lawsuit, this case has not been dealt with, and a separate lawsuit can be filed to claim the right to resolve.

The unfortunate marriage was divorced, but Ding Hai also had two incidents involving adultery that were also important reasons for the divorce of the two parties, which was even more shocking and eye-catching.

According to the information in the case, on September 17, Ding Hai was administratively detained by the Congtai District Branch of the Handan Municipal Public Security Bureau because of Ding Hai's ** case.

In fact, counting me, Ding Hai committed three crimes. Li Jiao said, "I was first forced to marry when he was pregnant." ”

didn't expect that Ding Hai had committed the ** case of others in September 2019 before marriage, which was nothing more than a slap in the face for Li Jiao after marriage. Regarding the suspected ** case committed by Ding Hai on October 18, 2022, this time happened to occur during the marriage period when Li Jiao was pregnant.

Li Jiaodao: One night in June 2022, Ding Hai called and said that he was not going home on a business trip, and I felt that something was wrong. I'm busy asking you, are you okay? He said I was fine, and that my cousin was helping with everything. After that, Ding Hai hung up **, and he couldn't be contacted all night. The next day, my dad and I went to his company and asked what was going on? His cousin was there, also known as Ding Haiyin who went in because of a fight, and said that it would take 200,000 yuan to solve the problem, and now he only made up 180,000 yuan and 20,000 yuan is really not enough, and asked me if I could transfer 20,000 yuan. I was also in a hurry, so I borrowed 20,000 yuan from a classmate surnamed Zhao and transferred it to the Li designated by his cousin (there is a transfer record as evidence).

My brother heard that Ding Hai was detained for a fight, so he asked someone to inquire out of concern, and only found out that Ding Hai was arrested on suspicion of being a female intern in a hospital, and the place of rape was also in the same office of Ding Hai's company!

After Ding Hai came out, he explained that he had been wronged. My parents said that since you said that you were wronged, then we will hire a lawyer for you to get justice. Ding Hai said again that the "** woman" case committed in September 2019 was a crime committed by a leader and had been punished as a ** woman, so this time this matter is even more serious. When my parents and I heard him say this, we immediately collapsed on the ground, and we were all stupid! Ding Hai said and cried to ask for forgiveness, he said that I would use my life to be good to Jiaojiao to make up for this mistake, hoping to get into your parents' house. I also said that my parents can rest assured, this time this matter was helped by the director of the Chinese medicine hospital to help me come forward to help me with the relationship, bought two mobile phones and spent money to solve it, and now the matter has been settled.

In fact, Ding Hai was still lying when he said that the matter had been settled and resolved, and he was essentially only released on bail at that time. And when he asked my brother to help him guarantee a loan of 1 million yuan, he happened to have an accident and was detained, so the bank could not contact him to sign.

On February 3, 2023, Li Jiao and her parents went to the district criminal police team to ask if Ding Hai's suspected ** case has really been resolved? However, he was told that the case had not been closed, and that the case had been transferred to the procuratorate and was being reviewed for prosecution.

According to the information on the previous criminal record, it is now ascertained that at 14:30 on February 20, 2023, Liu (Li Jiao's mother) went to the complex building at No. 1 Congtai District to find Ding Hai, because Ding Hai and Liu's daughter Li Jiao divorced, and when Liu asked Ding Hai to owe money to their family, a dispute broke out between the two parties, and then a fight broke out between the two parties. Liu's injuries were forensically assessed as minor. It is hereby decided to place Ding Hai under administrative detention for 10 days and to impose a fine of Wu Baiyuan.

What puzzles me is why Ding Hai committed another crime during his release on bail (residential surveillance) in the ** case, beating the old man Liu and causing injuries, and Ding Hai was not imprisoned? Why has Ding Hai, who has repeatedly committed adultery, been punished for "** attempt" and has not been punished so far? What is the reason behind this? "Although Li Jiao is disabled, women must not be deceived and so illegal**, and she is also using the law to defend her legitimate rights for what she has suffered. Li Jiao contacted and learned about the violation of the girl in the suspected ** case on October 18, 2022, and another insider also told Li Jiao the whole story of the case. At the same time, Li Jiao also learned the specific inside information of Ding Hai's "** others" case on September 17, 2019.

Cheating on sex, cheating on marriage, and unscrupulous **abuse repeatedly** women is not an isolated crime! Bad deeds are habitual, and the case behind it is serious. Those who harm others will eventually be brought to justice in the face of strong social justice and the law. Li Jiao has been so bad in just a few months, she hopes to make the best of her hardships, so that the bright sunshine and lovely smiles can bloom on the faces of her children and her family as soon as possible.

Ding Hai was dissatisfied with the first-instance judgment of the divorce case and appealed. What will be the outcome of the second trial? Let's wait and see. (Text: Sun Mingcheng, Wu Gangqing).

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