It is only when a banquet is held in the home that we can really feel how wide and narrow the social network of this family is. The previous generation usually had a lot of siblings and relatives, but in the post-90s generation, many people began to avoid dealing with complex interpersonal relationships, and many netizens worried that they might not be able to get married at the same table.
Many people hold the view that although there are many relationships in your parents' generation, many of them are not that important, and the key is your financial situation, not you.
Frankly, I wouldn't have been back in the village without the bond of my parents, and some people couldn't even call out their names, and called for several tables.
Despite the large number of people here, there are very few people who can actually help in times of trouble, and the younger generation, although they don't have a few tables, do provide substantial help with problems.
Today's younger generations no longer want to maintain family ties, and their mindset has changed. At that time, they were all fellow countrymen, going out to work and live together. But now, they're all working hard alone, so that feeling is naturally gone!
Some people think that if I didn't have the bond of my parents, I wouldn't have done this kind of thing at all, so why gather so much? Forget it, give yourself a headache. There weren't many gifts received, and for every additional table one was lost.
Why gather so much? They're just there to eat, and they're not going to help you!
Many netizens are more inclined to appreciate the simple character of rural people, they believe that this kind of family bond should be passed on, and the traditional customs of the countryside are difficult to see the complexity of society, so in daily affairs, everyone will lend a hand.
It's not just a few tables, no matter how far away you are, and you're helping you to do it for hundreds of years.
When I got married, I invited more than 70 people, but more than 10 of them did not attend, and they all came with gifts and money.
When I was younger, I had a lot of friends and friends, which proved that I wasn't a person who didn't like to socialize. But now, if you really want to ask me, based on my social skills, how many tables can I get together, it's really too few. In the past, I just cared about my circle of friends, but now I just want to earn a small amount of living expenses.
If you really want to make it up, you can indeed get together a lot of people, but if you need to borrow money for something, it is absolutely impossible to borrow it.
Nowadays, many netizens no longer pay attention to these things, and some people go to the event even if they are not familiar with it, which makes them feel tired. Some people are very serious, while others rarely respond to ...... when they return the gift
The way people socialize has changed. The deep cultivation of the past is becoming more and more inadequate, and on the big stage of socializing, short-term encounters have become the norm. In the past, people's social environment was relatively stable, and the relationship between people was a way of in-depth maintenance. Nowadays, while social means have become more diverse and social circles have expanded, digging deeper is no longer appropriate due to increased mobility.
What do you think of the fact that young people today are gradually neglecting to interact with their families? Life is full of flavors, young people are busy with the world, busy and busy. Looking forward to hearing with you! Social