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Vinny Sha Tu Nisha
Hi, I'm Nisha. It's easy to fall in love, but it's not easy to get married. In such a world of flowers, feelings are like quadrilaterals and become very unstable. Many women crave a kind of certainty, so they try all kinds of ways to eat the other half, in fact, if there are no tricks, the real move is the simplest.
In the rivers and lakes of love, there is a kind of woman who does not rely on appearance, does not rely on means, and only relies on a "calm" energy, they can firmly eat their lovers.
This is not an unfathomable spell, but they know how to use wisdom and strategy at the five critical moments to make the boat of love steady and ride the wind and waves.
1. When arguing, calming down is a "fire extinguisher".
Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June. "When arguing, the emotions of both sides are like powder kegs, just one point. At this time, if a woman can calm down and not add fuel to the fire, it is equivalent to holding the handle of the fire extinguisher.
They will not be aggressive, nor will they speak coldly, but use a calm tone to defuse each other's anger. It's like a sudden rainstorm that meets a gentle breeze and naturally dissipates.
The calm woman understands that arguing is not the goal, solving the problem is the key. They will wait for both parties to calm down before sitting down and talking. This way of dealing with it not only impresses the lover, but also makes the relationship more stable.
Second, before **, calming down is a "talisman".
The spring garden can't be closed, and a branch of red apricot comes out of the wall. "* Everywhere, like the scent of flowers in spring, always makes people want to get closer. But if a woman can calm down at this time and stick to her principles and bottom line, she can avoid a lot of unnecessary troubles.
They know that ** is like a sugar-coated poison, which seems sweet, but is actually deadly. Therefore, they will always keep a clear head and not be confused by the distractions of the outside world. Such a woman not only reassures her lover, but also makes herself more confident and attractive.
3. When you are lost, calming your breath is a "self-healing medicine".
If life is only as first seen, what is the autumn wind and sad fan. "There are always times in life when things don't go your way, and there are ...... of loss, frustration, and helplessnessThese negative emotions are like ghosts in the dark, ready to consume our hearts at all times. But calm women know how to self-regulate, and they don't let these negative emotions affect their lives and relationships.
They know that loss is only temporary, and that there will always be a turn for the better in life. Therefore, they will use their own ways to relieve their emotions, such as reading books, listening to **, doing sports, ......These activities not only relax their minds, but also make them more positive about life. Such a woman is like a rose that never withers, exuding a charming fragrance at all times.
Fourth, before the achievement, calm down is a "reassuring pill".
If you don't fly, it's just a sky; If you don't make a sound, it's a blockbuster. "When a certain level of success is achieved in love or career, many people can't help but want to show off. But a calm woman understands the truth of "full of losses, humble benefits". They don't show off their achievements too much, but keep a normal heart and continue to work hard.
They know that achievements are only in the past tense, and that there is still a long way to go in the future. Therefore, they will regard achievements as a spur to move forward, rather than a capital to show off. Such a woman not only impresses her lover, but also makes her life more exciting.
Fifth, in the bland, calm air is the "preservative".
I wish to win the hearts of one person, and the white heads are inseparable. "Love will eventually return to dullness, and firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea will replace the wind and snow. But a calm woman knows how to create romance and surprises in the ordinary, so that love is as fresh as ever.
They know that blandness is not the end of love, but a new starting point. Therefore, they will manage their love life with their hearts, so that every day is full of freshness and happiness. Such a woman is like a glass of mellow wine, the more you taste it, the more flavorful it becomes.
Conclusion:
In the practice of love, a calm woman can always easily cope with various challenges and **.
They use their wisdom and strategies to make the boat of love steady and ride the wind and waves; They know how to give each other support and understanding when it matters most; They know how to create romance and surprise in the ordinary; They understand that happiness needs to be fought for and cherished.
So, do you want to eat your lover? Let's learn to calm down first! After all, "the heavens will descend on the people, and they must first work hard and work their muscles and bones" - and among them, "calm down" is a compulsory course on the road to happiness!