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Do you drink? The Spring Festival is coming soon, and it's time to drink at the party, and after drinking, many people will be exposed.
At the wine table, people often say that "wine is character", although this is somewhat absolute, but it is not unreasonable. Alcohol is like a demon mirror, reflecting the "little ninety-nine" hidden in everyone's heart.
Today, let's talk about those things at this wine table and see how to spy on a person's character through drinking.
First, the attitude before drinking, the first hints
Before the start of the drinking game, some people were already eager to try it, as if the focus of the whole drinking game was none other than him. They greeted the waiter loudly, urging them to hurry up and serve the wine, looking impatient.
And some people sit quietly on the sidelines, smiling and watching all this, they are not in a hurry or impatient, like a pool of spring water, undisturbed.
Of these two types of people, the former tends to be impatient and showy; The latter is usually calm and reserved.
Second, the performance in the wine, the nature is revealed
After three rounds of drinking, some people began to let go of themselves, making loud noises, and even shouting at the waiters, with a posture of being the only one in the world. Their words were full of pride and prejudice, as if the whole world should revolve around him.
Others, on the other hand, are always humble and courteous, and they treat everyone with respect, whether they are waiters or friends. Their words are full of sincerity and kindness, which makes people feel like a spring breeze.
Of these two types of people, the former tends to be self-centered and lack empathy; The latter are usually kind-hearted and respectful.
3. Drunken behavior, character is fully displayed
Drinking and spitting out the truth is not false at all. Some people start talking gibberish after drinking, and even speak ill of others, and their behavior becomes rude and rude, which makes people feel very uncomfortable.
Others, on the other hand, are able to maintain a clear head and good behavior despite drinking, either by talking softly to others or by silently caring for their drunken friends.
These two types of people, the former tend to be emotionally unstable and lack self-restraint; The latter usually have strong convictions and a strong heart.
Fourth, the amount of alcohol is not necessarily critical
At the wine table, we often meet some "wine gods" and "wine fairies", who seem to have a natural mass, no matter how much they drink, their faces will not change. However, the amount of alcohol consumed does not prove anything, what matters is the attitude and manner of drinking.
Although some people drink an amazing amount of alcohol, they do not know how to control it, and often get drunk and even do some out-of-the-ordinary things.
And some people, although they drink a mediocre amount, can always get the right amount of measure, they know when to drink and when to stop.
Of these two types of people, the former often lacks self-control; The latter usually have good self-management skills.
Fifth, to meet friends with wine, the emphasis is on friendship
The most important thing to make friends at the wine table is to see if they can treat each other sincerely. Although some people drink an astonishing amount of alcohol, they only care about their own pleasure, and never care about the feelings of others, and they only have the glass and their own happiness in their eyes.
And some people, although they drink averagely, can always take care of other people's emotions in the subtleties, and they have not only wine glasses in their eyes, but also friends and friendships.
These two types of people, the former are often selfish and difficult to make deep friends; The latter are usually kind-hearted and worthy of deep friendship.
Conclusion:
Observing a person's character at the wine table is like tasting a glass of wine. Some people taste it at first, but the taste is endless; Some people taste the intense stimulation at first, but the taste is bitter and hard to swallow.
The quality of a person's character is not based on what a person says, but on what he does; Not by how he behaves in front of people, but by how he behaves behind people.
Therefore, if you want to truly understand a person's character at the wine table, you need to taste his every subtle movement and expression with your heart. At the same time, we also need to understand that everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and there is no perfect person.
At the wine table, we must learn to tolerate and understand others, and not easily deny a person because of a momentary gaffe or mistake. Only in this way can we truly make like-minded friends at the wine table and taste the beauty and true meaning of life together.