What kind of state in life can be called a truly mature person? I have no way of knowing. However, I have heard that when people become more and more quiet and willing to be silent, this is not a sign of compromise or cowardice, but a sign of becoming more mature. Perhaps, silence is a sign of maturity. In silence, people will look back on themselves and think about the value and meaning of life, which is a kind of spiritual purification that transcends the world. No matter how silent life is, the soul must always witness the breath of life and feel the true meaning of life. However, in my cognitive view, I think that when a person becomes more and more mature, there will definitely be a big change. Maybe it's becoming more and more silent, maybe it's becoming more open-minded, or it's being more true to your heart and living your life the way you like, but no matter what changes, a truly mature person will never do these five things. 
1. Don't get entangled with bad people and bad thingsA truly mature person will never get entangled with those bad people or things. Because they understand that this will only ruin their lives and their moods. It's not worth it, and it's not necessary. A truly mature person will choose a positive attitude towards life, pursue what he wants, and make his heart more fulfilling. They understand that having a positive attitude, a determined heart, and a zest for life is what it takes to be a successful and happy person. In life, you must know how to avoid troubles, so as to maintain peace of mind and make life easy. If you always pay attention to bad people and bad things, you will eventually become a bad person. Let's keep up with the sunshine and leave behind the dark corners to have a good time! Life is limited, time and energy are precious, so we must know how to spend this precious resource in a meaningful way. Only in this way can you make yourself more mature and live a more meaningful life. Do you feel that way? Let's make the most of each day together. 
2. Don't complain about the sky, life is full of hardships, and the road of life will also go through twists and turns, and it is impossible for everyone to escape. Therefore, we should learn to go with the flow and not complain about fate. After all, everyone suffers, but we can also be strong. Blaming Destiny and others will only make your situation even more irreversible. A mature person wouldn't do that because they know that complaining won't solve the problem. Instead, they will look for solutions and forge new paths for themselves. It's an attitude of growth that not only helps you change but also makes you a better person. When life's hardships come, we should face them bravely and without flinching. Only in this way will it be possible for us to overcome difficulties and win success. Let's muster the courage and do our best to overcome the tribulations and usher in a better future. 
3. No longer force fate, and no one can control it. Some people and some things are destined to be unchangeable. We need to learn to accept and not force. Every journey in life has its beginning and end, and what you can't give up is the good memories you once had. Cherish the present, cherish the process, so that every teardrop and laughter can become a wonderful pen in life. Some melons are forcibly twisted and do not taste sweet; Some fates are forcibly pursued, and it is difficult to maintain them for a long time. Instead of being reluctant, we should go with the flow and let everything go with the flow. If you are tired of yourself and tired of your heart, why force it? Let the mind be free, look down on everything, and embrace the world with a broad mind. Go with the flow, let fate come naturally, and let fate leave happily, no need to force it, no need to obsession. This practice is not only the best attitude towards life, but also a rare maturity and wisdom. 
4. We don't get angry easilyWhen we were young, we were prone to tantrums, but we were also easy to calm down quickly; When we grow up, although we are not so easy to get angry, once we get angry, it is easy to bring unhappiness into our hearts, and even become a hurdle in our hearts. As the years go by, we need to learn to better control our emotions, turn our grief and anger into strength, and turn our inner hurdles into smooth paths. A truly mature person is not never angry, but not easily angry. Even if there is fire in their hearts, they can quickly calm down their inner emotions. Because they know how to let go, they won't let anger affect their emotions and lives. They know that letting anger take over their minds will only make them too tired. Therefore, making yourself better and controlling your emotions is something that a truly mature person should learn. Anger is the most loss-making transaction, which not only harms the physical health, but also hurts the mind. Learning not to get angry is the real winner, and naturally gaining greater bearing and becoming more mature and stable. Let us know how to control our emotions and bloom the beauty of our hearts. 
5. Don't lose your temperEveryone has their own temper, but a truly amazing person can control his emotions and won't lose his temper at will. Mature people know how to solve problems through rational thinking and communication, rather than letting emotions control their words and actions. We must learn to be such people, so that our growth and progress are not limited by our temper. To be a human being, you must understand that once the temper is sent out, it is difficult to take it back. Not only that, but it can also harm others and thus endanger itself. If you can't control your temper, you'll end up falling victim to it. So be kind to yourself and be kind to those around you. May we learn to be rational, restrained, and graceful in our dealings with others. When your emotions are no longer out of control and your temper is getting calmer, it will make you feel more mature. Because learning to control your emotions means that you have mastered a better way of life. In the process, you will learn to express yourself better, be more considerate and understanding of others, and be more respected and trusted by others. 
To live, people need to continue to grow and mature. The process of growing up is often accompanied by pain, but it is difficult for people to mature without experiencing some pain. When you have experienced the trough of life, tasted the ups and downs of the world, and experienced the warmth and coldness of the world, you can still love life and keep your heart warm, then congratulations, you have matured! When you're really mature, you'll no longer be entangled in those bad things and bad people. You don't complain, you don't demand, you don't lose your temper. You will be more loyal to yourself, pursue beauty and happiness more, and make your life more exciting! At this time, you will feel inner peace and the joy of growth. Success is not about achieving much material wealth, but about the abundance and fulfillment of the soul, which is achieved when we have mature wisdom and firm faith. Maturity is not only the growth of age, but also the sublimation of the mind. Maturity is a realm, let us move towards a better tomorrow! May you be positive and optimistic and have a good time!