The weak are as angry as a tiger, and the strong are as calm as water. Emotions are like demons within. If you don't control them, they'll eat you.
Emotional stability is a good cultivation. Behind a person's emotional stability, there is both strength and pattern. ”
In this life, if you can manage your emotions well and not lose your temper, then you are half the battle.
A kind word warms you for three winters, but a bad word hurts you for six months. Keep your mouth shut at all times and don't offend others casually.
Make others happy, and you will be happy too. Say more nice things, say more heart-warming things, and don't say hurtful things at any time.
People's lives are not easy. If you understand each other, tolerate each other, put yourself in the shoes of others, and compare your own feelings with others, your heart will calm down and your anger will disappear.
The heart is like a wild horse that has escaped, and its temper comes and goes quickly. The strong control the temper, and the weak are controlled by the temper.
Being too angry is harmful to the body, and most people who are prone to tantrums are not in good health. Most people who are physically fit are emotionally stable and in a good state of mind.
A capable person with a gentle personality and gentle speech. He will deal with serious things realistically and will not lose his temper.
Incompetent people have a short temper, hurt others with their words, and lose their temper over trivial things.
Just look at a person's temper to know what his future will look like. People with a good temper have good popularity, many opportunities, good luck, and a smooth life.
Wang Yangming said: "Everyone has their own set of needles, and the root of all changes is always in the heart. But he laughed and said that he had turned over in the past, looking for it beyond the branches and leaves. ”
If the heart is firm, it will conquer the heavens. You are the only one who can rely on yourself. Look to yourself for the reason for everything, look inward, not outward.
Finding reasons from others, asking outsiders for advice, and changing others will only make you troubled and unhappy.
Find your inner reason, look inward, change yourself, and you will become happier and happier.
Everyone wants to be blessed and wants the five blessings to come to their doorstep, including longevity, wealth, health, virtue, and a good death.
In fact, happiness is achieved by doing good, saying good words, and doing good. Do more and help in times of need, and blessings will come uninvited.
Su Shi wrote in "Tixilin Pen":
Looking horizontally, such as the ridge and the peak, the distance and the height are different, and I don't know the true face of Lushan, just because I am in this mountain. ”
The dragon gave birth to nine sons, each of whom was different. There are thousands of faces, and everyone has their own ideas.
Father and son are the closest relatives, and twin brothers cannot have the same ideas and ideas.
There are no two leaves in the world that are exactly the same, and no two people who think exactly the same thing.
Everyone has their own career, their own destiny, their own thoughts, their own destiny.
If we have different paths, don't work together. Don't force others, and don't force yourself. Allow others to be others, and also allow yourself to be yourself.
If you get along, you can walk together for a while, but if you don't get along, you will fall apart, and the road will be facing the sky, and each will go its own way.
Fate has depths and shallows, and people are different. Some people are destined to be strangers when they meet, and some people are destined to be acquaintances when they meet.
Only a very small number of people are able to connect with each other and hit the road together. I can't understand it, I can't let go of it, just because I'm in it.
Life is like a play, jump outside the play, watch the play, laugh at you for being an idiot, laugh at you for being a fool, don't know the true face of Lushan, just because you are in this mountain.
In this life, people don't have to be too real. True and false, false and true. Cycle after cycle, hundreds of years have passed in the blink of an eye, and with the sound of gongs and drums, the play is over.
Obviously, there are a lot of things in the play, but there is nothing in the play. Be open-minded, optimistic, and have a good attitude, and your life will be full of happiness.
The auspicious dragon celebrates the New Year.