Introduction.
Every parent will encounter many problems when their children grow up, and the most common question is: Mommy, shall I call? Parents should take children's questions seriously, give appropriate answers, and fully respect children's desire to learn. There is no one exact answer to this question, and any family can provide an appropriate answer for the child's age and cognitive level, focusing on the choice of language and the method of communication to maintain the child's mental health.
Don't shy away, don't be shy, take your problems seriously.
Many parents are confused when they hear their children ask where they come from, and some people avoid or change the subject. However, this kind of answer not only does not satisfy the baby, on the contrary, it can also make the baby feel uneasy and suspicious. So parents should take the questions raised by their children seriously. Even if your answer is not very formal or formal, you should respect him and give an honest answer. This will not only make the child feel satisfied, but also bring the parent and the child closer together.
In addition, parents can also use this opportunity to understand their children's innermost thoughts. In this kind of communication, parents can better understand their children's inner self and can get more appropriate answers from their thoughts.
Answers should be concise and to the point, not beyond the outline.
When answering children's questions, parents should choose appropriate expressions according to their children's age and cognitive level. Give your child a short and simple answer. For example, you can say to your child, "You are my mother, you are my mother." This kind of answer is enough for children who don't know much about the specific situation and common sense of technology.
However, if it is a child with a high level of curiosity, parents can expand the answer to the scope of what is as simple as possible. As long as you introduce a little basic biological knowledge, students can understand that the combination of sperm and egg cell is the foundation of life, without having to elaborate on the principle. The most important thing is to choose the right answers according to the child's personality and needs, so as not to turn the child's curiosity into an excessive desire for unhealthy information.
For children of all ages, their language is carefully arranged.
Because children at different ages have different understandings of the answers, parents should choose the appropriate answers for the child's age. For young children, you can use the concise, clear answers described earlier. In the adolescent stage, they have grown to a considerable extent, both physically and mentally, and are able to receive deeper answers.
When answering these questions, parents can use some popular physiological common sense to explain, so that young children understand that pregnancy and childbirth are natural. However, parents should be extra careful not to let their children have bad thoughts or messages when making statements. The focus is on educating children about the origin of life and the laws of nature, but also on preventing overexaggeration and undue mental burden.
Mother's personal experience and perception.
Each mother has her own personal experience and ideas, and her own unique approach to answering her children's questions. When I became a mother, I was mentally prepared to face these questions, and I wanted to respond to the baby's questions in the most concise language and give a sincere and warm answer.
I smiled and said, "You're my child, you're my child." Even though her answer was brief, I could feel her satisfaction and relief. For him, his mother is his closest relative, and he is already very satisfied with his mother.
When my baby grows up, I will gradually increase his answers so that he can understand. Whether it is the most basic biological knowledge or the miracle of creating all things, I will go from simple to complex, so that he can gradually understand himself and his origins.
Conclusion. Think carefully about children's questions about where they come from. There is not only one answer, and parents can decide the answer according to their age and level of acceptance. It is necessary to respect children's curiosity and curiosity, answer children's questions in an easy-to-understand manner, and provide appropriate information in a timely manner to maintain children's mental health. As parents, they should use their own experience and perception to give the most appropriate answers, so that they can understand the true meaning of life. Let us work together to treat the difficulties encountered by children with a positive attitude, and build a mutual trust and closeness with them, so as to provide the best guidance and guidance for the healthy development of children.