In today's society, it is common for the elderly to live together, but there are still very conservative and traditional people, so the elderly live alone!
Mother-in-law is 70 years old this year, her body is still strong, a few years ago her father-in-law died of cancer, and her mother-in-law who doesn't know a lot of words lives alone in her hometown, and it's not easy for an old lady, but there is no way, what if you are not in the countryside? Her son has no house and no household in Beijing, renting a house of nearly 5,000 yuan a month, and then not only has one more mouth, but also a medical treatment is an expense, her father-in-law has cancer for 5 years, although no one has paid except for his son, but a bunch of people are recruited to go to various big cities to see a doctor, and the look is super crazy, and her father-in-law is still undergoing chemotherapy in the hospital half a month before his death, and finally both people and money are empty!
In this way, the lonely and widowed mother-in-law lives alone, and the two girls are doing well, but there is a child in the countryside to prevent the elderly, although the old man did not give her son a few dollars, but the son needs to pay for the doctor, so he points to the son, and it is not difficult to go to the girl's house! I think the elderly are physically tough, the father-in-law is not there, the mother-in-law is only in her 60s, it is not bad to have a partner to live, the home is very decent, there is also a land, there is a sick two people to take care of each other, it is better than just installing a camera in the house! The children are far away, but the children of other people are not allowed to look for it, the old lady's body is not as good as a year, how many years can a person farm the land? I have to give my son a little thing, the sesame is exaggerated into a big watermelon, my son is a mother's boy, and the two sisters are also like my mother, and the family belongs to the yin and yang!
In the past few years after marriage, the old lady has beaten her son for big and small things, I feel bad when I hear it, the home is far away from the pharmacy and the hospital, the old lady is not illiterate, and she has to come out for a check-up if she is a little sick, either go to Shenyang or come to Beijing! If you don't ride your own tricycle to the town pharmacy to buy medicine, I don't think it's always the way to go! According to the customs of the hometown, the mother-in-law can't do it, so she has to come to her son to support the elderly, the mother-in-law is born to chatter, gong-like voice, chattering all day long, listening to her is a kind of torture! The energy is very strong during the day and night, and normal people are different, during the day they are either with the old family**, or go to the kitchen to jingle, or they can't be idle for a moment, and they don't consider the feelings of others, they are not stupid when they say that they are stupid, and they are not the same as normal people, and someone will say that their mother-in-law can't think of it, how can normal people not think of it? What are you going to the kitchen when you don't get to dinner? It doesn't matter if others rest or not, she talks about her by herself, ** thing, even when she goes to the toilet at night, she slams the door, when she talks about her, he means that he is afraid of noisy me, I am directly speechless! I am also tired because of these trivial quarrels, and my heart is not very good, and my heart is not big, and I can't sleep every time I am angry with my mother-in-law!
In the years after marriage, every time I went back for the New Year, I was noisy and had a headache, and if I didn't let my mother-in-law speak, she was not happy. In my family, either I have a headache from noise, or my mother-in-law is unhappy, or I have a big fight, and we are not used to each other! Therefore, when a woman chooses a man, she must go to the man's house before marriage to understand the personality of her in-laws and the customs and habits of her hometown! A person's character cannot be changed, no matter whether it is right or wrong, it can only be said that it cannot be accepted in the bones! Together, it is pain and suffering, and it cannot be changed!
In the mother-in-law, the children do not agree to find a partner with the wife, it is even more impossible to send the nursing home, both daughters have in-laws, according to the hometown customs are to come to the son to support the elderly, someone means to let the mother-in-law farm at home first, and let the girl take care of it, the mother-in-law has a very alternative personality, go to the girl's house and can't stand the mother-in-law, always scold people behind the back, the girl goes to the mother-in-law's house to serve is impossible, people still have a home! Someone is a mom boy, and he came here according to his mother-in-law, and he came here to torture me.
People face disconnection in middle age! No matter what, it's miserable, and I'm unwilling to be in this painful entanglement and unchangeable status quo! What a wrong step!