Two days ago, I saw such a private message in the background: the man said that he has been under a lot of pressure at work recently, he is very tired every day, and the effect is not ideal when he is with his girlfriend. He thought that his girlfriend would be warm and comforting, but what he was waiting for was a reproach, and he clearly told him to break up if he couldn't improve within a certain period of time, which hit him hard.
In fact, the netizen's situation is not unique.
Whether male ability is normal or not is related to many factors, among which the partner's attitude is one of the core elements to promote male ability. It is important to know that the understanding, care, enlightenment, and support of a partner can make men receive positive emotions, and vice versa, let men be disturbed by negative emotions all day long, and the power of emotions has a wide impact on male ability and men's health.
In TCM theory, the manifestations of diseases caused by emotional problems are collectively referred to as "depression syndrome". The so-called "depression syndrome" refers to the poor operation of the "qi" that maintains the normal life activities of the human body due to emotional restlessness such as anxiety, depression, sorrow, irritability, sadness, tension, etc., causing qi stagnation. Qi stagnation will cause the function of the body's internal organs to be impaired, and then show different physiological symptoms.
According to TCM theory, the liver is the organ most directly affected by emotions. Yuan Dynasty physician Zhu Zhenheng's "Gezhi Yu Treatise ยท It is recorded in the Theory of Yang and Yin Insufficiency: "The liver of the person who is discharged by the division is also", which refers to the role of liver qi in dredging and smoothing the qi of the whole body, and then regulating the operation of blood throughout the body. Qi stagnation leads to liver depression, liver depression leads to poor blood circulation, and qi and blood do not reach the kidneys, resulting in kidney deficiency and sluggishness, which is manifested as impaired male ability.
In TCM syndrome differentiation, due to qi stagnation and blood stasis, the waist and knees are sore, weak and sluggish, and the principles of soothing the liver and relieving depression, invigorating blood circulation and removing blood stasis, and tonifying the kidney and benefiting yang should be used to treat the symptoms of Chinese patent medicines such as liver soothing and benefiting yang. The medicine is composed of fifteen flavors of traditional Chinese medicine, which can "alleviate symptoms such as impaired male ability, chest tightness, chest fullness, and soreness in the waist and knees".
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In addition to standardizing medication, men should also pay attention to relieving emotional pressure in a timely manner and find a suitable way to relieve stress and anxiety, such as hiking, jogging, listening, etc. At the same time, when you feel that you are in a bad mood, you should take the initiative to communicate with your partner, and do not reluctantly start certain activities, otherwise it is easy to give up halfway, which will further increase the psychological burden.
In addition, women should also pay attention to the mental health of their male partners, do not blindly blame, scold or demean when encountering problems, guide their partners to open up and talk about their inner feelings, actively persuade their partners to accept formal **, and if necessary, they can participate in mental health training or lectures with their partners, so as to help their partners recover their health as soon as possible.