There will always be various obstacles in life, and even the cautious person cannot avoid it. Libra's daily habits are smooth and balanced. A life that seems to have no waves will actually encounter a lot of ups and downs.
Interpersonal Libras often strive for elegance and decency and therefore appear too condescending. For example, on occasions when people are happy, Libra always does not like to be shaped. Or in the case of poor economic conditions, they still pursue a refined and luxurious lifestyle.
Libras can easily end up complaining in life, not because they are bad. It's that the scales are good, and they don't seem so affordable.
It's like people are obviously not capable of maintaining a good life, but Libra feels that others are not attentive enough. It is difficult for Libra to truly understand the difficulties of others, and it is easy to speculate on each other with his own thinking. Even when others tell about their difficulties, they think that the other party is asking for their own hardships.
Libra's care seems to be condescending and easy to perceive as hypocritical. This is a hurdle for Libra to interact with people, and it is difficult for people to truly perceive their good intentions.
As a result, Libra people are prone to not being really favored by others, and on the contrary, they will make people feel that standing and talking does not hurt their back. It was even considered to be a mockery, and the relationship suffered a waterloo because of it.
Ego Libras are often looking for a good image and craving to be loved. As a result, they regulate their words and deeds, and rarely destroy their image. This kind of concern allows him to restrain himself at all times. For example, when there is an argument with someone, Libra will restrain his temper.
Rarely get angry, and even take the initiative to take a step back if it doesn't even involve issues of principle. And this kind of stepping back, unconsciously, is infringing on the interests of Libra's own Libra.
Libras are easily taken advantage of without knowing it, becoming a punching bag or a provider of benefits for others. Libra sometimes knows that he is losing, and it is difficult to find a solution. Libra's super self-control makes others raise the demands on Libra.
When Libra tries to reclaim their interests, it can be perceived as ignorant. Suppressing yourself too much will make Libra not get what she deserves.
This is one of the ups and downs of Libra, fulfilling others and making oneself suffer. Suppressing oneself makes it difficult to gain the respect of others sincerely. On the contrary, it will make people ignore their needs because of excessive concessions.
Relationship Libra's emotional ups and downs are mostly due to hindsight. It is difficult for Libra to find a true balance in her feelings, but Libra always wants to find a balance. Where there is a slight imbalance, Libra will be anxious because of it.
For example, if the relationship is too strong, Libra people are prone to feel uncomfortable because of it. They will feel that they need to let the relationship fade so that they can feel comfortable.
Libras tend to lower their enthusiasm and socialize with each other less often. Keep letting the relationship warm up and cool down, and Libra himself will feel tired. Libra tends to attribute this tiredness to the fact that the other party makes him unhappy.
Libras tend to end their relationships to keep them happy, and they tend to regret it afterwards. This stems from the fact that Libra's emotional problems are temporary, and after they are resolved, it is easy to recall the good of the other party.
The attitude of Libra people is easy to confuse others. As a result, people will experience emotional ups and downs, and people will feel tired of interacting with Libra. Tired, it is easy to make feelings unbalanced. Libra will have ups and downs everywhere, so they don't want to be in touch with feelings.
Message. Most of the time, the ups and downs that Libras encounter are over-amplification of certain traits. They tend to lose their sense of order and feel that life is turbulent, and that's what makes it difficult. When the scales feel balanced everywhere, it's hard to feel like it's bumpy.