In the traditional concept of the older generation, getting married and having children is a major event in life, whether it is getting married by yourself or getting married by children, it is one of the few major events in life.
Therefore, the word "starting a family and starting a business" puts "starting a family" in front of "starting a business", which shows that the ancients attached great importance to marriage and having children.
It is precisely because of the blessing of this concept that people in the past got married very early, and it was not uncommon to marry a daughter-in-law at a young age.
However, with the development of the times, our marriage age is getting later and later, and there are many people in their thirties who have not yet found a partner, and it will be strange if a young father-in-law or mother-in-law suddenly appears.
Just like this man, just 40 years old, he was "upgraded" to become a father-in-law, young and handsome, he and his son-in-law stood together like brothers, which was amazing.
Netizens shouted: I'm not married at this age!
According to insiders, the man who sat on the stool to accept the groom's salute is one of today's happy lords, the father of the bride and the father-in-law of the groom.
Don't be surprised, this young, handsome-looking man is indeed young.
According to neighbors, this man is a post-80s generation, just 40 years old this year, and if you follow the algorithm that people in the city are used to, he is only 39 years old.
Because he got married early and had children early, his daughters are now of marriage age. Like my parents, I got married very early.
So there is the current scene, when the father-in-law is sitting in the high hall, and the son-in-law is standing opposite him and saluting, which makes people look dazed.
Facing the long guns and short cannons at the wedding, the man was obviously a little overwhelmed, and looked at his daughter in a wedding dress blankly, with a reluctant expression.
After the couple finished their luggage, at the request of the host, the young father-in-law and son-in-law gave a warm hug, and then stood together for a group photo.
At this time, everyone realized that the young father-in-law and son-in-law were standing together, just like brothers, and they couldn't tell which one was the groom!
Netizens watched it and shouted: It's really too young. Also as a post-80s generation, my child has just reached the full moon. This is a generation behind the rhythm!
Some netizens also said: Your child is just a full moon, I am also 39 years old this year, everyone is a father-in-law, I haven't found a daughter-in-law yet!
It seems that everyone thinks it is very strange, as the generation of the post-80s, it is the time of polarization. Some people get married and have children early, and some people still haven't found a partner.
The photographer said that although such a situation is not many in rural areas, it is not unusual. It's just that most of them look more mature, and there aren't many who look so young and handsome like this man.
Some netizens said: It's good to be young, and I still have the energy to help children take care of babies. I am 42 years old, my child has just started kindergarten, and if I want to be a father-in-law, I will have to wait at least 20 years. When the time comes, it would be nice that I don't need to be served, and the children's help will not be helpful at all. Envy him.
The author believes that everyone has their own life. It doesn't matter if you marry early or later, as long as you live happily. As for whether you have the energy to help your child take care of the baby in the future, then let it be.
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and they must live their lives well first, and then they will have the energy to help their children.
Of course, being young is better! Just like this father-in-law, he completed his life tasks at a young age, and he can live his life for the rest of his life. That's nice!