Because of her obesity and low self-esteem, Du Leying did not dare to speak loudly, and stayed at home for ten years after graduating from college. In the eyes of family, lovers, and friends, she is an existence that can be ignored at any time, and she will not care about her feelings.
She gives up on herself every day, sleeps lazy, eats snacks, smokes, doesn't work, and every kindness she takes for granted.
My sister's children need a school district house to go to school, so she asked her to change the name of the house to herself; In order to choose a topic, my cousin asked her to help record the show, so she was put in the situation of being discussed; The lover betrayed her cheating best friend, but invited her to their wedding, every time, she didn't say "no", and silently endured these pains, but the pain in her heart spread little by little.
Le Ying's efforts to give others did not earn more kindness, and just when she thought she had met love and was full of joy, this love hurt her again. Haokun, who she thought was warm, became the person who hurt her the most. She paid for him for the first time, made meals in different ways every day, and worked hard for his dream, but she was not recognized. When she went to the lounge to look for him, and when she asked him to win the game instead of collecting money to cheat, he replied to her, "What a life, waiter, you have a dream." Every word hurt her heart. The people she thought had dreams would only compromise for the sake of reality. At the turn, she heard Haokun say that I was your object, and when she went home with you, she realized that she had become the most ridiculous person.
When the last straw on the show overwhelmed her, those words never meant that, but the facts were distorted, she was scolded by everyone, but she still had to complete Doudou's regular program. Sadly, desolation swept over everything at the moment of fall. On the way home, the lights turned on layer by layer, and layer by layer went out, Le Ying could no longer bear the blow and jumped from the building, but she was not even injured. The moment she didn't die was the moment she was reborn. She no longer suffers from gains and losses, no longer wants to make compromises, and begins to try to learn to love herself and strive to change.
You only have one life, so be kind to yourself. It's okay to be ridiculed, it's okay to want to cry, it's okay to fail, you have the courage to dare to be yourself. Le Ying began to run, box, fall down again and again, pay again and again, train day after day, from spring to winter, use her perseverance to lose weight, glow with a different charm. The biggest change is not the outside, but the inner self-confidence, she has changed from a weak and kind, gratifying personality to a confident girl who has learned to please herself.
Every punch Le Ying throws is a farewell to the past and an expectation for the future. The process of change was painful, but she gained a new and different one.
In the boxing ring, although she did not achieve the final victory of the match, she has already won, won the past self, and won the compromise of Haokun in life. From this moment, she learned to love herself, learned to live a more wonderful life, worked hard to become excellent, and worked hard to be a wonderful person. Self-sufficient love will continue to flow, and relying on others for charity will always be a matter of gain and loss. Love makes Le Ying more tenacious and brave. When Haokun was amazed by a different Le Ying on the field and wanted to date her after the game, Le Ying said, "Another day." "Depending on the mood, I'll go first. Loving yourself and knowing how to say "no" is the beginning of all good things.
No matter what you're going through right now, or what kind of life you're living, it's never too late to have a heart that wants to change. Remember, love yourself well, you deserve the best of everything in the world.