Author: Wen Qiusheng.
Original article, plagiarism must be investigated.
Anything, the moment it happens quietly, has signs. If it is going to rain, the swallows fly low.
Marriage, whether it can go on or not, will also leave traces.
If a man betrays his marriage, his words and deeds will reveal his indifference and disregard for his family and wife.
Women, if a man "deviates" outside of marriage, there will be two words: positive.
On the radio, I heard such a story:
After a woman gets married, she takes out all her dowry money and starts a business with a man.
worked hard with a man to work hard in her career, and just as her career was rising step by step, she became pregnant. For the sake of her family, she took a back seat.
In the beginning, the man came home early every day and helped the woman with everything. However, when she was eight months pregnant, the man began to get busy.
He often socializes, works overtime, and is often busy.
Although the woman hopes that he can accompany her, when she thinks that her career also needs to be managed, she feels sorry for the man's difficulty.
In this way, it was not until the child was two years old that she found out that the man had become so active in overtime because he had already had a family outside of marriage.
When a man changes his mind, he will have less time for his family and wife.
Zhang Ailing wrote in "Red Roses and White Roses": "If a person doesn't have time, it's because he doesn't want to have time, if a person can't leave, it's because he doesn't want to go away, and if a person makes too many excuses for you, it's because he doesn't want to care about you." ”After a man's heart "deviates", he will become very busy, busy working overtime, busy on business trips, busy socializing with all kinds of people. Actually, these are excuses.
He used overtime and socializing as an excuse to not go home for dinner. He came home later and later, and even stayed up all night.
When a man is so busy that he can't take care of his family at all and ignores the affairs of the family, it is probably because his heart is no longer in marriage.
Nan Jianlong in "Little Shede" once stood in front of the mirror and shaved, humming a song, especially caring about his image.
Before he went out, he changed into clean clothes and sprayed perfume before leaving.
His behavior aroused the suspicion of his wife Cai Juying.
Originally, Nan Jianlong was used to being sloppy, and when he went out that time, he cleaned himself up very neatly, and he couldn't help but doubt him in his heart.
She called her daughter **, and her daughter laughed at her for thinking too much.
But she still followed out uneasily, and found that Nan Jianlong did go to his ex-wife's house.
It turned out that his ex-wife was sick, and he hurriedly went to take care of it.
If a man's heart is "deviant", he will begin to care about his image and start to care too much about his appearance.
When it comes to grooming himself, he starts to be very active.
He began to pay attention to the brand of his clothes, and spent more and more time sorting his clothes in front of the mirror.
If a man suddenly becomes energetic, pays attention to dressing, and even combs his hair meticulously, it is very likely that he has already lived in someone else in his heart and wants to make a good impression on her.
A man, emotionally "deviant", will have a lot of unusual behavior.
The most direct and unusual place is that I don't know that his money is spent on **.
A man's heart, after "deviating" from marriage, will begin to be home very little, and one after another, he will find that his money is also rarely home.
He embezzled a lot of the family's savings, and the expenses became bigger and bigger.
If so, his wife continued to question him, and the money was spent.
The man will get angry and quarrel with her because he can't explain it clearly.
Even, he will belittle her, he doesn't earn a penny at home, and he always spends his money. Divert contradictions and topics.
Renting a house for a woman outside of marriage, buying gifts, and making her happy requires a man to spend a lot of money.
After the man changed his mind, his "entertainment" became positive, and the money was spent like flowing water.
Actually, it's because, in the name of entertainment, he always goes out frequently and doesn't go home to meet women outside of marriage.
To maintain a relationship, it takes a lot of time and energy to constantly consume, and men can't do both, can't take care of both ends, and will inevitably leave traces.
It can be seen that men have feelings outside of marriage.
Xi Juan said: "Love each other is because you are fascinated by each other's advantages; Not loving means to see through all the shortcomings of the other person and no longer tolerate it. ”He loves you and will spend more time with you, will stay by your side and spend quality time with you.
If you don't love, you will find all kinds of excuses to escape, and you will no longer have sweet words.
Rather, dress up carefully to meet a woman outside of marriage, and pay more time and money for others.
For whom a man pays, his heart is in **.
When his people often disappear and the money is no longer handed over to the family, then his heart has long flown away.
February** Dynamic Incentive Program
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, who makes a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.