Thousands of years of cultural accumulation have allowed women to maintain a restrained and reserved attitude towards love.
They are afraid of rejection and resist being criticized, so they often miss out on opportunities for control.
Modern women have woken up, but are still vulnerable in relationships.
Really powerful women are aware of this. My attitude towards men has changed a lot because I don't want to lose the opportunity to be happy because of someone else. The following six words are the best proof of this.
01: Positive.
Strong women don't wait, they just try.
They don't want to leave the choice of happiness to others, and they must take the initiative to fulfill their wishes.
The same is true for men.
When they fall in love, they take the initiative. Other things can wait, but love is fleeting.
Of course, love is not their only goal. In fact, I live more passionately because I have found love. They believe that by relying on their charm, they can turn their lover to themselves. Present yourself better in front of others.
Such a woman has a strong love, but is always calm. She used all kinds of tricks to make men rise and fall, but she didn't leave the impression of frivolity on others. She relied on a higher level of attraction and unknowingly conquered men.
No one will be loved and not proud. Men will be more attracted to the love of such an amorous woman.
02: Immersion.
Because of the lack of faith, they suffer from gains and losses, and lose interest.
But really strong women don't do that. If you want to love, you will love deeply, and if you don't love, you will not love.
In love, as long as it is from the heart, there are no regrets. Otherwise, you will always feel tangled and anxious.
They know this, and when love comes, they give it their all and don't do anything they regret.
Like Qu Xiaoxuan in "Ode to Joy", like Li Mujia in "Until the Sun", and like Gu Jia in "Thirty Years Old".
Both women are strong-willed and invincible in all walks of life. There is no delay in love. When we love, we love, we try to stay that way, and when we break up, we break up. They are firm and decisive.
It's not because they're ruthless, but when they love, they're completely immersed in that love, without any hesitation or regret, and it's worth loving themselves and each other.
All regrets are caused by subconscious regrets due to not being able to participate in acting.
So, don't think about what will happen in the future, enjoy the present and don't leave room for looking back or daydreaming.
03: Freedom.
Mature women will not bind men, but will give him enough freedom.
In a person's life, love only accounts for a part, and most other things must be done by themselves.
When a woman has nothing but love, she will eventually lose it. This is tantamount to losing everything in life.
A wise woman would never find herself in such a situation. So, keep a clear head at all times and let men live their lives. Of course, it is more important to maintain a natural rhythm of life.
Many people think that to give a person freedom is to hold the string tightly in your hand like a kite. In fact, to give a person freedom is to give yourself the space to fly freely, and not to let your sky lose to anyone.
The former is out of a passive attitude and has no choice but to keep people, while the latter adopts a roundabout strategy and comes up with the best of both worlds to improve themselves.
What kind of woman is smarter?
The decision has been made.
Of course, love is never about designing each other, but about completing a complete circle with each other and walking side by side to a better place.
Women have different expectations for love, actions are different, and things are different.
They seek love, invest in love, respect their partner, and make the most positive efforts for long-term love to become a better version of themselves that deserves this encounter.
However, they have underestimated profits and losses, so they have little to do with the end result. Even if they fail this time, it will not affect their later life and happiness. They believe that eternity that belongs to them will eventually be obtained because they always believe in themselves.
How can such a woman not make people feel lonely, how can they not be admired, how can they not be admired!