She said to her husband, Is it okay for a family to live together? There s nothing wrong with him,

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-29

Ever since a large family came to promise to live in the house, cracks began to appear in her marriage.

The spacious house suddenly became crowded, and every day it was like living in a crowded public place, and all kinds of inconveniences and frictions followed.

She was deeply dissatisfied with this, and after communicating with her husband many times to no avail, the contradiction between the two deepened day by day. She wanted a divorce.

Yan Ran, we got the keys to the new house today, and we finally have a new home, so happy, why don't we go out and celebrate. ”

I was so happy to promise today.

For this day, she has been looking forward to it for a long time, she has been frugal, in addition to teaching, she makes headlines every day when she is free, and after thinking about the knowledge of the textbook, she will send micro headlines and write her feelings.

She is a junior high school Chinese teacher.

In addition to writing a micro-headline every day, I also write articles during the week.

Fans are constantly **, and there are more than 1,000, 2,000 monthly headline earnings, and sometimes they will.

Four, five thousand. However, this money is not easy to make, especially when writing articles, you have to construct stories, and it takes two days to complete an article of about 10,000 words. The good thing is that she usually has a week.

Sixth, the day was written.

It's okay, as long as she can provide a house as soon as possible, she can give the child a good space as soon as possible, and she is happy to work hard.

Okay!Okay!Mom, I'm in favor!Go to that private restaurant. Yan Cong, a son in the fourth grade of primary school, clapped his little hands and applauded, no one had gone out to eat for a long time, and Congcong was drooling when he thought about the private restaurant he had been to.

He couldn't help but swallow his saliva, and there was a gurgling sound in his throat, and then Congcong's mouth began to slurp again. He thought it tasted good and wanted to eat it now.

Good, good!Today our dream has come true, we don't have to be forced to live in a rented two-bedroom apartment, we will move in two days, it's time to celebrate, go, go. ”

Yan Ran took his wife and children into the car and went straight to the private restaurant.

A happy family of three, looking at them, others are also envious, everyone works hard to live a good family, and happiness is in this.

They finally lived in a house of more than 130 square meters, with four bedrooms and one living room. I have fulfilled the greatest wish of my life, no wonder I am so happy.

Two days later, Xu Yue's family had moved into a new house, four bedrooms and one living room, spacious and bright, and Xu Yue seemed to feel that people had been reborn.

The large living room is elegantly decorated, there is a wine cabinet on the wall, and two pots of flowers are placed in the corner, which seems to be a bit European and American, with a bit of romance. The ** who promised to be in the hall stretched out his hands and spun in a circle, as if in a dream.

She has her own house, and it's still so bright. Cong Cong also jumped three feet high on the side, thinking that he would also decorate his "private space".

Looking at his beloved wife and his baby son, Yan Ran on the side was also happy. He didn't expect that he could live in such a good house, and he was just a person from a public institution with a salary of more than 7,000 per month. Fortunately, my parents funded a little, and my father-in-law didn't need to talk about it, and they paid two-thirds of the house payment. At this moment he was about to shout: Life, hello!

Yan Ran silently thought in his heart: Thank you, parents! Thank you father-in-law!

The two discussed when to ask their parents to have a meal together to enter the new house.

Two weeks later, the couple called their parents to come to the new house for dinner, and there were not many people, and they did not go to the restaurant, so they set up a table in the new house.

Yan Ran's parents are in the countryside, as well as a younger brother, brother-in-law, niece, a family of five plus promised parents, and his own family of three. Together, it's exactly one table.

The family eats happily and bustlessly in their new home. After the meal, Xu Xu's parents went home, Yan's father and mother stayed, and Yanran's younger brother Yan Hua's family of three went back. My parents-in-law said to stay for a while before leaving.

This city is very prosperous, now the home is spacious, Yan Ran left his parents, he wants to do a filial piety, over the years, his parents have worked hard to provide him with his studies, and now his life is better, his parents are old, he wants his parents to live some happy days.

On Saturday, Yan Ran took a family of five to visit the places in the city and the places with good scenery. Take your parents to eat something delicious.

More than ten days have passed, this day promised to get out of class, depressed, parents-in-law have lived for more than ten days, there is no intention to leave, she wants to buy a new house by herself, a family of three has not enjoyed much, she wants to make room for her parents-in-law, and her father-in-law and mother-in-law seem to have a lot of things are inconvenient.

After class, back in the office, the next section promised no class, change homework in the office, just my best colleague also had no class, after changing the homework, the two were bored, Xu Promise was depressed, so he chatted with his colleague Xiaoyi. She was also aware of her sullen mood.

Sister Xu, you don't seem to be in a state these days, is there something wrong? Xiaoyi became concerned.

Xiaoyi, I don't know how to say it, my heart is really uncomfortable, I didn't want to say that other people's are not, but now things are held in my heart, very depressed, I don't know if your family will be like this? Promise's eyes darkened, and a resentment was written on her face.

Then you can say it! We are not only good colleagues, but also good friends, let me be your advisor. ”

I finally lived in a new house, happy mood did not enjoy a few days, the bad mood came immediately, my parents-in-law lived for more than ten days and did not want to go, when I was born Congcong, I called my mother-in-law to take care of it, but I just went back after sitting in confinement, saying that I am not used to it, how do I seem to be very accustomed to it now, and I don't plan to go at all. What's the matter? ”

At that time, she asked her mother-in-law to live for another two months, but she said that she was not used to it, and then she hired a nanny, and did not dismiss the nanny until Congcong finished kindergarten.

Actually, you can talk to your husband and show what you mean, my parents-in-law are here, I haven't lived together, it's really hard to get used to it now, my parents-in-law don't like to live with me, but they are different from you, my parents-in-law have their own house, have a pension, and my mother-in-law will go back to her house after helping me take my eldest daughter, she is very conscious and doesn't want to disturb the world of young people. ”

Listening to what Xiaoyi said, he promised to decide to talk to Yan Ran before going to bed tonight.

At home, today is very lively, Yan Ran came back early today, because he knew that there would be another "feast" today. The younger brother and sister-in-law and niece came again, the two brothers talked through the talk, Yan Ran also discussed it with his parents, and his younger brother Yan Hua didn't want to stay in the countryside anymore, and many people in the countryside went out to work. Yan Hua and his daughter-in-law discussed, they wanted to go to live with their brother and sister-in-law, the sister-in-law's house was spacious, four rooms were just right, one brother and sister-in-law, one nephew, one parents, and one room for their own family of three, which was just right. They wanted to find a job while living, and their two-year-old daughter happened to be brought by her parents.

The abacus of the two of them clanged, as if Zhuge Liang.

As soon as Yan Hua and his wife's abacus started, they were happy, and their daughter-in-law Li Yu immediately asked Yan Hua to call the uncle as soon as possible.

Yan Ran, who is deeply affectionate, grew up with his younger brother, and since he was a child, his younger brother has followed his ass around, and his younger brother has followed him in whatever he does. Now that his younger brother has asked him, how could Yan Ran refuse his younger brother's request, he felt that this was very good, anyway, it was a family, and the scene of a family of four at home often came to his mind, and it was convenient for him to be filial to his parents, and it was also convenient for his parents to take their little niece. Thinking of the cute appearance of his little niece, his heart was sweet. Yan Ran didn't say a word, and immediately agreed to his younger brother's request, his home has four bedrooms and one living room, just right, the master bedroom has a bathroom, there is nothing inconvenient.

Yan Ran felt that it was good to be able to help his younger brother feel happy for a while, the family was happy together, and the family went back to the countryside for the Chinese New Year. He didn't tell his daughter-in-law, he felt in his heart that his daughter-in-law would definitely not object, the people's teacher, noble character, and the daughter-in-law is not a stingy person.

Yan's father and mother were even more happy to see their youngest son, daughter-in-law, and granddaughter arriving together, Yan's mother was so happy that her eyes narrowed into a slit, and she hugged her granddaughter Yan Yuan and kissed her again.

The meals were prepared by the two elders, and the two elders stayed for more than ten days these days, and they all went out to buy vegetables together. Every day, the two elders are very conscious, shopping for food, cooking, and hygiene at home, and the kitchen and hall are brightly painted, and they seem to be able to see people.

As soon as Yan Hua walked into the living room, he greeted his brother, "Brother, thank you so much!" ”

Brother, can we brothers need this? I can help you feel happy. Yan Ran smiled.

Brothers are of the same heart, brothers are harmonious, seeing that your brothers have such a good relationship, help each other, and understand each other, my heart as a father will also be at ease, Yan Ran, dad thank you. Yan's father said to his eldest son emotionally, and then stretched out his arms and put them on the shoulders of his two sons.

Dad, don't be so sensational, aren't we fathers and sons, brothers? You and my mother have provided me with education all these years, and I have not repaid the kindness of my parents, the love of my parents, and the love of my brothers. Yan Ran hugged his father and younger brother.

Brother, Ayu and I will go out tomorrow to look for jobs, and if we find a job, we will have food. ”

This one is not busy, let's talk about finding a job. I'll keep an eye on you, too. ”

After a while, the three fathers and sons sat together and drank tea.

After the men greeted each other, Yan's mother gave her granddaughter to Yan's father. She took her little daughter-in-law's hand and went into the kitchen together.

Yan's father held his granddaughter in his arms to enjoy the flowers in the balcony, and there were several pots of flowers that he promised to buy on the balcony, and the flowers were blooming vigorously and brilliantly.

Xiao Yuanyuan looked at the flowers babbling, her eyes smiled, and she reached out to pick the beautiful flowers.

The two grandparents are happy.

In the living room, the two brothers were also chatting with each other, drinking tea and chatting about the beautiful life of their childhood.

In the kitchen, the two mothers-in-law and daughter-in-law are busy with the evening's dishes.

After promising to come back, I saw my husband and brother-in-law next to each other, talking enthusiastically, smiling. The scene seems to be a good friend and a good brother who I haven't seen for a few years, talking unwillingly.

Yan Hua saw Xu Promise and called his sister-in-law respectfully.

Cong Cong also politely called uncle.

The next second, he saw two e-tube boxes in a corner of the hall, as well as duffel bags.

There was a rumbling in her heart, and the conversation between Li Yu and her mother-in-law came from the kitchen, and a bad premonition came faintly, Xu Yu frowned, and said to Yan Hua: "Yan Hua, have you gone on a trip?" ”

Xu Promise has already guessed half of it in his heart, but he still doesn't want to say it directly, give him some face, husband! I only talked to him when I went to bed tonight, and I couldn't hang up the faces of both sides with one word.

Just as Yan Hua wanted to answer his sister-in-law in some words, Yan Ran gave a younger brother a look, and he said to the promise: "No, just came back, go to the bathroom and wash your hands!" Wait a minute, it's time to eat. Cong Cong washes his hands and eats. ”

Cong Cong went to the kitchen and called grandma and aunt.

At this time, Li Yu and her mother-in-law came out with food, and Li Yu called her sister-in-law, her face was slightly red, and she looked a little embarrassed.

Yan's mother immediately interjected and said enthusiastically: "Eldest daughter-in-law, you must have worked very hard when you came back from work, wash your hands and eat." ”

When he returned from washing his hands, the table was already full of dishes, as well as a plate of local chicken. Li Yu slaughtered all the five remaining chickens in the family, and she put all her blood on working in the city, so she killed all the chickens in the family.

Yan's mother and Li Yu served everyone's meals, and they didn't dare to give everyone a look when they promised, after all, they were all husbands' families, and their fathers-in-law and mother-in-law also contributed a little money in this house, and during this time, their mother-in-law was also diligent and kept the house in order. And Xu Promise is indeed a lot more leisurely, and he is more diligent and hard working to make headlines, and his fans have increased by more than 3,000 this month. But she doesn't want to go on like this, she wants a family of three to have a private space, but now her father-in-law and mother-in-law haven't left yet, and the little brother-in-law and sister-in-law are also here, and she has one head and two big.

Mom, didn't you just say you're hungry?Dine. Cong Cong saw that his mother was a little stunned, and asked his mother to eat.

In a trance, he made a promise and came to his senses when he heard his son's scream.

Yan Ran eye-catchingly sandwiched a piece of chicken back to his wife, he thought it was time to please his wife, "No, give you a piece of your favorite chicken back, raised at home, it is delicious." ”

They all grew up eating and mixing chaff, which is healthy and delicious. Li Yu echoed on the side.

Oh, okay. Xu promised to say mechanically, the chicken is indeed delicious, but she can't eat the usual taste of the chicken, she has something in her heart, but she still eats seriously, she is indeed hungry, and the meal at school at noon is not very appetizing today.

Cong Cong chewed heavily, ate with relish, and said from time to time: "Auntie, this chicken is so delicious, much better than the chicken I bought in the market." ”

You kid, you can really eat, and you can also screen and eat different tastes. Little gluttonous cat. Yan Ran said jokingly to his son.

The meal ended in a pleasant atmosphere.

At eleven o'clock in the evening, in the bedroom, Yan Ran was brewing lines in his head, how to tell his wife, and his wife would accept it. From the afternoon when he returned home, he unconsciously smelled the slightest smell of gunpowder in his wife's body, and he knew that his wife was unhappy.

Just as he was about to speak, Xu made a promise, "Yan Ran, what do they mean, I originally wanted to ask you, when will your father-in-law and mother-in-law leave, but now it's good, your brother and they come here like they are moving." Why didn't you say this earlier? ”

It's all to blame for not making it clear to you in time, promise, we are a family, my parents have worked hard for half a lifetime, it is not easy for me to study, and besides, isn't it right to be filial to my parents?You are a teacher, and this is how you teach students to be filial to their parents, right?”

Even if you're right, but now?Your brother's family is here, too. Promised to give in, she began to accept her parents-in-law at the moment, and indeed the responsibility of supporting the elderly and children, as a teacher, she said this to her husband, empathize, different people in the countryside, it is really not easy to provide a college student.

Wife, you have a lot of adults, my brother and sister-in-law want to come here to work to improve their lives, and it is convenient for parents to take care of their children. ”

In the past, I asked your mother to stay here for two more months, but your mother didn't agree, and now she doesn't want to leave, and it's still a big family, isn't it crowded for so many people to live together?In the future, if you look down and don't look up, won't there be a contradiction?Is it comfortable?”

Wife, we are a family, it is not easy for my parents to raise me, my brother and I have always had a harmonious relationship and deep brotherhood, and we used to live like this. ”

Yan Ran, now is not the past, you are married and have children. Xu Promise looked at the person next to the pillow, although it was close at hand, but it felt very strange.

Wife, let them live first, and then plan when they find a job later, okay?We can't be so ruthless as to promise you that you will always be broad-minded and not narrow-minded. ”

This has nothing to do with broad-mindedness and narrow-mindedness, but after living for a long time, brotherhood will also fade, everyone still has to keep a distance, distance produces beauty, do you understand?”

Okay, let's talk about it later!”

There was nothing to say all night, and the next day, the two went to work. After promising to get out of class, he spit out his bitterness to Xiaoyi again, "Xiaoyi, this time it's even more troublesome, it's really a bit like stealing chickens and rice." ”

How?Is your husband so difficult?Can't negotiate?Xiaoyi asked suspiciously.

Not only did my father-in-law and mother-in-law not leave, but yesterday my brother-in-law's family of three came with two suitcases of luggage, saying that they were going to live in my house and find a job here, and it was not easy to mix in the countryside. "The promise is helpless.

Didn't you give your opinion to your husband last night?”

said, it was useless, he said that they had a deep brotherhood, and he said that it was right to honor his parents. ”

It is true that you should honor your parents, but it will be really awkward for such a family to be together for a long time. ”

He said he would wait until his brother and sister-in-law found a job. There is no choice but to pray to God for them to find a job as soon as possible and leave as soon as possible. Promise looked frustrated.

The days passed like water, and a month later, the little uncle and sister-in-law had found a job and had been working for more than ten days, but there was no movement at home, and Yan Ran had not promised to talk about these things.

These days, there are suddenly five more people in the family, promising to get off work every day like a stone blocking her heart, panicked, feeling weird at home, sitting here is not, sitting there is not, facing a few faces, she wants to lie down in the sofa in the hall, looking at them and embarrassed to lie down, facing the eyes of the little uncle and the little aunt, it is very embarrassing. She slammed into the room every day after school and wrote her micro-headlines, but she always listened to her parents-in-law, Yan Ran, and Yan Hua chatting lively, sometimes laughing, the sound resounded throughout the house, and the promise of the article always felt that the top of her head was buzzing, like a swarm of bees.

The little sister-in-law is still singing love songs sometimes, which is very awkward, and the niece squeaks from time to time, she feels that her world is so annoying, and it is not a taste when she goes home every day, she thinks with emotion: Isn't life originally good? Why is it all of a sudden?

Once, when she just came home, she was in a hurry, and she didn't think about anything, so she went directly to the bathroom in the kitchen, but she bumped into her uncle at the kitchen door, and her face was flushed. When I went to knock on the toilet door, I ended up squatting in the pit. She immediately went back to the bathroom of her room, where she sits, she doesn't want to sit like this when she wants to be big, she likes to squat.

She felt more and more that this kind of life was too depressing, too persecutive, the spacious and bright living room was like being in a crowded crowd, the promise was tense in her heart, her spirit seemed to be collapsing, living like this was more depressing than heavy teaching, working for a day, returning home was not happy, there was no space for herself, and the pressure in her heart could not be relieved.

On this day, she erupted in the room, "Yan Ran, what do you mean?" Yan Hua and Li Yu have both found jobs, why haven't they moved away? Don't want to go? ”

Aren't we living well? It's not that the family doesn't have a house to live in, so why spend all that unjust money? Money doesn't come in the wind. ”

You're comfortable, I'm not comfortable, they've found a job, why don't they go out and rent a room? ”

Promise, why are you so stingy! Haven't you always had a lot of it? ”

How do you want me to mass? I finally had my own house, and I didn't enjoy the happiness of this house, and your family came in a bunch and disturbed our peaceful life. Why is it that your family is so unconscious, do you have to ask someone to say it? People want to face trees, and trees want bark. Give yourself some face! ”

Be quiet! You. ”

The quarrel between the two became louder and louder, and everyone in the living room heard it. She walked out of the room and said to her parents-in-law, "Mom, when will you move out?" ”

Even if he promised to be angry, he still calmly said to them that he had enough respect.

Yan's father was stunned, Yan's mother's face was displeased, Yan Hua and Li Yu were stunned in place, and everyone was speechless.

Yan Ran was a little fierce, "Promise, have you made enough trouble?" You're still a teacher! ”

You, Yan Ran, what did you say? It's true that I'm a teacher, but what about a teacher? Should the teacher swallow his anger? What does a big family live like this, and is there still a private space? This is my home, don't use the title of teacher to give me moral kidnapping. I've had enough of this life. At this time, the promise was really a bit hysterical, and for half a year, the "bomb" buried in her heart exploded.

Promise, is it too hard to work? Makes you uncomfortable? I'll stew chicken soup to replenish you and let you dissipate your gas. Isn't it good for everyone to be with Meimei? "My mother-in-law came out to play a round.

Mother-in-law, it's not a matter of work, why do we live like this? If you look down and don't look up, there will always be stumbles, so why bother? If you continue to live like this, the relationship will be bad, so you might as well move out! Promise was expressionless.

Promise, there's no place for you to live? The best rooms are all where we lived, what else do you want? Give me some face! Yan Ran said.

Hum! Give face to you? Who gives me face? Can't I call the shots of my own house? It's ridiculous. ”

You're being aggressive. Supporting your parents is a natural thing, don't you understand as a teacher? Be filial to your children. ”

Okay, you can get by, but what about the little uncle? They have already started a family, and it is inevitable that they will live separately. ”

The couple went back and forth, fighting with each other.

Promise, your brother-in-law and they have to rent a house when they go out to live, and their wages are not high. The room here is empty and empty! Why do you want them to pay for a house? Besides, it is not convenient for me to take care of my children separately. Yan's mother also raised her voice at this time.

Yan Hua and his wife were silent, and stood there noncommittal.

Father Yan, who had been silent, had a gloomy face, and his voice raised several decibels, "Promise, I'm not dead, I'm alive, I'm in charge of this house, and we also pay a little bit for the house, this house is strict." Why can't you live? If you take back what you say, I will not hear you. Live your life as you wish. ”

The father-in-law looked majestic, he thought he was in the countryside, and he thought that this was also his territory.

Sister-in-law, the family is in charge of the father, you apologize, and this matter is over. Yan Hua said.

Sister-in-law, we are a family, there is no overnight feud, you can make a compensatory to your father, and your father is still very talkative. Li Yu said.

Father Yan's serious face eased a little, and he seemed to be a little intoxicated by the compliment. Thinking about it, Yan's father is a majestic existence in the countryside.

Hahaha......Xu Promise burst into laughter, she fainted, she was about to get dizzy, how could there be such a crooked reason. A large family is still going around and around their heads, an indiscriminate group of blind people, and it is really sad and terrible to be uneducated. It's impossible to communicate.

Xu Yu turned around and went back to the room, opened the drawer, took out the real estate certificate, opened it, and put it heavily on the coffee table, "Open your eyes and see, how much money my mother's family has paid for your eldest son to tell himself." ”

The four of them looked at the real estate certificate, and promised that the two big characters were dazzling in front of their eyes, and the name was like a flower blooming in front of them, which was very dazzling, and the eyes of the four people were swaying, and they lowered their heads strictly. At the moment, the air in the hall was a little gloomy, dreary and dreary.

Let's get a divorce! Yan Ran, you indecisive soft man. Congcong, let's go, go to grandma's house. ”

He promised to fold his clothes, put them in the drag tube box, and pulled his son straight downstairs.

Two days later, Xu promised to hand the divorce agreement to Yan Ran.

Yan Ran thought that his wife would stay at her parents' house for a few days and would come back when the anger subsided, but the matter was unexpected by his wife, and he realized the seriousness of the problem, which was not a joke.

In the end, the promise still gave Yan Ran a chance, "I can not get divorced, but I can't mix together like this, I don't want to be trapped in such a family and bind me, I can accept the old man, but the family must be divided." You can do it! ”

I'm sorry I didn't think about your feelings. ”

Yan Ran looked at the divorce agreement and suddenly realized that he had to consider it all, he didn't want to lose his marriage, his son must have a complete family, and he was going to have a show......down with his parents and younger brother

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