Lin Ping has been divorced for 6 years.
It's just that no one knows about this matter, even the daughter-in-law who just entered the door doesn't know, because she still lives with her ex-husband Tian Dayu, in anyone's opinion, they are still a couple, and even in the eyes of outsiders, they have a good relationship and never quarrel.
But the truth of the facts made Lin Ping quite sad, especially when she saw the sentence "A married woman has no home after divorce" on the Internet, Lin Ping felt even more empathy.
Lin Ping was 24 years old when she married Tian Dayu, the two were in free love, and after their parents found out, they were quite satisfied, and soon arranged for them to get married.
Lin Ping's family is less than 3 kilometers to Tian Dayu's house, and it can be reached on foot, although it is in a small town, but both parents are still young, they both do a small business, and the income is not bad.
After having a son Tian Fei, her in-laws also took a back seat, taking care of the work and housework of taking care of the children, and let her watch the store with Tian Fei. The two also arranged a rest day for themselves, two days a month when the store was not opened, and the two of them rode motorcycles with their friends to play around, Tian Dayu was too good to say to her, she once thought that her marriage was happier than others.
Lin Ping's happy life began with the death of her mother-in-law, Tian Fei was only 4 years old that year, her mother-in-law was sent to the hospital for angina pectosis in the middle of the night, and her mother-in-law's relationship was good for a lifetime.
Lin Ping and Tian Dayu had to pick up and drop off the children at the same time, and the time suddenly became tight, Lin Ping wanted to ask her mother to help take care of the child, and her brother and sister-in-law had just given birth, and her mother had to go to the city to take care of her grandson, so she couldn't help her.
At the beginning of this year, Lin Ping suddenly felt the bitterness of married life, and Tian Fei gradually grew up, and the two had frequent disputes because of tutoring children's homework.
Lin Ping gradually recognized the reality, and after Tian Fei went to elementary school, he opened a store with Tian Dayu and was ready to expand his business, but this store was opened by his in-laws, and his mother-in-law said before she died that her sister-in-law was not married yet, and she would be given a dowry when the time came.
Lin Ping is not a caring person, as a girl, she can think about problems from the perspective of her sister-in-law, after all, she is also someone else's sister-in-law.
When Tian Fei was in the third grade of elementary school, Lin Ping's maiden brother suddenly quit his good job and had to start a business, but as expected, he failed and owed foreign debts. Lin Ping's parents were so anxious that they borrowed money for their son, and finally the sister-in-law coaxed her mother to sell the house in her hometown in the town, Lin Ping had an opinion on this, which meant that she would not have a family in the future, but considering her brother's situation, she didn't say anything.
But who would have thought that Lin Ping would divorce Tian Dayu.
Lin Ping's divorce also made a big fuss.
Lin Ping didn't expect Tian Dayu to have an affair, or with a notorious woman in the town. At that time, Tian Fei was already in high school.
Smartphones just became popular, and their store made some money that year, so Tian Dayu bought her a new phone and replaced it with a new one himself. Lin Ping is not very good at using it, so she asked Tian Dayu to help her with **software,**songs, she took Tian Dayu's mobile phone to play small games, usually boring in the store and relied on this game to pass the time, but Tian Dayu was quick and immediately snatched the phone, Lin Ping knew him too well, and immediately noticed that something was wrong.
What exactly is there that I can't see? ”
Tian Dayu said, "It's nothing, I can't be a little secret." ”
Lin Ping said: "I don't have a secret from you, you can look at my mobile phone casually." ”
Tian Dayu didn't pick up, got up and sorted out the shelves, Lin Ping didn't give up, she intuitively felt that there was definitely something wrong with this, and after thinking about it carefully, she found that since she changed her mobile phone, his mobile phone always kept with her, and a woman who opened an underwear store next door also hinted to her intentionally or unintentionally that there was any entertainment after Tian Dayu went home at night.
Since they took over the store, Lin Ping stipulated two days off a month, and later Tian Dayu proposed that they take turns off separately in these two days, so that they will not affect their business, but also have their own absolute free time, and they don't have to do any housework on this day, just play. Lin Ping thought this proposal was good at the time, but now that she thinks about it, she realizes that something is wrong.
Lin Ping didn't want to ruin their relationship as husband and wife because of this groundless suspicion, so she was patient and pretended that nothing had happened, so that Tian Dayu could relax her vigilance. That day, it was Tian Dayu's turn to rest, in the morning she got up to open a store, he was still sleeping at home, she didn't open a store that day, secretly hid near her home, and waited until ten o'clock in the morning, she quietly slipped home, heard Tian Dayu playing **, she listened outside the door for a while.
Tian Dayu spoke in a gentle tone that she hadn't heard for a long time, and the language was ambiguous, just like when they first fell in love, Lin Ping's heart suddenly hurt at that moment, in fact, over the years, there have been more people around her who have cheated, but she never thought about Tian Dayu, the sweet picture of love in the past is vivid, but it is already a very distant thing.
Lin Ping didn't rush in angrily, she stood numbly outside and listened, the more she listened, the more sad she became, the more she listened, the more difficult it was to accept, judging from the content of the chat, Tian Dayu and the other party had been at least two or three years.
Lin Ping looked at her shrinking shadow under the sun, and suddenly had a feeling of ten thousand arrows piercing her heart, after a while, she heard that Tian Dayu was going to hang **, she hid aside, and after a while she followed Tian Dayu out, and finally she saw the woman, who was a woman in the town who was divorced because of cheating, beautiful, vulgar, vulgar, and numb when she spoke, but men seemed to love this mouthful. Lin Ping's anger burned completely, but she still endured it, she had to wait until he couldn't argue and there was no turning point for him to cheat.
That day, Tian Dayu only met with the woman, drank tea, and came out after a while, passing by a cake shop, she saw Tian Dayu go in and buy shortbread, which she usually likes to buy as snacks, at that moment she didn't feel moved, only felt disgusting, a man can talk sweetly to the woman outside, while thinking about his wife.
She ran back to the store quickly, and a few minutes later, Tian Dayu came, put the shortbread on the table, and said that the weather was good today, so don't open the store in the afternoon and drive out.
At that time, they had just bought a car. Lin Ping looked at Tian Dayu with burning eyes, and he also said with a weak heart, "Why do you want to go?" I'd also like to relive the time when I was in love. ”
Lin Ping's heart ached again, she had to endure it until the day when she couldn't argue in bed.
It's a pity that Lin Ping didn't wait for that opportunity.
A week later, the woman went out of town, saying that a relative had introduced a job, and she was going to work for half a year and come back during the Spring Festival.
Lin Ping thought, then wait for her to come back, occasionally she can see Tian Dayu playing ** outside, very quietly, but very gently.
In fact, during this period, Lin Ping thought very seriously, if the two of them broke off, then she would not pursue it, her son is in the second year of high school, and he will take the college entrance examination next year.
From the time he knew he was cheating until now, she had never had sex with him again, and he still counted her down for this.
Just when Lin Ping was entangled, she found that Tian Dayu not only didn't mean to break, but also gave her money. At that time, 520 had just become popular, and Tian Dayu called a 520 for that woman, and Lin Ping immediately became angry, and couldn't care about anything else, so he had a falling out with Tian Dayu.
Tian Dayu didn't expect that she had already found out, but she didn't know the facts, and there was no evidence, so she refused to admit it, Lin Ping made trouble, but she made an appointment with Tian Dayu and didn't let her son know, so she could only make trouble with grievances every time, and she had to pretend to be okay in front of her son.
In this way, Lin Ping still had a glimmer of hope in her heart, if he broke off with her completely, she would ...... if she forgave him
However, when she came back from the Chinese New Year, Lin Ping found that he was still in contact with that woman, and she was completely dead, and after she asked her brother about the divorce, she directly divorced Tian Dayu.
Tian Dayu didn't expect her to say divorce, and he panicked, he said that he only chatted with her for a while, and had no actual behavior.
But how could Lin Ping believe it, besides, even if she only chatted, it was a mental derailment, she couldn't accept it, she insisted on divorce, Tian Dayu made up his mind to break off with that woman, and treated her as well as she did when she was in love, but she no longer had the sweetness she used to have, she only felt extremely disgusting.
Lin Ping unilaterally separated from Tian Dayu, but she was afraid that her son would know, so she still slept in the same room, but she slept on the bed and let him sleep on the floor.
Tian Dayu always wanted to climb on the bed, wanting to take the opportunity to get back together, but Lin Ping didn't make trouble, didn't move, and didn't look at him, looking disheartened, Tian Dayu got out of bed stupidly.
Lin Ping thought that the relationship between her and him was really over, and the heart was dead and it was over.
The divorce dragged on for nearly a year, and it was not until after her son's college entrance examination that Lin Ping divorced Tian Dayu, and she threatened him that if he didn't divorce, he would tell his son about his ugly things.
Tian Dayu has always had a good relationship with his son, and after his son grew up, he also cared about his son's opinion, so he had to agree to divorce. After getting the divorce certificate, Lin Ping confessed to his son that they were divorced, Tian Fei didn't understand, his eyes were hazy with tears, Lin Ping only told him that his parents were not in harmony and couldn't go on.
Lin Ping divorced only to find that she had nowhere to go, her parents lived in the city with her brother, she couldn't go to her brother's long-term residence, she could rent a house after the divorce, but it was not easy to rent a suitable house in the countryside, she thought about going out to work, but she had never gone out to work in her life, and she was very resistant, plus Lin Ping's kidney had a little problem in the past few years, and she couldn't do heavy work.
Tian Dayu knew her situation, so he proposed: "Otherwise, we will divorce like others and not leave home, this is still your home, you have lived for so many years and you are used to it, the store is still opened by us, and we will share the money we make equally, which is good for my son, and it will not have any impact on his life." ”
Lin Ping acquiesced, she slept on the first floor, Tian Dayu slept on the second floor, the housework was divided and cooperated, no one complained, and no longer took it for granted.
On the contrary, the two have respected each other like guests since then. Lin Ping felt that it was really amazing, two people who were originally strangers formed a family because of love, and became the most intimate relationship, but once they divorced, they became unrelated people again.
Now they live together, raise their son together, and have their own freedom except to open a shop.
Lin Ping heard that the woman had remarried a rich old man, and teased Tian Dayu, "Why doesn't she marry you, anyway, we are divorced, and I can't care about you." ”
Tian Dayu blackened his face and did not speak.
Her son is in college in another place, and Lin Ping mingles with the nearby proprietress girls, chatting about gossip together every day, going to beauty salons, and square dancing with them.
Without the fetters of marriage, the days suddenly opened up, sometimes a girlfriend had a birthday, Lin Ping didn't go home in the middle of the night, and even learned to travel with her sisters in a group, and when she came back, she also gave Tian Dayu a small gift of "roommate".
Tian Dayu couldn't say anything, Tian Dayu drank with someone until midnight, and when he was drunk, he came to knock on Lin Ping's door, and wanted to get back together with tears in her eyes, she was covered with a quilt and pretended not to hear.
She said that she lived at home, not to give him a chance to remarry.
After Tian Dayu died of the heart of remarriage, the two became more harmonious, others didn't know about their divorce, and they all said that they were now older and their relationship was more stable.
Every time, Lin Ping smiled and said nothing, and so did Tian Dayu.
Son Tian Fei sees that they are so harmonious, and always forgets that they are divorced, as long as their parents live together, it doesn't seem to matter whether they divorce or not.
After graduating from college, he made a girlfriend and brought it back to meet his parents, and then his parents went to see his in-laws very harmoniously, including the proposal of relatives.
So he also forgot to tell his girlfriend about his parents' divorce, until after marriage, his wife asked him why his in-laws didn't live in one room and lived on the first floor. Only then did he remember that he had explained to his wife about his parents' divorce, and his wife was shocked for a long time.
Lin Ping saw from her daughter-in-law's eyes that she knew about their divorce, so she took the initiative to tell her daughter-in-law about it, but she didn't say anything about Tian Dayu's cheating, only that they were not in harmony.
The daughter-in-law didn't understand, "Then why live together?" You're only in your 50s, and if you want to find another partner in the future, ......”
The daughter-in-law's words made Lin Ping Daigo empowered, and she has been away for 6 years, she seems to have never thought about finding another object, Tian Dayu doesn't seem to have any ideas on his side, he opens a store every day, drinks with friends, and never tells others about their divorce.
The daughter-in-law asked tentatively, "Are you going to remarry?" ”
Lin Apple shook her head resolutely, she had already fallen into that pit once, and she would never let herself fall again, but she couldn't tell her daughter-in-law about this.
At night, Lin Ping looked at herself in the mirror, she was a little older, but she didn't seem to be that old, maybe as her daughter-in-law said, she should leave this place and have her own home, anyway, her son and daughter-in-law will move out to live when they have children, and there is no need for her to live with Tian Dayu anymore at that time.
Now she neither hates Tian Dayu nor loves him, she regards him as an old acquaintance, but as her son's father and former close lover, she still hopes that he is healthy and everything goes well.
As for herself, she felt it was time to find a new life.