For some people, having something to say is the basic criterion for two people to be together, but having something to say is always a necessary condition for two people to be able to be together.
Those who have been through both good and bad marriages will find that relationships often begin and end without words. There are two scenarios. First of all, it is not suitable for living together. Only the passionate impulse of love can hide all the problems and contradictions. A small quarrel occurs within 3 days of marriage, and a large quarrel occurs within 5 days of marriage. In some cases, it may even lead to divorce.
The other one is two people. In fact, they get along very well.
For the first few years, the relationship worked like glue, but over time, the interaction stopped. It can end up boring your marriage. In fact, I remember most of the time it was when my cousin and brother-in-law were together. You can talk about big and small things all the time for most of the day. Even if your lunch is a bit vegetarian, tell the other person everything about what it tastes like. But once the passion wears off, their lives become like this. At the dinner table, the two held food in one hand and a mobile phone in the other. After dinner, one of us went home and typed on the computer, while the other sat on the sofa in the living room and watched a TV series.
My cousin often complained that marriage was really a grave. Such a life becomes more and more boring, but she does not think that marriage is not a grave, but that they have turned it into a grave.
How can life be fun together without the most basic interactions? Doesn't he know who you met today and what you did? I don't know if he's in a good or bad mood today. Although he is close to the people around him, he is far away. Although they are under the same roof, they are separated by different latitudes and longitudes.
Emotions are like red springs. Without flow, the water will stagnate, but only by communicating with each other can it stay alive and fresh forever. A friend told me his story. He doesn't want to make mistakes or get lost. One night, my friend's husband tossed and turned in the middle of the night and couldn't sleep. Then my friend opened his eyes and bent over to chat. While chatting, my husband suddenly said that the most correct thing in this world is to marry you.
Friends said she only provided brief companionship and simple communication. However, talking can bring them into each other's hearts, and it is enough to make the husband feel warm. As the relationship deepens, communication between the two parties will become more convenient. This is the only story, love and life enter a virtuous circle, grandparents have no shortage of topics to talk about every day, and they can experience dozens of springs and autumns together.
That's friendship and communication. There are people, things, and love. If you are silent, you will not be able to express your feelings. We are all normal people. Even if you fry it, you won't be able to eat Suzie. We are all mortal. I feel love by frying and extinguishing. Without communication, our relationship suffers.
It's more lonely to be together than to be alone. If you can receive messages from each other from time to time, your relationship will naturally bloom like spring, and you will be able to share the joy of being alone. They often hear people complain, but there is no one to accompany them, no one to communicate, and they are busy with work all day, how can they find time to talk?
At first glance, this may seem forgivable, but when you think about it, there are several problems with this product. He may often do this unconsciously because of work, but is he really too busy to rest or talk, or is the day too long to concentrate? Ask yourself if it's because you're losing focus.
In the first half of his life, He Han always told Luo Zijun that he was not busy recently, but just happened to have free time. Once, although he was obviously too busy to take care of others, he calmly took Luo Zijun's son to a birthday party. However, He Han and Tang Jing have been together for 10 years, but he said that he couldn't accompany her because we were all busy. We are very similar, at first we called each other "Luo Zijun", and later called each other "Tang Jing".
My marriage with my husband was not going well, we didn't speak, and the reason why we didn't speak for a year may be that our personalities are not suitable. He has a lot to say to others, but nothing to say to me. It's been more than 20 days since we went home for the Chinese New Year, and we still haven't said ten words. However, when my friends came to the store, they never had nothing to say, but my sister-in-law said, "We don't have much to say, so we just chatter around at home." "I would love to have a good marriage, but there is no other way but to live together.
My friend Lao Li is too busy. He said it was 1 a.m.
Still, he finds time in his busy schedule to chat between meals and other things, chatting, gossiping, and talking about sesame mung beans. That's insignificant. The size of a sesame seed or green bean. Lao Li and his friends have a common rule: before going to bed, put down the phone, close the computer, and lie in bed and chat for 10 to 30 minutes.
Through this communication, they are always able to perceive each other and understand each other's thoughts. They understand that a long marriage is not maintained by past relationships, but by every second of giving. Current. If your garden is not watered enough. You can't expect him to make mistakes. Similarly, if you can't patiently manage your love life or marriage, you can't expect long-term happiness from him.
The reason why we find life boring is because we don't realize how much of it is our own. Of course, we often forget about ourselves and try to remember our time together, but I wish we could look back on our memories and joke about every situation we can think of. But I still don't think I'm doing well.
It was a really good feeling, and my feelings were strong and bright. But now, despite taking each other's existence for granted, we still don't know that we are the same love. I will cherish it and spend the rest of my life running it and making it better and better.
May I have something to say, and may our relationship be sincere and long-lasting. Who doesn't want a happy marriage and a smooth relationship?