We all have a lot of regrets and hope to be able to go back, but we can't go back in life. There is no rehearsal in life, every second is a stage, and if you miss it, you can never start again. So someone has summarized 18 steps to help women avoid making mistakes in life. Girls, please take a closer look
18-28 years old.
1.Read more and think more. After the age of 25, the effects are gradually noticed. Knowledge can change your destiny, but only your husband can change your life. You may be a master of knowledge, but you are only the spouse of your husband. Don't depend on others, don't depend on others for everything.
2.Work hard to get into top universities. Of course, first class is the best. During college, don't miss out on opportunities for self-expression and exercise, as well as opportunities to fall in love.
3. Dress beautiful and cute every day, and fall in love with me at least once. Most women need unforgettable love. In doing so, you can not only gain emotional immunity as soon as possible, but also leave room for more rationality in the future.
4. If you don't plan to become a "Dink", conditions permit, and your parents also help bring the baby, then hurry up and have a baby. This result is necessary for women who value a normal life.
28-38 years old.
5.Don't forget to take the time to read books and newspapers. Since you are no longer a girl, the number of fashion magazines should not exceed 40%. Even if you don't want stuffed animals, you can buy them.
6.If you can't miss getting married, don't miss out. Of course, once you miss it, don't stop there. Finding the wrong person will hurt you and him more than not getting married. Marriage is not a big deal. For the sake of your parents, try to love your husband. Slow bull markets aren't all that passionate, but at least they don't go up and down like crazy so you don't feel exhausted.
7. You must have a few good friends with red faces and blue faces. A best friend will help you understand yourself and relax. Runyan's best friend helps her understand men and society. If you can't control yourself and end up having sex with your soul mate, congratulations on finding your partner. Enjoy life and don't complain about the rotten eggs that conservatives throw at you. The truth is that the right to sleep ultimately belongs to women. If you don't do something, you can do something. Unprincipled kindness and teasing will only make you a deserter or a loser.
8. If you are over 25 years old and have a boyfriend, especially if you still want to get married, it is best not to consider breaking up, unless there is a major conflict. The older you get, the more costly it is to have a conflict with a stranger and more likely a third party. But life is free. Being single brings loneliness and happiness, while marriage brings pain and loneliness. If you don't see marriage as a destination, don't worry.
9. When you decide to marry the person you love, don't worry about taking the initiative to give and be a considerate and good wife. It is your happiness to have someone who is worthy of everything you give for a woman. It is also like fireworks flickering in the night sky of a long married life. Only love can have warmth, and only warmth can lead to happiness. If you are unfortunate enough not to find that person, you need to know what you are doing and take responsibility for yourself.
10 Learn to love yourself. Because if you don't love yourself, no love will love you.
11.When you're 28 years old, dedicate yourself to your career. This is when I feel the most tired. You should be a good wife and a good employee at the same time. If you're lucky enough to be in the middle of your career, I don't think you have to worry about it. Of course, not all women have such strong ambitions, but at least they can do what they love. Even if you write an article, don't say you just like to lie on the couch and watch TV and eat snacks.
12.Buy your own house, live in your own house, rent your own house. If you have the opportunity to travel abroad, it's a good idea to relax and gain knowledge. I just don't have enough money. You can go out on your bike and watch the dudes pass by. A good mood is something you create.
13.I know you love your job, but you shouldn't love your boss.
14.We must be financially and ideologically independent women. Under this premise, find a good husband who respects you and be a good cat without pressure.
After the age of 38.
15.In any case, you won't feel young anymore after the age of 38. Look at the young people around you, there are only two words: jealousy. At this time, femininity is particularly important. Temperament and connotation are inseparable. I am grateful for the books I have read, for my struggles, reflections, and optimistic life journeys. Temperament can't be faked.
16. After a woman is 38 years old, she must have her own career. This profession does not have to be a company or a business, but an activity that can enrich your life and bring more or less joy to others.
If you are unmarried after the age of the year, you can fall in love.
18.38 After the age of 38, gender characteristics become less and less obvious, and we can finally feel more relaxed and secure in relationships between men and women.