The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been difficult to get along with, this is a custom for many years, and the daughter-in-law is disrespectful to her mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law should also find the reason in herself.
In fact, there is no distinction between noble and lowly people, it is not a family, and it is not a family. Since there is fate to get together in this family, it is fate, and we must treat each other with respect and understanding. Whether it is a mother-in-law or a daughter-in-law, we must tolerate each other, life is like playing **, not you hang on to me, please cherish the fate of getting together.
Respect is mutual, mother-in-law is an elder and should also love her son and daughter-in-law, don't always think about the junior to be filial to you. Ten years of seeing your mother-in-law, ten years of seeing your daughter-in-law, if you don't pay any return, your daughter-in-law is not your own after all.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, and the upbringing of the parents' parents is a problem. I will never let my daughter-in-law bully my mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law did not raise a daughter-in-law, and the mother-in-law did not raise a son-in-law, the key is the issue of family education. I only have one daughter, and I will not be a mother-in-law in this life. But since my daughter got married, I told my daughter to be kind to her mother-in-law and father-in-law. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, mother-in-law and son-in-law are not related by blood, but it is not easy to live together. If you have something, just talk about it, don't keep it in your heart, don't be suspicious, and don't tear your face with your mother-in-law, that's not good. The mother-in-law is also very hard, tired for most of her life, marrying a daughter-in-law and emptying the family, and even borrowing money everywhere to buy a house and a car for her son to hold a wedding. Everything must learn to be patient, and after running-in, it can be integrated together, regardless of whether it is rich or poor, we must respect the old and love the young. Of course, some mothers-in-law and mothers-in-law do not have a correct understanding and tear up their children's families, and there are also unreasonable ones.
Mother-in-law has worked hard to raise her children, and has spent most of her life's energy, and she has to take care of the children from generation to generation, help you clean up the house, do housework, and sometimes have financial support, and compare your heart to your heart, if the mother-in-law is good to her daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law must be filial to her mother-in-law.
This is what a mother-in-law with a very positive outlook said, which is really admirable.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, that is because the mother-in-law is too accommodating to her daughter-in-law, and it forms a habit over time. The mother-in-law of an ordinary family does not dare to argue with her daughter-in-law, unless she has a lot of money in her hand, otherwise she is afraid of her daughter-in-law divorcing, so she can only swallow her anger and be careful.
No matter how good a mother-in-law is to her daughter-in-law, how many daughters-in-law treat her mother-in-law as her own mother. Mother-in-law is also a human being, so don't wronged yourself to bear the pain and hurt your dignity.
Some mother-in-law said that her daughter-in-law had just married and was used to her, and she took it for granted. After a long time, the daughter-in-law does not treat herself as an elder, or makes unrestrictive and unconscionable remarks, so she must reflect on her methods and protect her dignity. I am not a subordinate, what should be done and what should not be done, I know very well in my heart that people are reincarnated, and now I am a daughter-in-law, and I will be a mother-in-law in more than 20 years. Try to be together as little as possible, if possible, it is best to rent a house near the son's community, take the children in your own home, try to stay away from them, contact them less, and reduce conflicts.
For the sake of children and grandchildren, grievances and grievances are sought to be fulfilled, but they don't know that their children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, so don't be a horse or a cow for your children and grandchildren.
The bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is caused by the incompetence of his son and the inability to reconcile between his mother and daughter-in-law. The mother-in-law only cares about doing her part, and she manages too much, but she is not welcomed.
There are no rules, there is no square circle, and from the moment you marry into the family, you must set rules for your son and daughter-in-law. When it comes to saying ugly things in the first place, elders are elders, and they can't blindly tolerate and accommodate.
Whether the daughter-in-law is filial or not depends on the son, if the son is good enough, can make money, knows how to be grateful, and has enough say in front of his wife. The mother-in-law also has a certain social status and a high pension, so there will be no daughter-in-law who dares to bully the mother-in-law.
In the face of her daughter-in-law, her mother-in-law must maintain her dignity and stay away. Because she is not your biological child, try to communicate through your son if there is anything, and if your son is not sensible, then stay away from them. Then you can help them watch their grandchildren, just "help", not should.
Why did his son get married and let his parents contribute money and efforts, but in the end he provided for his parents-in-law? It is for this reason that every contemporary family is an only child who is used to being raised, so after the son gets married, he doesn't know that he feels sorry for his parents, and he is afraid that he can't mess with his daughter-in-law, so he naturally becomes the ** who connives, and his parents-in-law bully his parents.
The son is already an adult, so after getting married and having children, don't care too much, and go their own way. Regardless of the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, no one should bully anyone, and it is the right way for the elderly to save some money for the elderly.
Mother-in-law should also empathize, self-reflect, and interfere as little as possible in the lives of young people, so that their children can live their own lives.
Mother-in-law should always let go, young people will live their own days, go to the children's house, talk less, move if they can, go back to their own homes if they can't move, the old people should live to understand, and don't be unforgiving, the children must understand the hearts of the elderly, and the old people who stir up the family will not know how to behave until they die.
Don't target the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, treat each other equally, respect each other, exchange hearts for hearts, and understand each other. Don't intensify the contradictions, don't exaggerate the trivialities, don't worry too much, and don't hold grudges. The family should not talk to two families, one treats the daughter-in-law as his own family, and the other treats the mother-in-law as his own mother and filial piety. There is nothing happier than having a happy family and getting along happily.