In the long course of life, we all meet those who make our hearts flutter, they may be friends, colleagues, or strangers we meet by chance. When we are attracted to someone, there is a strong desire in our hearts to be close to them, to get to know them, and even to come into their lives. However, in the process of pursuing affection, we must always maintain a sober and rational attitude, and we must not lose ourselves, let alone give up our dignity.
Dignity is a person's bottom line and principle. It's not just about how we treat others, it's about how we see ourselves. No matter how much we care about a person, it cannot come at the cost of losing dignity. Because if we don't respect ourselves, how can we expect others to respect us? In the world of feelings, dignity is an uncompromising position. We should stick to our bottom line and not be swayed by the thoughts and actions of others.
When we like someone, it's natural to want to be able to have an intimate relationship with them. However, if the other person doesn't like you, we should learn to keep our distance. Forcing yourself to be close to people you don't like will not only make you feel uncomfortable, but you will also lose your dignity. Keeping your distance is not an escape, but a way to protect yourself. We can give ourselves some time to calm down and think about our feelings and needs.
There are too many people in this world who are experiencing the pain of unrequited love. Feelings are not something that can be let go of when you let go, and thoughts are not something that can be forgotten if you forget them. We can't control each other's minds, but we can at least control our actions. Instead of forcing yourself to forget, keep yourself at a distance. In this way, we can have enough time to accept reality and slowly calm our emotions.
Keeping your distance doesn't mean giving up. Rather, it is a more mature and sensible way of dealing with it. We can use this time to improve ourselves and learn new skills, knowledge and experiences. When we become better, we will find that the relationship that was once difficult to let go has become insignificant unconsciously.
And when we meet the right person, our excellence and maturity will become a boost to the relationship. Because a person who is truly worthy of love will appreciate our strengths and strengths, and will grow and progress with us. So, learn to keep your distance, not only for yourself, but also for that person who deserves love.
In short, whether in a relationship or in life, we should maintain a dignity and bottom line. Don't let the impulse of the moment discourage you from abandoning your principles and positions. Learn to keep your distance and learn to control your emotions and behaviors. In this way, we can continue to grow and progress in life and become a better, more mature and confident person.
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