Hello everyone, I'm Qin Chuan. I'm the middle-aged girl who runs three Little Red Books in her spare time. The explosive article dismantled today comes from a book, read 100,000+, read 1129, like 1387, and the title of the article is "The Unspoken Rules of Spring Festival Socialization": No One Says It, But It's Important". 01.Topic selection
This article belongs to the hot + opinion article.
02.Title of the article
Let's take a look at the title of the article, which contains super symbolic words such as Spring Festival and unspoken rules of socialization.
Because it is during the Spring Festival holiday, everyone has to visit relatives and friends, and social networking is inevitable, and such a social unspoken rule article is exactly what everyone needs.
Readers have reasons to read this article.
03.At the beginning of the article
As I said at the beginning of the article, the festival is indispensable for people and sophistication, and everyone must know the 25 unspoken rules of social interaction during the Spring Festival.
The idea of seeing the full text in the first 3 seconds of opening the article arouses the reader's interest in the content of the subsequent article.
In real life, everyone needs to socialize, but how to achieve good socialization is really a science.
Especially in a special period such as the Spring Festival, social interaction between people cannot be escaped, and they can only face difficulties.
This article can be said to be a lifesaver for social terrorists.
04.Article structure
After the beginning, the essay uses a juxtaposition writing technique to present his own views.
First, see people regardless of salary, grades, and objects.
In real life, people ask these three questions most often, and if you think about it, it really doesn't seem polite to ask such questions.
Second, don't make jokes that are out of place.
In social situations where visiting relatives and friends, many people like to make fun of others.
It is estimated that no one can understand the mood of the person being joked.
Any joke that others find not funny is offensive.
Third, don't go along with other people's self-deprecation.
It's okay to laugh at yourself, but it's a big problem for others to laugh at you with you.
There are a total of 25 parallel points of view in the article, and you can search for the original article to read if you are interested.
05.Golden sentence of the article
Don't be stupid and ask about things that others don't want to talk about
In life, many people like to break the casserole and ask the end, in fact, this is also an offense to others.
Sincere praise from the heart is an important lubricant in interpersonal relationships
Some people may think that this is sycophancy, and they don't want to become a layman.
In real life, such people are smart people.
A good teacher will not only fail to show your charm, but will incur the disgust of others
Some people are always good teachers, using their own experience and opinions to guide others. As everyone knows, it's not your turn to intervene in other people's life layouts.
I won't see it another day, and next time I won't ask again, and I'll refuse it in the future].
Adult rejection starts with silence, everyone understands it, don't embarrass others, and don't embarrass yourself.
06.End of article
The article summarizes a point of view, "All people's troubles are due to interpersonal relationships".
This sentence is absolutely absolute, and it is also correct to say that it is correct.
People have to deal with a lot of interpersonal relationships in their lives, from intimate relationships, parent-child relationships, to friend relationships, communication with others, etc., and it is unrealistic to say that you don't worry about interpersonal relationships.
Write at the end
After carefully dismantling this article, I have a lot of feelings.
In life, I am the one who does not handle interpersonal relationships well.
I do things in a big way, and many times I don't think about it enough, I like to ask questions to the end, or some of my behaviors are already annoying, but I don't know it.
In my future work and life, I still have to learn to be a mature adult, keep the boundaries of interpersonal relationships, and learn to handle all kinds of relationships.