In the past two days, the weather in Hainan has been somewhat unstable, and it may be affected by the cold snap across the country.
It is said on the Internet that this year is the coldest winter in Hainan, but for me who lives in Hainan, I don't feel much.
Usually when the sun comes out, everyone still wears half-sleeves, only for a day or two, the weather is gloomy, and when the wind blows, it carries the chill of late autumn, so I have to add a slightly thicker coat.
Taking stock of my life today, there are two things that make me feel the need to record them.
First things first: learn steamed buns with my sister
During our stay in Hainan, in addition to going out to play, most of the time, we cooked and ate by ourselves.
The place where we live is relatively close to Sanya and far from Haikou, so the cost of living is higher. In addition, in addition to seafood, Hainan is not low in buying vegetables and meat.
In order to save money, we usually try to eat out as much as possible.
Today my sister is preparing steamed buns. She often makes it at home, and everyone loves to eat the buns she makes.
And I haven't even steamed steamed buns for many years, let alone made steamed buns, and I finally have the opportunity to learn how to cook with my sister, which makes me very happy.
Practising my cooking skills is part of my retirement plan.
Not only did my sister and I go into the kitchen, but my brother and brother-in-law also often went into the kitchen to cook their specialty dishes.
Don't look at some people who say that entering the kitchen is a woman's business, in fact, in terms of cooking skills, men are more talented than women. Many of the chefs in the hotels are men.
The craftsmanship of my brother and brother-in-law is not bad.
Therefore, cooking is a great opportunity for me to learn cooking skills from everyone up close.
In my opinion,There are two sides to the emergence of anything, there is no absolute good and no absolute bad.
Take this sojourn as an example, the city we live in is not prosperous in business, shopping is inconvenient, and it is a new area, and the cost of living is high.
If you keep dwelling on this matter, your heart will be disturbed by negative emotions, and it will be difficult to experience comfort and happiness during your stay.
On the contrary, if you focus more on the positive issues, it will be different immediately.
For example, due to the high cost of living, we have to cook a lot, and because we have to cook a lot, it provides me with a great opportunity to learn cooking skills from everyone.
And such an opportunity is hard to come by.
In the past few years, I have come to like to focus on the positive side of things, and in many cases, I always find ways to make myself happy, I don't complain about anything, and my inner state has always been stable.
The second thing: read a book in a coffee house
After lunch, construction started again on the construction site outside the window, and I was disturbed by the noise, so I put on my computer and went to the coffee house at the entrance of the community.
Since living here more than a month ago, the coffee house is a frequent place for me.
Listening, reading, and writing articles in the coffee house is very pleasant and wonderful.
Every time I go, there are always a few people like me, who sit here with their computers on their backs, ask for a cup of coffee, and spend most of the day here.
We came to Hainan to rent a house temporarily, and after renting it, we found that there was a construction site outside the window, and there was constant noise every day.
This made it impossible for me to calm down when I wanted to read and write.
But I firmly believe that there is always a solution to many things as long as you think of a solution.
So in two days, I really inspected the coffee house at the entrance of the community, and at the same time I found a fitness gym, which is free and very close to the coffee house.
This allowed me to continue the habit of exercising on the treadmill.
In my opinion,There are always some problems in life, in life, it is inevitable that there are unsatisfactory places, as long as you are willing to use your brains and be willing to think of a way, there is always a way to get yourself out of the predicament.
Today's two things, although small, let me understand:
Learn to look at problems with a positive eye and learn to find a breakthrough in the predicament, so that you can effectively control your own life and be the master of your own life.
How a person's life is lived is determined by the attitude and behavior he chooses when facing little things.
It determines not only our mood, but also our future good fortune and opportunities.