Hey guys, today we're going to talk about singles. Do you think that a boy who has been single for a lifetime or a girl who has been single for a lifetime, who has a harder time? We often say that people should rely on them when they are old, and they will be taken care of by their parents when they are young, and accompanied by their children when they are old. But the reality is that there are always some people who choose to be single for various reasons.
Moreover, with the development of society, this problem is becoming more and more prominent. I found that the problem of singleness is more pronounced among boys than among girls. This seems to be a natural phenomenon in our society, just like we always think in our bones that "men should get married, and women should get married". Therefore, once men and women reach marriageable age, the sound of marriage urging at home is endless. Especially for girls, after the age of 30, the sound of urging marriage is one after another. You may think that boys are just to continue the family bloodline. Even if he is not married, the family's property is his. Therefore, as long as there are other relatives in the family, such as uncles and uncles, they will take care of this lifelong single relative to ensure that he does not end up on the streets. Sometimes, even the next generation will continue to raise this single old man.
As for girls, in the eyes of many people, they are someone else's. Although this feudal mentality is rarely spoken of in the new era, it is still deeply rooted in many families. Although some parents love their daughters, what they want is to make her live better while they are by their daughter's side, so as not to go to other people's homes to suffer in the future. Therefore, if a girl chooses to be single for the rest of her life, her situation may be more difficult than that of a boy. Unless the girl comes from a well-to-do family, the situation could be even worse. If we look at who is more likely to live a bleak single life, I think girls may be a little more miserable.
First of all, for male singles, they don't feel particularly embarrassed. Historically, single men have always existed, and this is nothing new. Nowadays, single men can be found everywhere on the streets, and even more so in rural areas. If a man reaches a certain age and is not married, he may not find anything wrong with him. However, for female singles, the situation is completely different. If a woman reaches a certain age and is not married, she may feel very embarrassed. She might want to find a crack in the ground to get into
Because it's so humiliating to be a female single. In addition, her parents and family may also feel disgraced. For male singles, they usually have a home to call home. Even if they don't get a wife, they at least have a home to go back to. However, for female singles, the situation is even worse. If a woman is not married when she reaches adulthood and her brother is married, then her original home is no longer her home, but her brother and sister-in-law or sister-in-law's. This means that if a woman becomes a single woman and does not marry, she will not be able to continue living in her original home. Even if her brother or brother is willing to let her stay, her sister-in-law or brother-in-law may object.
The end result was that the female bachelor had to run away from home and live alone outside. Isn't this sad and helpless? In society now, it is clear that more men are choosing to become singles. Women, on the other hand, are more likely to choose to marry later, and even fewer choose not to marry for the rest of their lives. This may be because society expects men and women differently, or it may be because women face more pressure in the marriage market. But whatever the reason, as female singles, their lives can be much tougher and more awkward. In today's society, the problem of male singles has become a phenomenon that cannot be ignored. Boys are at greater risk of being single due to a severe imbalance in the ratio of men to women. Many men with poor economic conditions and lack of talent may remain single for a long time, and may even be singles for life.
At the same time, we must also note that some wealthy people even have multiple girlfriends, which leads to an uneven distribution of resources, making it impossible for some men to find a partner. In contrast, while girls may be more miserable when they are single, the problem of single boys is more common. This is not only a personal problem, but also a social problem that requires our joint attention and solution. As for the question of which is more miserable, male or female, I don't think it's a simple question that can be answered. Everyone's situation is different, some people may be better suited to living alone, while others need the company of a partner more. In short, we should respect everyone's choices and lifestyles, but also pay attention to those who face the problem of singleness, and strive to create a more fair and harmonious social environment. If you have any thoughts or opinions, please leave a message in the comment area to share. Thank you for your ** and support, and we'll see you next time.