In this country of etiquette, door-to-door visits have become an indispensable part. During the New Year's holidays, the movement between relatives and friends is always exciting. For me, who was born in the 70s, the experience of visiting the house when I was a child was accompanied by setting off firecrackers, pushing cups and changing lamps, and staying overnight, year after year. However, with the changes of the times, we should have a new understanding of the tradition of visiting doors, and we should not stay in the seventies and eighties.
In modern times, when we visit relatives and friends, how should we respond to different situations in order to be more appropriate? First of all, when we visit our elders who are elderly and live alone, do we really show our concern if we don't leave them to eat? Relatives may not be physically fit to entertain guests, so we should leave gifts and blessings and politely say goodbye, which may be the true friendship.
Secondly, if you find that the attitude of relatives and friends is lukewarm, should you leave in time to avoid adding embarrassment to each other? Sometimes, superficial politeness may mask inner disgust, and in such a situation, it may be more appropriate to say goodbye with a sense of humor. Sincerity between people is not just between words.
In addition, if you are in poor health, should you leave as soon as possible to avoid inconvenience to the owner? Respect for the owner is also a manifestation of respect for oneself. As the old saying goes: "Sixty does not advise drinking, seventy does not stay overnight, eighty does not leave food, and ninety does not stay sitting." "When you are not in good health, you leave at the right time for the sake of your own health and the health of others.
Finally, if there are many guests in the house, can you say goodbye at the right time to reduce the burden on the host? When there are many people, the table may seem crowded, and you say goodbye early, which not only reduces the pressure on the host, but also gives yourself more freedom.
In life, we need to constantly adjust our concept of etiquette and adapt to the changes of the times. We should respect the traditional activity of visiting the door, but also pay attention to etiquette and self-discipline. Whether it is giving or receiving, it should be sincere and natural. Ultimately, human contact is a manifestation of mutual understanding, respect and love. While enjoying the fun of visiting the door, we should also think about how to better integrate this tradition into modern life, so that every visit becomes a good memory.
How do you think the etiquette and traditions of visiting should be adjusted in the modern world?