There is no one in the world who can live their entire life on their parents or others.
A person can only obtain true wealth if he understands that he can only obtain wealth through his own efforts. You are lucky to be born into a wealthy family, but luck does not last forever, it is your personal abilities that help you and last a lifetime. "I envy those rich people, those bureaucrats, those rich second generations. I wonder why I'm in so much pain. I want money, but I don't have money, I don't have rights, I don't have rights. I had to work hard and I earned everything myself. ”
People are not necessarily able to do something just because they want to. Of course, first you need to have the courage to do what you want to do. Many people hope that they can live a happier, happier, richer, and higher social status in their lives. For most of us, the stronger the desire to pursue these things, the more we will explode our deepest desires, and the more we try to make them happen, the more exhausted we will become.
Why do people suffer? It's just that there are too many desires to fulfill.
That's not to say I hate where I was born. When I was a student, I was proud to have been born in the mountains. Two months ago, for the first time in my life, I despised myself, even hated myself.
The failure of my business hit me at the lowest point in my life. When I first started going into debt, I felt panic, anxiety, confusion, and frustration every day. You just want to escape. People who don't understand you will make incomprehensible accusations against you. You're under the pressure of collections** and text messages every day. Without a strong heart, it was really hard for me to bear to give up on myself, have nightmares in the middle of the night, get disoriented, be irritable, lose myself, and so on. Before I didn't have much desire for life, I lived a very nice, peaceful life. Pain comes from chasing the wrong things, not being able to say goodbye to the past, greedily wanting more, and failing because your feelings are greater than your strength.
Whatever the reason, people don't care about your process, only the outcome. Maybe you used to be very wealthy, in the spotlight, drinking and singing with friends from all over the world, laughing at the moon. However, if you don't have money or are in debt, everyone will leave you, and the scenery you saw yesterday will quickly disappear.
Only you can understand the sorrow and pain of a life of debt. You have been ridiculed, ridiculed, abused, belittled, and disrespected by countless people. We notice that people's emotions can be cold, passionate, or cold, and we suffer in silence.
There are times in life that you have to come, but there are also times when you are not forced. Money, power, fame are not the most important, but how you see yourself is what matters, and even if you have everything in the world, it will disappear over time. You go there naked, taking nothing with you, until you die.
Therefore, even if you are in debt and desperate, you must be determined to work hard and survive. Debt is not terrible, and no difficulties can knock you down. You will learn to cherish the people and things in front of you and control your desires and desires. If you believe, endure, overcome, persevere, one day it will heal itself.
The most difficult time in life is also the time when patience is needed the most. The struggle is the most tiring, but also the time when patience is needed the most. The biggest enemy in life is not others, but yourself, and if you can overcome yourself, you can defeat all enemies in your path.
Money is not everything, but without money, nothing is impossible. We need to treat money correctly and not chase it deliberately. In life, we all have big and small desires, but in reality, a person's happiness does not depend on how much wealth he has, but on whether his heart is satisfied. A rich man with millions of dollars may not be truly happy, and a poor boy with no money may not have all his problems. As long as you always maintain a contented heart, happiness will always be with you.
You can't change the past, so there's no need to dwell on it. You can't decide your own future, so don't worry too much. All we can do is accept the current situation and do our best to get off to a better start in this moment. Man must live in the moment, and the rest is delusional.
Do what you can and what you need to do. No one's life is smooth sailing, and even if they fail, they don't regret or complain. How can you get up after a fall and see a rainbow without letting the wind blow? Not everyone can succeed easily. I believe that if we learn to accept the status quo and learn to accept the status quo, the road ahead will be more solid.