"The past is history, but the future is yet to come. Now it's the only thing we can control. ”
Everyone wants to live in the moment, but in reality, many people are always fulfilling. When you feel fear and anxiety, you are constantly focusing on the past and clinging to it, causing you to live in worry all day long. If you want to live a happy life, you have to focus on the present moment.
Except for life and death, everything else in a person's life is a trivial matter. If we don't think about the past and don't fear the future, we can live freely.
The weather in Shanghai these days is just like my mood: cloudy, rainy, colorless gray. Three months of debt left me mentally unstable and couldn't find a normal job for a long time. In fact, unemployment and debt are not the scariest things. The scariest thing is that I still don't know what I'm going to do based on that.
When I first started going into debt, I didn't have the slightest interest in life. All thoughts were lost, sleepless nights were up, and confusion ensued. When my family was asleep, I would sometimes sneak out to the balcony to blow smoke rings, and sometimes hide in the study to wipe my nose. I was so anxious that I couldn't face the reality, and I was about to suffocate. I don't smoke, but now I can't do without cigarettes......Only those who are in debt will understand the feelings of those who are in debt.
Don't try to convince others because everyone has their own obstacles to face. Because people who haven't been here won't listen to people who have been here. Think about it, people who know the truth will not be crushed.
Life is like a mirror. If you smile at it, the mirror will smile at you, and if you cry at it, it will cry at you. Human potential is limitless, and the growth of our potential depends on our own efforts.
No matter how hard and tired life is, you have to live. No matter how much "resistance" there is, it is not as cruel as reality. So when I crossed the threshold of debt, I chose to let go of my attachment and greed. You will find that life is actually very simple and beautiful.
Everyone will inevitably encounter lonely and dark periods in their lives, but there will always be a moment when you can endure them without fear, anxiety, depression, or despair. Overcome loneliness, work quietly, don't complain, don't grieve, don't get angry, look forward, calm yourself, be strong, the future is ahead.
Some people say that life is a kind of practice, and life is a kind of practice. When you overcome all suffering, you are uplifted. When you come out of the darkness, you will have a new life. Hope and sunshine.
Time is the most deceptive thing, but at the same time it also makes us understand that there is nothing in this world that cannot be lost. Cherish what you have, and it's okay if you don't get it.
When we settle down and savor the taste of life, we can find our own happiness and beauty. No matter what kind of pain and suffering we face, as long as we keep smiling, stay optimistic, stay happy, and stick to our values, we can keep our sky, keep our umbrella, and you can enjoy it.
After all, life is determined by mood. Changes in the weather, people's warmth and coldness, and changes in scenery will affect our mood, and all of this is beyond our control. Think about it gently, the sky is only cloudy and sunny, people are only gathered and scattered, the earth is only high and low, emotions do not seek eternity, as long as it is reality, life is the future. No, but if you take everything in front of you very lightly, you can relax. Whether it's right or wrong, no matter what the situation is, having a clear conscience will calm you down.
In life, what we want most is someone who loves us and understands us. When there is a smile in the eyes and warmth in the heart, life is simple happiness. A person's greatest ability lies not in how much wealth he has, how high his status is, but in how honest he can behave in any situation.