Recently, a female boss consulted me:
It's almost Valentine's Day, and there have been a lot of people pursuing her recently, and she is also eager to fall in love and have a Valentine's Day, and ask me what advice do I have?
My reply to her can be summed up in one sentence:When you fall in love, you must stay away from the fools at the bottom.
Why? Because many people can't see the truth clearly no matter what they do, and they have no brains, which is the most terrifying.
You can do without anything, but you must not be without brains, ignorance is the most terrible thing in the world.
In fact, it's the same when it comes to falling in love, I rarely write about gender relations in this number, but as soon as I write it, a group of people pay attention to it, and a group of people take it off, which is very interesting.
Because of the articles I wrote, what I said was unacceptable to many people.
Especially male readers, because almost most of my articles offend low-income male readers.
Even if the reading volume decreases, I will scold a lot of stupid and poor men, leaving behind only male bosses and elites.
Why are so many people scolded by me?
I have also said before: "If a man has no money, all his virtues are rubbish, and money is the foundation of all virtues".
Most low-level men can't stand it when they see it, and they are pierced by me, and they can't rely on "virtue" to cheat and cheat in the future.
When a man reaches the age of 30, he still doesn't have much money in his pocket, and everything you say is wrong, that's the reality.
Think carefully about a question:
Why do many poor ghost men chase women, always like to establish their noble character, sensible, and filial piety to their parents, but never dare to say how much money they make?
Here's the thing: poor ghost men can only rely on these illusory words to cover up their incompetence.
In the vernacular: I don't have money, I want empty gloves white wolf (your youth and body).
99% of the poor men at the bottom are like this, and the remaining 1% are high-quality men.
A high-quality man has a high income, he says that he has high moral character, and what people say is indeed the truth.
If this kind of high-quality man is not of high moral character and has no ability, then he will not accumulate a reputation, many bosses will not deal with him, and he will not make much money, let alone he wants to chase women.
There is nothing more difficult in the world than to make money, and the people who can handle it are not only reliable, but also very shrewd and not emotional. Readers who have read my previous articles are very shrewd. Especially the mature female boss who has read the article "My Road to Female Awakening (In-depth Good Article)".
Men's sweet words and routines can't deceive you, and many times, you are more bullish and smarter than men.
Many low-level dicks don't dare to deal with smart women because they know it's easy to lose.
Because smart women are too sober, except for money and interests, no emotional rhetoric, mountain alliance and sea oath can shake them. I understand this kind of person very well, sober and shrewd are good things for excellent people, which shows that their IQ and income can reduce the dimension and hit others.
If a woman is more sensible, sober, and shrewd, and knows how to fight for her own interests in everything, high-quality men will like it more (low-level dick men like stupid women).
Why would a high-quality man never marry a stupid white sweet, stupid woman, even if he was in love, he wouldn't consider it?
Because the cost of falling in love is too high, good men don't like naïve women. Because people's time is precious, they don't have the energy to talk to you all day long, especially when your career is on the rise.
Excellent people know what is more important, and none of them are fools. So, even if you want to experience the feeling of being in love for Valentine's Day, you must be in a relationship with a sober person and not with a fool.
There is a heart-wrenching fact that is:
Only a fool would like to fall in love with another fool. Really good people don't bother with idiots who don't even think about getting close to you, because fools are too stupid. It's always better to fall in love with a sober person than with a fool, because you'll both weigh your chips and worth to make sure you're not being held back by each other.
Because two sober people know well:The foundation of feelings must be built on the material basis, so that feelings can be solid.
Some people may say: There are people in this world who go both ways, have feelings first and then struggle together.
I want to say: Don't watch too many idol dramas, when you rank interests and values after feelings, or rather, you only have feelings left in the other party's heart, and when the other party betrays you one day, you don't have any burden, because you don't have any bargaining chips. Readers who have read my article for so long, I hope you understand:
Your affection for someone else is just a need, don't use it as a bargaining chip. The more you invest in other people's feelings, the less you can control them, unless you have a strong position and bargaining chips to control the other person's interests. Don't blame me for speaking badly, this is the reality, we want to live a refreshing and happy life, not confused and painful love and marriage, this should be remembered.
If you put this point of view in the career, it is the same.
For example, I need everyone's support (reading my articles, rewarding, paying, etc.), everyone needs my spiritual supply (let me write more truths I haven't heard, and let me output more good articles of ** value), this is a demand, we all have each other's chips. Why do I need your support and why should you read my articles?
Quite simply, because we need each other, we are a mutually beneficial and win-win relationship, which is the same as the essence of the relationship between men and women.
Every author needs traffic to write articles, otherwise no one will have the motivation to update, and many people will not output valuable articles. Why do I write almost every day, and I am still willing to write during the Chinese New Year without resting? Because I see a lot of people who need me every day, thank me, appreciate, pay, etc., and feel a sense of accomplishment, which is what drives me to persevere**. I speak very sharply, and sometimes I curse people at every turn (scolding some people).
The friends I want to stay with to read my article have these two qualities:
1. Different suggestions and voices are acceptable
For example, female readers, no matter if I say that you are a stupid woman or a naïve woman, you will not be angry, as long as what I write is helpful to you, you will recognize my value output. Because, you are a thinking woman, you can understand that what I want to express is not the content itself, but the strong thinking, the essence of the sexes, and the weaknesses of human nature that I want to share with you.
Another example is my male readers, I believe that the ones who remain now are all male bosses.
No matter if I say in the article that you are a low-level dick man, a fool, a poor ghost, etc., you will not be angry because you are not. Maybe you are now, but you know that you will definitely not be in the future, you will not immediately raise the bar with me, but you will strengthen your cognition and strength.
Second, I won't believe in the chicken soup text and ** text.
Why do many people like to read chicken soup texts and ** texts? Many readers are actually insecure in their hearts, so they like to read chicken soup texts. I don't deny that chicken soup is really good, but that doesn't change the fact that you're hungry. But if you can eat chicken directly and get to the essence, isn't it more effective than chicken soup?
*The article is the same as the chicken soup article, and it can't change your hypocrisy.
You don't have any money, no matter how much you read, you still can't ** your hypocrisy. Therefore, the most important thing is to recognize the truth in everything you do, improve yourself, stay away from fools, and live the life you want. 