Why do they want to ban teacher-student love?
Everyone knows that guns are not banned in the United States, and they can buy and sell and own guns freely.
But they prohibit teacher-student relationships, and universities also prohibit teacher-student relationships, unless you give up your studies, or give up your job.
The purpose of banning teacher-student love is because of the inequality of power between teachers and students.
In fact, in China, teacher-student love has long been explicitly prohibited.
What is the need to ban teacher-student love?
The first is a kind of protection for minors, who are immature and in adolescence, and they also have ignorant expectations for feelings.
As their teachers, in the ignorance period of their youth, if they take the initiative a little, it is easy for students to have feelings for teachers other than teachers and students.
Adolescent students can't talk to their parents and feel that there is a generation gap, but they feel that the teacher can understand them, understand them, and the teacher has "power" in his hands, and he has a further relationship with the teacher, and they can be taken care of by the teacher in life and study.
Everyone has heard of PUA, which means psychological manipulation of others through specific techniques and strategies, that is, attracting the opposite sex, making the opposite sex surrender, and thus mentally manipulating.
In school, the identities of teachers and students are more special, for example, whether the teacher takes special care of a certain person, is there any purpose?
Especially in universities, many students will be PUA by teachers with ulterior motives in order to complete graduation, so that students obey the teacher's words, which is the so-called "academic daji", especially in the academic world of graduate students, this situation is not uncommon.
Just like the recent incident of a female teacher and a 16-year-old high school student in Shanghai No. 2 Middle School.
The female teacher has been married and married, and has reached adulthood, but the student is only 16 years old, and he is still a minor in terms of legal age, and the mind of the female teacher must be more mature than that of the student, and as a teacher, she should correctly guide the students' emotions.
Education professionals said: In my country, teacher-student love has long been explicitly prohibited, and if there is a teacher-student relationship, teachers need to be responsible.
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