Xu Yajun, who was 16 years old that year, met the first love of his life at ** school. It was a sunny afternoon, and it was the bright spring season outside the window.
Xu Yajun was chatting with a girl with bright eyes and bright teeth next to him, and the two occasionally had a few conversations, but most of the time they were silent. It turns out that the girl is also full of expectations for medicine, and Xu Yajun has always been yearning for the profession of **.
In the back and forth of getting along, the two hearts gradually got closer and the feelings became deeper and deeper.
In youth, love always comes quietly, catching boys and girls off guard. In an instant, they decided to stay with each other and spend the rest of their lives together. Although parents have some opinions, they can't bear to spoil their children's beautiful fantasies.
Therefore, 16-year-old Xu Yajun walked into his first marriage hall with enthusiasm.
After getting married, the two worked together in the hospital, which was very sweet. The work of the angel in white is hectic but fulfilling. After work, they go home hand in hand and enjoy a rare leisure time.
In those days and nights, Xu Yajun was full of expectations to spend his life with the people in front of him. However, the frivolity of blood will eventually cool down, time flies by, and this love like spring water will always fade one day.
After 6 years, their relationship gradually became estranged, and they finally had no choice but to break up.
Faced with the failure of his first marriage, Xu Yajun was full of emotion. He knows that there is still a long way to go in life, and that losing and gaining go hand in hand. Therefore, at the age of 22, he chose to divorce and go on his own.
At that time, he was young and full of hope for the future. Therefore, he embarked on a new journey, facing the unknown alone.
In 1995, at the age of 27, Xu Yajun entered the esports industry, and he realized that esports in China was booming, and various competitions were springing up.
Xu Yajun was keenly aware of the business opportunities and resolutely decided to devote himself to this emerging business. At first, his friends were not optimistic and advised him to think twice. However, Xu Yajun is full of confidence and firmly believes that e-sports will flourish, which is a blue ocean full of opportunities.
In order to shape his e-sports career, Xu Yajun traveled around and participated in many industry exchange activities for this goal. At a game show, he was fortunate to meet the popular female anchor Xiao Min.
It turns out that Xiaomin is also a super fan in the gaming industry, and the e-sports live broadcast room she hosts has millions of loyal fans. The two fell in love at first sight and quickly ignited a spark of love. Xiao Min fully supports Xu Yajun's e-sports dream and takes the initiative to play for his career.
With Xiaomin's help, Xu Yajun quickly established his own esports studio.
The fate of the two has made their careers and love both fruitful. The studio is developing rapidly, and Xu Yajun is also intoxicated with a beautiful married life.
The days with Xiao Min were so beautiful that they seemed to be dreams, and he was in a trance several times worried that he would wake up as soon as he opened his eyes. However, good times are always short-lived, and just when her career was about to usher in an upward period, Xiao Min suddenly announced that her heart had belonged.
After it was over, she left with helplessness, taking away all Xu Yajun's love.
The second divorce made Xu Yajun's heart ache. In the middle of the night, he could not sleep and could not bear the pain of losing his loved ones. However, life is full of impermanence, and there is still a long way to go.
Xu Yajun told himself that he couldn't be trapped by tears and had to set off again. So, he sorted out his mind alone and prepared to start a new part of the journey.
In 2001, through a friend's introduction, Xu Yajun met Li Min, the senior secretary. Li Min is a talented, intelligent and capable career-oriented strong woman, the two fell in love at first sight, and then entered into marriage.
At this time, Xu Yajun has passed the age of no confusion, has an open-minded view of love and marriage, and no longer has reckless and impulsive youth memories. He thinks that Li Min is the most suitable partner for him, and she is mature and stable in her career, which can give him a sense of stability.
At the beginning of their marriage, they were very sweet and affectionate. Li Min often works overtime, while Xu Yajun devotes himself to the e-sports career. Although they get together less and leave more, whenever they can find time to date, they always devote themselves to each other and enjoy each other's company.
However, the seven-year itch came quietly, and the relationship between Li Min and Xu Yajun gradually became estranged. As her work became more and more busy, love and marriage became her burden. Finally one day, she told Xu Yajun frankly that her heart had never really delivered to this marriage relationship.
When she had finished speaking, she left disappointed.
In 2003, Xu Yajun met 41-year-old Yangmei through a friend's introduction, and the two officially got married in 2008 after dating for a while. Yangmei is different from his first three wives, she is not a strong woman, just an ordinary company employee.
However, after the two fell in love at first sight, Xu Yajun was deeply attracted by Yangmei's coquettishness and loveliness, and she fully accepted Xu Yajun's multiple marriage history.
Most of Xu Yajun's previous marriages were based on rational and practical considerations, and he longed for a long-term attachment and fit. The appearance of bayberry was like spring breeze and rain, quietly melting his defenses.
Yangmei is not the kind of person who deliberately pleases others, but she makes Xu Yajun feel extremely comfortable, which may be the sense of belonging he longs for most after a long single life.
When she first got married, Yang Mei fully supported Xu Yajun's e-sports dream, and she regarded her husband's career as her own. Whether it is accompanying him on a business trip or taking care of everything at home, Yangmei does her best.
She would dress up and dance to make Xu Yajun happy when he was in a low mood, and silently handed hot milk to Xu Yajun when he encountered career problems. Sixteen years later, she still cares for him as much as she did when she first got married.
In 2019, Xu Yajun made up his mind to return to his hometown to establish an e-sports school, and Yang Mei did not hesitate to quit her job to follow him home and work as a logistics worker in the school. Today, the school has grown rapidly and has become the hottest e-sports base in his hometown.
The students affectionately called Yangmei Auntie, and the parents were full of praise for the couple's performance. Yangmei still does her job dutifully, so that Xu Yajun can teach with peace of mind. Xu Yajun is deeply grateful for the past 10 years, and he thinks that God finally let him meet such a person who understands him and supports him.
After ten years of ups and downs, the marriage process of Xu Yajun, a handsome guy with a heart of flowers, is complex and changeable. Whether it is his first love, a well-known female anchor, or an executive secretary, his three marriages all ended in divorce.
Luckily, he met his soulmate at the age of 46.
Xu Yajun has always been determined to pursue his e-sports dream. Despite the breakdown of his marriage, he chose to go it alone. The comings and goings of his wife can't change his belief and persistence in the e-sports career.
The 67-year-old started his own esports school in his hometown and enjoys serving as an esports coach. The students are not only his students, but also his friends, and they have become the most important people in Xu Yajun's life.
Time has passed, and Xu Yajun is no longer the amorous and fickle handsome guy he was back then. He gradually understands that the best thing in life is to move towards a dream with his beloved.
The first half of his life was a bad marriage, his wife can change, but his dreams remain the same, which is the most suitable footnote for him.
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