Actor Xu Yajun has stepped into the marriage hall four times in his life, but the first three times ended in failure, so that his inner desire for a happy marriage has never diminished. In those years, Xu Yajun, who was not yet twenty years old, had just lost his first love, and he cried lonely in front of the grave, tears soaking his green face. In the blink of an eye, he met her who was gentle and understanding, as if he soothed his pain. 
However, the good times did not last long, and the concept of disagreement pushed the two to break up. When he met his bosom friend again and heard the wedding bell, Xu Yajun was immersed in a bubble of happiness. Unexpectedly, the busy acting career made him have no time to take care of her at home, and she still didn't think he was enough to take care of the family after all. After the failure of three marriages, Xu Yajun was not discouraged. Whenever he shoots a warm family plot, he will always be outside the set, looking at the huge movie posters. He knew that somewhere in this world, there would still be a woman who would take his hand and spend the rest of his life hand in hand. So, when that splendid spring, the sun on the side of the golf course shone on her face, Xu Yajun walked towards love again. 
This time, Xu Yajun did not make the mistakes of the past, and he learned to manage this relationship with his heart. Every time he quarrels over trivial matters, he always bows his head and admits his mistakes, even if he is right. He began to pay attention to her preferences and gave her all his tenderness. When she had her own child, Xu Yajun didn't care about the important things at work, and just wanted to go home quickly to accompany her through the difficulties. Perhaps the frivolity and blindness of his youth caused the failure of Xu Yajun's previous marriages. And after experiencing pain and maturity, he finally knows how to deal with a relationship. 
To love someone, you need to give and understand, not take it unilaterally. Perhaps God destined that his encounter with her was a perfect bend on the road of his life. On that bright spring day, the sun was shining, and Xu Yajun was practicing his swing alone on the golf course. Since the breakdown of his previous marriages, he has often come here to let the unique tranquility of the green field help him calm down and forget the sadness of the past. Raising the pole, hitting the ball, and watching the ball cross the graceful parabola and fall into the hole, Xu Yajun's heart also calmed down a little. At this moment, a fresh figure broke into his sight, it was Zhang Shu, a little girl who had just graduated from Chinese opera. She came running up and down, her beautiful long hair fluttering in the wind. 
Xu Yajun looked at Zhang Shu, and his heart swelled with unprecedented softness. Perhaps, this is the her he dreamed of. Since then, Xu Yajun began to frequently invite Zhang Shu out to dinner and give her jewelry or flowers. At first, Zhang Shu was a little hesitant, facing this middle-aged man who had been divorced many times, she was not sure if the two would have a result. However, Xu Yajun's sincerity towards her is too obvious. On weekdays, he takes care of her, and he is always the first to admit his mistake when he is angry. Zhang Shu knew that this was Xu Yajun's way of wanting to make up for the lack of the past, and she finally let go of her guard and entered into marriage with him. 
After getting married, Xu Yajun was even more interested in Zhang Shu, and handed over all his salary to her, allowing her to buy her favorite items to her heart's content. When he learned the news of Zhang Shu's pregnancy, Xu Yajun resolutely decided to end work early and go home to accompany him, for fear of delaying the moment of sharing the joy of family with his beloved wife and flesh and blood. Seeing the moment when Zhang Shu gave birth to his lovely son, Xu Yajun's eyes were red with excitement. He swore that he would be good to her for the rest of his life, and he would never have a life of indulgence in drinking and socializing. He wants to make himself a competent husband and father. Perhaps, after experiencing pain and waiting, this simple girl who is twelve years younger than him finally became the owner of Xu Yajun's happy home. He also finally understood that loving someone is not just words, but also needs to be proved by practical actions. 
Actor Xu Yajun's acting career is inseparable from his emotional experience. The teenager Xu Yajun was determined to be an outstanding actor, and with the full support of his brother, he was able to enter the Chinese opera children's actor class to learn acting. After graduating from university, he naturally joined the Children's Art Theater and met his first marriage. Until starring in the movie "The World Found", Xu Yajun, who was only in his early twenties, really emerged, and he became famous for his wonderful interpretation of the role of "Earl", and jumped to the throne of a popular student. At that time, Xu Yajun had superb acting skills and a handsome appearance, and many girls were crazy about him. 
Immediately afterwards, "Li Spring's Spring", which cooperated with Song Dandan, made Xu Yajun gain fame and fortune in the film and television industry. Two masterpieces established his status in the entertainment industry and transformed him into a first-line star. Even though the relationship has experienced ups and downs, Xu Yajun has never given up his passion for acting. When his love life finally stabilized, Xu Yajun also entered the first period of his acting career. The mature acting skills and the infection of his family make him exude a more warm and friendly charm on the screen. Today's Xu Yajun is not only an excellent actor, but also a qualified husband and father. 
We can see that career and family go hand in hand, which is the wings of Xu Yajun's happy life. When both areas are in harmony, a person will feel the wholeness of life. His acting career gave Xu Yajun a sense of accomplishment, and his family gave him strength. Eventually, he became a perfect person. The ups and downs of the marriage process have made Xu Yajun's views on feelings and family more and more mature. First of all, longing for a warm and happy home is a true portrayal of Xu Yajun's heart that has never changed. The failure of his previous marriages did not make him lose faith in true love, but made him cherish the happiness in front of him even more. 
Just like a child who is always stubbornly chasing a kite, Xu Yajun has always been persistently pursuing his own family happiness. Secondly, Xu Yajun actively reflected on his past mistakes. When he was young, he didn't know how to exchange ideas with his significant other, and he couldn't set aside time for his family at work. Time has passed, and he has learned to think from the other person's point of view, and he has learned to be considerate of his other half's feelings in a nuanced manner. In the end, meeting Zhang Shu was a great salvation for Xu Yajun's life. Zhang Shu's simple kindness melted the wall of Xu Yajun's guarded heart, and he finally opened his mind to love someone. 
In this relationship, he is no longer stingy with his own efforts, but tries his best to be good to her, just like that early spring, when flowers bloom. Xu Yajun's life is a journey of bravely getting up after falling again and again. Maybe there was a mistake in the original choice, but in the end he found his way to happiness. The growth of each of us needs to be experienced and reflected, in order to become better. February** Dynamic Incentive Program