It is often said, "Character determines destiny." ”
Many times, when we get along with someone, we are actually getting along with their character.
What kind of character will behave like that.
A person with a good personality will not have a bad life.
The ancients have long told us that people with these 3 personalities have the best life
Simple people
Zhuang Ziyun: The husband does not want to be mixed, miscellaneous is more, more is disturbed, disturbed is worried, and worry is not saved. ”
The real avenue should not be mixed with impurities, once it is chaotic, it will cause a lot of disturbances, leading to restlessness, and then worry, too much worry will only make people unable to protect themselves.
In this complicated world, being a simple person is actually a realm.
If a person is always confused by the pursuit of money and power, it is often easy to forget the essence of life.
And a simple person will know how to return to the original intention of life and feel the world with the purest mentality.
There is a saying:Life is a practice, and the purpose of practice is to make yourself easier and simpler.
Simple people will not pursue too much material comfort, but will find inner peace and happiness in ordinary daily life.
No matter how complicated the world is, they need to keep a simple heart and find the beauty of serenity in every moment of life.
The Tao Te Ching says:
The five colors make people blind, the five tones make people deaf, the five flavors make people feel refreshed, the galloping hunt makes people crazy, and the rare goods make people get in trouble. ”
Many times, the more a person has, the more troubles they have.
When we own something, we are also being owned by something.
In this world, the most rare thing is that simple state of mind.
Simplicity does not mean a lack of it, but a pursuit that transcends the material.
What you really need in life is very simple.
The morning light is slightly dewed, the moment of waking up, a cup of elegant tea, a book, bathed in the soft morning light;
When night falls, stroll along the riverside, listen to the melodious **, and feel the harmonious resonance of nature and heart.
Without too much complicated thinking, just simply enjoy the tranquility and beauty of the moment.
Such simple moments allow us to forget our worries and stresses and find inner peace.
The simpler the person, the more understanding of life they have, and the more pure they are as yesterday.
Easy going
Lao Danyun: Good is like water, and water is good for all things without dispute. ”
The easy-going person is like water, quiet and gentle, but also has endless power.
Such people tend to walk calmly, always have a faint smile on their faces, leave room for others to speak and act, are not sharp, and are not competitive.
Go to the poor place of the water, and sit and watch the clouds rise.
They do not fight or grab, but they are deeply tolerant and have a gentle atmosphere.
Mencius said: A gentleman is not much more than being kind to others. ”
If you are always high and aggressive, no matter how talented you are, it will be difficult to show your ambitions.
We often say that harmony is precious, easy-going, is the most moving gesture of time.
As the saying goes:Humble gentleman, gentle as jade.
Only when there is a gentle atmosphere in memory will we be kind to others, and the world will be wide.
Easy-going people tend to be at peace with what they encounter, like a clear spring, and they can be at ease wherever they are.
They know that life is not all smooth sailing, there are ups and downs, but they can handle it calmly no matter what.
As the saying goes: "When the water is clear, there are no fish, and when people are observed, there are no fugitives." ”
An easy-going person will pay attention to the feelings of others and know how to empathize. Therefore, we can always face all kinds of opportunities in life with a tolerant and understanding attitude.
They know very well that life is like an illusion, time is like a song, there are times in life that must be there, and there is no time in life to force it.
Don't force everything, everything is just a matter of fate.
Low profile
Tao Te Ching says:
Holding on to the profit, it is not as good as it is, and it is sharp, not long-term. ”
If a person is too public, he is prone to be unrestrained in his words and deeds, so he is likely to hurt others and create enemies for himself.
Low-key people know the truth of "shooting the first bird with a gun".
They know how to hide their edge at the right time to avoid being targeted.
Keeping a low profile is not weakness, but a wise choice.
They know how to survive in a complex environment, how to overcome rigidity with softness, show their value at critical moments, and resolve crises.
As Mo Yan said:
"Low-key is not a marginalized silence, but an inner strength. ”
Low-key people don't flaunt their achievements and don't show off their wealth.
They respect others, live in harmony with others, and achieve inner abundance and peace while giving warmth and care to others.
Such people are often high but not boastful, high but not arrogant, silently cultivated, and worked hard.
The Song Dynasty poet Shi Zhengjue wrote in "Ode to the Ancient Twenty-one Songs".
Great wisdom is foolishness, great ingenuity is clumsy.
Low-key people, do not judge things and do not compete with others.
The water is deep and silent, people are steady, publicity is a kind of showing off, and low-key is the ability.
Because of convergence, there is nothing to lose; Because of silence, there is more to be gained.
I hope that you and I can find our best state in our future lives, always simple, easy-going, low-key, smooth sailing, and good fortune.
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