Among the founding generals, many chose wives younger than them. ** is one of them, his wife is 24 years younger than him. Today, let's talk about ** and his "young wife".
* He is one of the outstanding leaders of the Communist Party of China, and his life is full of legends. His first wife Xiao Juying died in a battle, while his second wife Lai Yueming would rather die than obey and commit suicide by jumping off a cliff.
* Thinking that Lai Yueming had died, he later learned that Lai Yueming was not dead and married a Red Army that had straggled. This story teaches us that love is not limited by age.
As long as two people truly love each other, the age gap is not a problem. ** and Lai Yueming's story is a good example. Although they have experienced many difficulties and setbacks, they are still together in the end, and this is the power of true love.
* His whole life was for the interests of the party and the people, and his spirit and quality are worthy of our study and respect. His story also reminds us to cherish the people in front of us and not to give up easily because of some misunderstandings and difficulties.
In 1937, ** met fellow villager Hu Lanqi in Nanchang, the two of them met in their early years, and after this meeting, the relationship quickly warmed up, and the two made a marriage contract.
Hu Lanqi's experience is very rich, one of the seven women awarded the rank of general by the National ** Military Committee, and has a close relationship with Song Qingling, He Xiangning and others, and also intersects with celebrities such as Gorky.
However, marriage is subject to the consent of the organization, and due to Hu Lanqi's special status, the organization requires him to continue to conceal his identity and continue to do ** work as a major general of the Kuomintang army.
As a result, the lovers failed to get together in the end. ** For this reason, he wrote a letter to Hu Lanqi, which said: "The horse leather shroud is a heroic sacrifice;Calmly and righteously is silent sacrifice, and for the sake of the revolution, we will eat this cup of bitterness.
If we can't unite within three years, we're all free and don't interfere with each other." In the New Fourth Army, there were more female comrades in the service regiment. ** The marriage with Hu Lanqi failed, and in order to solve personal problems, he began to look for the girl he liked in the service group.
Looking around, he fell in love with a Shanghai girl, who was very good-looking. After inquiring privately, he was only 16 years old. **Please ask the deputy head Xie Yunhui to say goodbye. The little girl listened to Deputy Head Xie's words, sneered, and said, "Commander Chen's age is more than enough for my father, how can we fall in love together?"
* Also laughed off, he said, "Age is not an issue, the important thing is that I fell in love with you at first sight." ”
Xie Yunhui smiled awkwardly and didn't say anything more. Realizing that the little girl didn't want to marry him, she decided to let it go. In the same year, ** was deeply attracted by Zhang Qian, an actor in the service group.
She is delicate and elegant, and very beautiful. Zhang Qian is a native of Hankou, Hubei, working as an actor in the service troupe, born in 1922, 22 years younger than **. This time, ** didn't want to miss this girl, so he took the initiative to express his heart to her.
However, the huge age gap between the two made Zhang Qian hesitate. She refused, saying, "I don't think we're a good fit." * He felt uncomfortable being rejected, but he didn't want to give up easily.
He decided to keep in touch with Zhang Qian, and the two met more and more often. Gradually, Zhang Qian learned about the heroic deeds of ** and had a good impression of him.
It was rumored in the service group that Zhang Qian wanted to cling to the official position and took the initiative to pursue **, which made Zhang Qian feel extremely troubled. After all, young women often feel overwhelmed when something like this happens.
After learning about Zhang Qian's troubles, ** found Xie Yunhui and asked Xie Yunhui to talk to Zhang Qian. ** First encouraged Zhang Qian to pursue her happiness bravely, and then told her about his ideals and ambitions and love for literature, he loves to read and write poetry, and is a veritable "poet general".
After this conversation, Zhang Qian began to have feelings for **. She began to realize that the age gap didn't seem like much of a problem. **Wrote a poem for Zhang Qian: Spring shines like an idiot, and I am ashamed of my Jiangnan commander;Where is the pride for twenty years, and I don't know if I lose with Hongfang.
Zhang Qian was deeply moved by the literati temperament of **, and she found that this general, who was born and died, also had a gentle and considerate side.
After the precipitation of time, Zhang Qian gradually let go of the burden in her heart, and no longer cared about the eyes of others. She observes with her heart, listens to his voice, and feels his breath.
She read another poem by **: With today's ambition, after a hundred battles, I went to Quantai to recruit the old department and cut Yama Luo. The smoke of the southern country is ten years, and this head must be hung to the country.
After the death, the monarchs worked hard, and the good news flew to be used as paper money. The reincarnation revolution is home, and there is an end to the bloody rain. Take righteousness and become benevolent today, and the world is full of free flowers. The heroism in this poem deeply impressed Zhang Qian.
She finally fell in love with this iron-clad and gentle man. In 1940, ** and Zhang Qian officially married in Shuixi Village, Liyang County, Jiangsu Province, where the Jiangnan Headquarters of the New Fourth Army was stationed.
This year, ** was 40 years old, and Zhang Qian was only 18 years old. After getting married, due to the tension of the war, they got together less and left more, but through letters, the two have always maintained a deep relationship.
* Married life with Zhang Qian is full of love and responsibility. They gave birth to four children in their common life, Chen Haosu, Chen Danhuai, Chen Xiaolu and Chen Shanshan.
However, the changes in life put them to the test once again. In 1971, ** was diagnosed with bowel cancer, and Zhang Qian took care of him until his death in 1972.
At this time, Zhang Qian was only 50 years old, but she had to face life alone, which was a major problem faced by old husbands and young wives. After her death, Zhang Qian was devastated by grief, which had a serious impact on her health.
Coupled with the fact that Zhang Qian has lung cancer herself, this pressure makes her even more painful. Two years later, in March 1974, Zhang Qian died of lung cancer at the age of 52. Their love story, though short, is full of affection.