In the long river of years, you have quietly changed, from a young boy to a mature man, from an ignorant girl to a gentle woman. Your face is engraved with the mark of time, and your eyes add a bit of depth. You've changed, you've become more dazzling, you've become more glamorous. But you know, you haven't changed. That innocent you, that persistent you, is still burning in your heart. Everything is done according to nature, and you can do whatever you want in your heart, that's all.
Two people have been together for a long time, and it is inevitable that from time to time they will sigh that you have changed, in fact, sit down and think quietly, we are just getting closer and closer to each other who is too real. What has changed is appearance, experience, and sophistication; What remains unchanged is emotion, dreams, and original intentions. In the torrent of change, we are all unchanging islands, sticking to the purity and truth of our hearts.
Some people may say that people are not static, and the people or things around you are always changing and polishing you at a time and place that you don't know. But this is just like if you love to eat apples, you will not change your original intention of eating apples because of the lack of two pounds from unscrupulous vendors and the bad weather mixed with wind and rain.
The world is impermanent, human affection is weak, and some are just equivalent exchanges under the chain of interests, if your existence is not beneficial to someone or anything, even if you remain unchanged, you will be ruthlessly abandoned. The whole society is like this, you stick to your own opinions, and it is the most terrible thing to do behind closed doors. This kind of thinking is applicable to life as well as to emotions. Just like the fairy tales we read when we were young, your wishes must be based on the premise of satisfying the wishes of others before they can be realized. If you don't overcome obstacles and work hard to change, can you do it?
A book, a cup of tea, a ray of bright sunshine, a trace of soft **, you know, people only think deeply when they are quiet, and the purpose of deep thinking is to change. You may be lazy, or you may be less intelligent, so start by refusing to procrastinate and persevering. In time, you'll be able to say to yourself from the bottom of your heart, I've really done it, I've really changed. The vicissitudes of sophistication are no longer on your face, because you have learned to hide, and your eyes are no longer confused, because you have learned to be persistent. You will like yourself more and more at this time, calm and relaxed, graceful and luxurious between talking and laughing, and shaking the mountains everywhere. But all these changes still can't change you, and you still love apples.
Love life, be kind to the old, cling to dreams, treat people sincerely, consistently stick to the good side, and strive to change the unfavorable side of people and things. What has changed is the triviality of life on the outside, the imprint imposed on you by many things, but what has not changed is your inside, your innate nature, your soul. In retrospect, you will become more adaptable to this society and better understand the world.
At this time, someone tells you that you have changed, whether she is your lover or someone else, you use your proper manners and tenacious eyes to tell them that I have changed, but I have not changed.