When do people usually want to change themselves?
It must have been a time of utter disappointment with humanity.
Just like me, I once cried at a low point in my life, saw through the warmth and coldness of the world, and felt hopeless.
But it was this experience that made me wake up and understand the loneliness of life and the horror of the human heart.
I saw the ugliness of human nature in the workplace, family relationships, and interpersonal processes in the shopping mall. But instead of being knocked down, I slapped those who hurt me in the face, and I threw myself into my career.
If you're at a low point in your life, no matter what you want to do, as long as you can put yourself into a state of flow, you'll gradually find your own strength and a sense of control.
I have a strong resonance with Du Leying in "Hot and Hot", that is, the loneliness on the road of perseverance.
In the first few years I came back, I grew up very quickly. This kind of strong internal drive is not because of love, but because of the desire to live a life. Later, part of it was the internal driving force that transformed the resentment of the villain in the workplace.
There is nothing to be nostalgic for in a low-profile life, there are too many villains. It's 2024 now, and we're excited to embrace our new life.
To radically change yourself, you need to do three things.
First, change the environment. Scheduling your time and keeping up with the fast pace and competition of the big city will keep you motivated. Go to Beijing, Shenzhen, Shanghai or Hong Kong, go to Hangzhou, and be close to the source of information to speed up success.
Second, change the circle. What is Destiny? It is the interweaving of relationships between people. What kind of person you are with determines your fate. If you want to change your fate, you must first change the circle. If you're the best in the circle, change your circle. Learn from the strong and you will meet more nobles. The power of circles makes it hard for you to fail.
Finally, change your personality. Now you see me, I've gone through countless iterations. One of the biggest changes is personality. Entrepreneurship has taught me that emotions are the most useless. Look at the problem without distinguishing between good and bad, only look at the pros and cons. The adult world doesn't need much emotion. In order to protect yourself, when it comes to interests, treat the other party as a villain first, and explain all the details and agreements clearly. If a woman wants to succeed, she must first temper her character and hide her emotions in order to protect herself.
Only change and innovation can quickly move through the darkness. If you're at a low point in your life right now, don't be afraid. On the nameless road, there are always people who grow silently! You can too! Jia Ling's new movie is hot and hot