It's summer vacation, and my sister-in-law wants my nephew to come to the house to play, and this time I won't let me live on the high-quality author list
Xiaojuan received her sister-in-law's **, learned that her nephew was on summer vacation, wanted to play at her house, and proposed to let the child live in her house. The sister-in-law said that Xiaoyan and Xiaotong are of the same age and can have a lot of fun together. However, Xiaojuan insisted that she could let her nephew come and play for two days, but she definitely couldn't live at her house. The reason is that the last time my nephew stayed at her house for a month, it gave her a headache.
The last summer vacation experience made Xiaojuan shy away from her nephew. At that time, the sister-in-law took her son to Xiaojuan's house, Xiaoyan was not there, and Xiaotong played upside down alone. Xiaojuan felt that her nephew was like an ADHD patient, moving around, shuttling back and forth between rooms, and boldly opening drawers.
Suddenly, there was a loud noise, and Xiaojuan hurriedly rushed over with her sister-in-law, for fear that the child would fall and hurt herself. It turns out that Xiaoyan's beloved airplane model has fallen to the ground. Xiao Yan is angry and blames Xiao Tong for paying a new one. However, the boy said confidently: "I didn't fall, which eye of yours saw that I broke it?" In order to calm the quarrel between the two children, Xiaojuan had to promise to take her son to buy a new model airplane tomorrow, which barely stopped the quarrel between Xiaoyan and Xiaotong.
Children are like that, one moment they are arguing, and the next they are happily playing together.
This time, the sister-in-law specially brought her son and planned to let the nephew spend the whole summer vacation at the aunt's house, with the cousin as his companion. Xiaojuan heard her sister-in-law mention that she let her nephew stay at her house for the whole summer vacation, and she felt a little embarrassed, because she was afraid that she wouldn't be able to control this little naughty guy.
After hesitating for a moment, Xiaojuan told her sister-in-law that she still had work to do in the field, and she was worried that the two children had different personalities and might fight every day.
The sister-in-law said calmly: "It's common for children to make noise, and now aren't the two brothers reconciled?" Isn't it nice that when you're not at home, the child is here, and Xiaoyan has a companion? ”
Xiaojuan nodded helplessly, so she had to let her nephew stay.
This nephew was so mischievous that he ran around all day, sometimes stomping on the ground with his shoes on, and sometimes running around the room with his feet on. asked him to wash his feet, but he refused, let alone wash his face, just scratch it twice.
The nephew is also a trouble in eating, Xiaojuan wrapped a pot of pork stuffed dumplings, the meal was put on the table, and before everyone could eat, the nephew had already pinched a dumpling with his hand, and stopped just after chewing it. Xiaojuan curiously asked him what's wrong, is it hot? The nephew said that he didn't eat pork-filled dumplings, he liked beef-filled. Moreover, he also complained about why his aunt didn't ask him about his taste first when cooking, and he said that when he was at home, his mother would always ask him what he wanted to eat and then cook what he liked.
The nephew doesn't eat dinner, and the aunt cares about his hunger. She asks him about his preferences, and he asks for snacks and loves to eat them.
In the future, Xiaojuan will ask her nephew about her preferences before cooking. Although he doesn't like vegetables and only meat, Xiaojuan will try to get him to eat more vegetables to maintain his health.
Xiaojuan wants her nephew and son to help together, but they don't want to. She instructed them to be safe, not to touch gas and sharp utensils, and not to fight. Xiaojuan is more at ease with her son, but her nephew worries her because he is very naughty.
When Xiaojuan is working outside, she worries that her nephew will get into trouble. When I got home, I found that the house was in chaos, apparently the nephew's doing.
While cooking, Xiaojuan found that the ice cream in the refrigerator had been eaten. She inquired about her son and learned that he had eaten only one and that his nephew had eaten the rest.
Xiaojuan reminded her nephew not to eat too much cold food, so as not to cause diarrhea. The nephew was unhappy that he could eat as much as he wanted at home and was not used to being restricted. As a result, he ate too much ice cream and caused a stomachache, so Xiaojuan had to take him to the doctor.
The doctor confirmed that it was because of the stomach ache caused by eating too much ice cream, and after prescribing the medicine, Xiaojuan decided to call her sister-in-law and proposed to take her nephew back.
The sister-in-law mentioned the child's dietary management at home, emphasizing that he would not be allowed to consume too much cold food, such as ice cream, and that he should only eat one in the morning and one in the afternoon every day. The sister-in-law emphasized that Xiaojuan should discipline the child more, but did not mention that she would take the child back.
Although Xiao Tong is two years older than Xiao Yan, he is not as sensible as him, and Xiao Yan always accommodates him. Both of them love to watch cartoons, but they don't love the same one. Every time, it is the child who occupies the remote control and watches his favorite cartoon. Although Xiaoyan is considerate of Xiaotong and does not quarrel with him, Xiaotong likes to fight.
When Xiaojuan just came home, she saw the neighbor's aunt standing at the door of her house with her grandson from a distance, obviously waiting for her. The aunt angrily accused Xiaojuan of disciplining her nephew because the nephew injured the aunt's grandson. After Xiaojuan found that the child had a big bag on his forehead, she persuaded the aunt to enter the house.
Xiaojuan comforted the aunt, and then brought her nephew to the aunt to apologize. When the child saw that his aunt was angry, he also became afraid, afraid of being blamed by his aunt, so he also apologized to his aunt. Xiaojuan then comforted the child, persuaded the aunt not to be too careful, and promised to punish the nephew harshly, so that he would not dare to fight again in the future. The aunt usually gets along well with Xiaojuan, so she put her mind at ease and left with her grandson.
After Xiaojuan saw her aunt leave, she felt a great responsibility and had to teach her nephew a good lesson. She realized that if this was her biological child, she would have done it a long time ago, but it would not be convenient to treat her nephew. She could only try to reason with him and hope that he would correct his mistake. She knew very well that if her nephew didn't listen, there was nothing she could do.
Since her nephew beat the neighbor's child, Xiaojuan's life has become very uneasy. She had to spend more time at home watching her nephew, fearing that he would get into trouble again.
Xiaojuan is looking forward to the end of the summer vacation soon, because she feels that her nephew is becoming more and more disobedient, and every day can bring her new troubles. What happened next made her even more anxious.
One day, Xiaojuan's mother-in-law came and told her that she had returned from her eldest sister's house. Her eldest sister had just come out of the hospital, and her mother-in-law suggested that Xiaojuan go to visit her, and said that she would let Xiaojuan go with her sister-in-law.
Xiaojuan and Concubine prepared the gift and set off to see the aunt. Before leaving, Xiaojuan specially told her son and nephew to stay at home and not cause trouble. Especially for her nephew, she told her several times. But the nephew looked impatient and urged her to hurry up.
The aunt's house was not far from them, only two miles away, and Xiaojuan and Yujuan arrived soon on an electric car.
After staying at her aunt's house for a while, Xiaojuan and her concubine set off for home.
When she got home, Xiaojuan didn't see the two children at home, and she began to be a little worried, afraid that they would fight with others again. She went out and looked around.
She asked her neighbors, and they all said they hadn't seen the children. Xiaojuan starts to feel anxious, especially for her nephew, because he always likes to cause trouble, and Xiaojuan is worried.
Xiaojuan anxiously searched for her son and nephew, but they seemed to have disappeared. She asked them where they frequented, but found nothing. Her heart was getting more and more anxious, especially in this hot weather, and she was sweating profusely.
Eventually, outside the village, she met her uncle, who had just returned from working in the fields. Just as she was about to ask, her uncle's words interrupted her thoughts: "Go and see, your nephew and son have fallen into the reservoir." ”
Hearing the news, Xiao Juan's heart almost stopped beating. She immediately ran in the direction of the reservoir.
Not far from the reservoir, the normally dry waters are now full of water due to the recent rains. This place is very dangerous, and Xiao Juan clearly remembers that people have died because they fell into the reservoir before. Therefore, parents in the village would warn their children not to go near the reservoir.
Although Xiaojuan had told her son not to go to the reservoir, she didn't expect her nephew to go too. She knew that her nephew was a naughty child, and the more she forbade him to do something, the more he wanted to try. Therefore, she only told her son to keep an eye on his cousins and make sure they did not go near the reservoir.
Finally, Xiaojuan came to the edge of the reservoir and saw several people gathered together. Her heart tightened, and she stepped forward to take a look, and found that the two children had been rescued from the water. Their clothes were soaking wet, apparently fresh from the water.
Seeing that the children were safe and sound, Xiaojuan breathed a sigh of relief, but felt anger welling up in her heart. She couldn't help but slap her son a few times: "Why are you so disobedient? How many times have I told you not to go near the reservoir, why did you still run away? ”
Xiaoyan said that it was not that he took the initiative to go to the reservoir, but that his cousin heard that the water level of the reservoir was **, and he had to go there out of curiosity. He didn't want to go, but his cousin insisted that he was just watching from the reservoir and wouldn't go into the water, so the two of them eventually went. However, the cousin insisted on playing close to the water, and somehow slipped into the water, and he rushed to the rescue, but was implicated and fell into the water.
Onlookers said: "How dangerous this is, if no one finds it in time, these two children will definitely not be able to escape, and they feel terrified when they think of this." ”
This incident frightened Xiaojuan, and she immediately sent her nephew home, realizing that she had not disciplined her nephew well, and at the same time worried that her nephew's behavior would affect her own children. She decided not to let her nephew stay at home anymore, and although it made her sister-in-law unhappy, Xiaojuan stuck to her decision.
Xiaojuan thinks that in the future, she should not let her relatives' children stay at home for a long time, not because she finds it troublesome, but because she thinks her relatives' children are difficult to discipline. Sometimes they do something wrong, and she can't teach them as harshly as she does with her own children. Therefore, she believes that it is more important for children to be with their parents so that they can better discipline them.
During the holidays, parents need to pay more attention to their children, make sure they stay away from danger, pay attention to safety, and let them have a happy and safe holiday.