A woman posted **, when she learned about the family situation after marriage, she couldn't help crying, let's take a look at what the woman said about her current situation.
The Douyin account of the woman released ** shows that the address is in Liaoning, the woman's age is 28 years old, and now the child is two months old, because there is no milk, so the child wants to drink milk powder, and she recently learned about the family's financial situation.
The mortgage is 40w, the mother-in-law owes 10w, and the husband owes 5w, this is the foreign debt owed, the most important thing is that I know that my husband is earning money in other places, and it is 7000 a month, think about it, I rely on this husband 7000 a month, and I want to repay so many foreign debts, when will I be able to pay it off? In addition, there is a mortgage of 2000, plus property fees, heating expenses, car insurance, as well as adult expenses, children's milk powder, the more the woman thinks about it, the more she collapses, and she doesn't know when it will be a head.
Let's calculate an account first, the woman's husband earns 7000 a month, and then repays the mortgage of 2000, the child drinks milk powder 1500 yuan, the child of two months, the amount of this milk powder is enough to drink, the adult is 1500 yuan a month living expenses, the property fee is calculated according to the square meter of the home, 200 yuan per month, the heating fee is evenly spread to 260 a month, I originally wanted to say 250, I think this number is too bad, in addition, the car cost is 600 per month, this number should be a lot, and then give her more mobile phone bills, Electricity and water charges are calculated at 400 per month, 7000-2000-1500-1500-200-260-600-400=540. In fact, according to this calculation, the 7,000 yuan is enough for expenses, and my family situation is not very good, so I will be a little tighter.
As many netizens said, who doesn't have a loan of 400,000 yuan, think about it, it's a lot, but an average of 2,000 yuan per month is enough to deal with, besides, when the children are older, women can also go to work, so that the burden on the family can be reduced a lot. Speaking of the debts of the in-laws, the debts of the in-laws are paid by the in-laws, did the in-laws ask you to pay back the money every month?
In fact, there are only these kinds of life after marriage, the first is that the two of them work hard and strive to make one place, the so-called husband and wife are concentric, and their profits are broken, which is this kind of family, and in the end, the vast majority of such families are slowly living a good life; The second is that one or two of the two people are not living a good life, they just want to enjoy it, they want to eat and stretch their hands, and the final life is difficult to imagine, and it is even difficult to say whether two people can live to the end; In addition, there is another kind, a very small one, but also a very special one, one of the two of them has a particularly good family condition, after getting married, the two can have no worries about food and clothing, or in other words, only the man or the woman needs to work, of course, it seems that most of them are also men working, so this family is very solid, but the premise we also said, this is a very rare one.
Don't watch too many TV series, ** and think that everyone can marry a rich and handsome or domineering president, don't delusionally think that you will become a third person, in reality, in fact, the vast majority of families are like women's families, with mortgages and even car loans, but not all people have to tell their suffering, say it, and cry it. Besides, the woman and her husband are also quite young.