Xiaomei's husband wants to divorce his wife because of her past privacy**, which is indeed a shocking and incomprehensible thing.
First, we need to recognize that everyone has their own past, including emotional experiences. Things in the past have happened and cannot be changed, and we cannot deny a person's present and future because of what happened in the past.
Second, color discrimination is a complex issue that involves a variety of factors such as culture, history, and society. Although we have been emphasizing the equality of all people, in practice, this discrimination still exists. Therefore, we cannot simply assume that it is wrong to have a black boyfriend.
However, Xiaomei's husband wants to divorce because of his wife's past, which is indeed his problem. He should respect his wife's past, but at the same time, he should recognize his own problems and seek solutions.
Finally, we need to recognize the existence of chains of contempt and risk. In some cases, past history may be the reason for the breakdown of the marriage. Therefore, we need to think carefully about our choices and not make bad decisions because of the impulse.
As for whether Xiaomei's husband is making a big fuss, this needs to be considered from multiple angles. On the one hand, he may just not be able to accept his wife's past;On the other hand, he may also have some problems that need to be addressed. The final decision should be made on the basis of communication and understanding between both parties.
In short, we need to face up to the existence of chains of contempt and risk, while also respecting everyone's past and present. Falling in love is free, but it also needs to be carefully considered when choosing a partner.