Doing anything requires patience, carefulness, concentration, intentions, and responsibility Life without suffering is like a flower in a greenhouse, you will never have the opportunity to travel thousands of miles to appreciate the world, and you will never have the strength to meet the wind and rain and thrive.
I have always believed that debts and difficulties are only temporary for me, everything will pass, people are born to overcome difficulties, and everyone wants to live without pain.
We can't choose whether or not there are difficulties in life. We are not free to choose between a difficult life and an ordinary life.
From the day we are born, our growth is a history of growing up with difficulties: to learn to walk, we must endure falls; If we are to learn to speak, we must strive to repeat; If we want to learn to be good, we must learn to compete; If we want to fall in love, we may suffer from love; If we want to work, we have to risk losing our jobs; If we want to start a business, we may go through the baptism of failure. No one can escape the difficulties and pains of life. The difference between people is not the number of difficulties they face in life, but the attitude they adopt when facing them. Different attitudes towards difficulties make different lives.
When we are young, we are always thinking about the future and how to reach higher goals. However, as we enter middle age, we find that the past time is like water. Some people and things, if you miss them, you will miss them forever. Therefore, we should cherish every moment of the present, live in the moment, and enjoy every beautiful moment in life.
When people reach middle age and experience bad difficulties, they know that living well is the greatest blessing, and after experiencing the trough of life, they truly understand that life needs to persist and wait. Life, apart from life and death, is a small thing. Take everything lightly, stay calm, and don't lose your temper when things happen. You must know that nothing is more important than health, no matter how many difficulties there are, as long as the green mountains and green waters are not afraid of no firewood.
What should be experienced and what should not be experienced, what should be endured and what should not be endured have been experienced, swallowed one by one, fear, gratitude, life is their own, a hundred years of life, when naked**, covered by tiles, fireworks world, but three meals, the four seasons change, but fleeting. A hundred years later, it's just a handful of yellow sand.
As Buddhists say, there is no such thing as perfection in life, and there is no need to be perfect. Only when the flowers do not wither, will we cherish the warm and beautiful flowers that bloom; Only in the cold wave complaining on a rainy day can you experience the happiness of a sunny day; It is only when life is short and sad that we can love life more and embrace the truth; Only on the muddy road of life can we leave potholed footprints of life.
In life, there will be pain, but there will be eternal pain. No matter how deep the wound is, no matter how painful the heart, there will always be a day when it will heal;
In life, there is no desperate situation, only one step is needed to cross. However, if you just close yourself off and secretly pity yourself, you can only waste time and boil your hair gray, and only find a way to cross the desperate situation, it is wise.
In life, there is no eternal "Kanda", everything will always pass, the end will always end, the key is the process of "leapfrogging", how will you grasp it.
Mo Yan once said: "No amount of money can withstand death; No matter how beautiful he looks, he can't please the king of hell; No matter how great the power is, you can't escape the parting of life and death, in this life, you can see a little farther, see a little more thoroughly, see a little lighter, live is victory, the world is yours, but in the final analysis, it belongs to those who are healthy and live a long life! ”
Nothing is better than life, and nothing is more difficult than life.
Only when you live a beautiful life can you be qualified to appreciate this beautiful and colorful world, and you can feel the rhythm of life, it is not easy for everyone to live, but we still have to live well.
From this moment on, no matter what difficulties and setbacks we encounter in life, we must believe that we must be able to get through the beautiful ones, and you are qualified to see the rising sun tomorrow, and you only hope to see a different self tomorrow.
The greatest happiness in life is not to pursue "not getting" and regretting "losing", but to cherish what you have now. When you keep doing one thing with peace of mind toward a goal, you will feel that the heart is wide, the earth is wide, and the sky is wide.
Halfway through life, the ups and downs are over. The bitterness that should have been tasted has been tasted; The heart that should have seen it also read. If the heart is worried, there are complaints everywhere, and if the heart is relaxed, it will always be spring.