Hello everyone, I am your old friend Xiao Liu, let's talk about something different today. It's not chicken soup, it's not inspirational, it's a real, temperamental life insight.
Have you ever felt that when you were a child, you were looking forward to growing up, and you felt that time passed too slowly, and it was simply tormenting? Then when you grow up, you feel that time flies too quickly, and in a blink of an eye, those painful and happy days become memories.
I remember when I was a child, I was looking forward to graduating from elementary school as soon as possible, and I felt that time was as slow as a snail. But now it seems that the days at that time were actually quite good, although sometimes we will be criticized by teachers and ridiculed by classmates, but at least we can still maintain an innocent heart, dare to love and hate.
To be honest, at that time, I sometimes felt very incompetent and cowardly. Seeing other students so confident and brave to stand on the podium to speak, I always feel envious in my heart. But I didn't dare, I was afraid that I would be ridiculed and isolated if I said something wrong. I believe many people have had this feeling of powerlessness.
However, as time went on, we slowly grew up and began to be exposed to the wider world. In the process, we will inevitably encounter some people and things that make us uncomfortable. For example, you work hard overtime, but there is an old ** who wants to take advantage of you; You treat your friend sincerely, but he stabs him in the back. What do we do at these times?
What I want to say is, don't be afraid! Don't let these pains and frustrations overwhelm you. The world kisses you in pain, and you slap him! Of course, I don't mean to really hit someone, the "slap" here is a symbol, which means that we must have the courage to face difficulties and dare to resist injustice.
Like the old ** I met after I graduated, I was really scared at the time, but I knew I couldn't hold back. I plucked up the courage and told him in my firmest voice: If you harass me again, I will write an email to your boss! As a result, he disappeared from then on. This incident taught me that sometimes, we just need to be brave enough to express our thoughts and feelings to make those with bad intentions feel bad.
Of course, we can't just be just a bit of a boss. Sometimes, we need to use wisdom to deal with life's challenges. For example, when we encounter unfair treatment at work, we can choose to communicate, negotiate, or even seek legal assistance, rather than blindly tolerating and compromising.
In addition to facing external challenges, we also need to learn to face our own inner fears and insecurity. Sometimes, we are cowardly and timid because we are afraid of failure, of being ridiculed, of losing the approval of others. However, we need to know that these fears and insecurities are of our own making, and they do not really hurt us.
Therefore, we must be brave enough to face our fears and insecurities and use our inner strength to dispel them. As the song goes: "Give you a little red flower, blooming on your new branch yesterday." "We have to believe in ourselves and believe that we are capable of dealing with all the challenges in life.
In conclusion, I would like to say that life will not always be smooth sailing, it will have wind, there will be rain, and there will even be thunder and lightning. However, as long as we have courage, wisdom, and a firm heart, we can gain a foothold in this world and live our own worth.
So, no matter what the world treats you, you have to believe that you are capable of coping. The world kisses you in pain, and you slap him! Remember, you're not fighting alone, you and me, and we're a group of like-minded friends. Let's work together, grow together, and become a better version of ourselves together!
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