Zhang Xiaoxian has used delicate brushstrokes to depict the inner life of women.
She once said that as a woman, simplicity does not mean stupidity, ruthlessness does not mean ignorance, and stupidity does not really mean stupidity.
There are many smart women in this world, but it is rare to be able to stay calm in a relationship.
As wise women, we need to be brave to love. Learn to love yourself first, and then learn to love others.
Self-love means that if you want to love others, you must first love yourself. Only self-love can win the respect and love of others.
Loving others means understanding and respecting others, giving them warmth and care. A wise woman knows how to balance her own needs with the needs of others, how to remain independent in love.
A wise woman knows how to control her happiness and make love no longer an obstacle for her, but a beauty in her life.
They know that love is about giving and receiving, about mutual tolerance and understanding.
They don't refuse to accept each other's love for fear of losing, and they don't give too much and ignore their feelings.
The famous French writer Malraux said: "True love gives each other freedom, understanding and respect. ”
This deep understanding and respect is what smart women seek in their relationships and is their foundation. Stay sober in their relationship.
So, as wise women, we need to be brave to love and learn to love ourselves first and then learn to love others.