Cai Ming's son, who has been hiding his faceless identity for 37 years, has finally appeared!
He was sent to England to study at the age of 15.
After he returned to China after completing his studies, he once felt "unadaptable" and could not adapt to the domestic environment.
I am not used to the taste of Chinese food, so I don't get along well with my colleagues and become an outlier in the eyes of others.
He later chose to start his own business and became the screenwriter of "Thai Embarrassment", which made Cai Ming very proud.
However, his son has become a heart disease that Cai Ming has not been able to get rid of to this day, and there is still a major problem.
With his love for literature and art, Cai Ming joined the Actors Troupe of Beijing Film Studio in his early years.
Compared with the current title of "Sketch Queen", Cai Ming mainly focused on film and television drama performances at that time.
Cai Ming rose to prominence in the film because of his excellent appearance and superb acting skills.
Ding Qiuxing attended an event at the end of 1983 when he was working as a director of the China Broadcasting Art Troupe.
When he arrived at the scene, he immediately became emotional.
Ding Qiuxing's excitement could not be suppressed, because Cai Ming in front of her was young and beautiful.
As a director, Ding Qiuxing was very familiar with the popular movies of the time.
In the process, she naturally learned about Cai Ming, a high-profile actress at the time.
Perhaps it was the arrangement of fate, at that event, Ding Qiuxing happened to meet Cai Ming, whom he had always had a crush.
Ding Qiuxing decided to take the initiative to take the initiative and firmly grasp the opportunity of this encounter to get to know this girl.
Unexpectedly, however, he made a mistake at this moment.
Ding Qiuxing originally planned to write a note to Cai Ming, but she rummaged through her entire body and couldn't find a single piece of paper.
The only thing he was carrying was a packet of ointment that he had just purchased not long ago.
The current situation is very urgent, and if this opportunity is missed, it may be difficult to have the opportunity to contact it again in the future.
Ding Qiuxing had a flash of inspiration and directly wrote his personal information on the plaster.
Ding Qiuxing walked in front of Cai Ming with a prepared plaster in his hand.
However, surprisingly, he did not hand the plaster directly to Cai Ming, but pretended to inadvertently stick it on Cai Ming's clothes.
A few days later, Cai Ming actually contacted Ding Qiuxing, which was originally just an attempt by Ding Qiuxing.
Cai Ming didn't think too much about Ding Qiuxing at that time, and just got along with her as a friend.
Seeing this, Ding Qiuxing felt a little nervous, so he tried his best to adopt a new strategy in order to get closer to Cai Ming's heart.
With his extensive network resources, Ding Qiuxing quietly obtained Cai Ming's filming address.
After he got the "information", he began to implement the plan he had already planned.
Every day, Ding Qiuxing continued to write letters to Cai Ming and mailed them to Cai Ming's place of work.
More than three months have passed, and Cai Ming's scene has only been filmed.
During this time, Cai Ming further learned about Ding Qiuxing's life and character through letters.
In the end, after being moved by 100 love letters, Cai Ming decided to get together with Ding Qiuxing.
After two years of love, they decided to get married in 1985.
Although the wedding ceremony was relatively simple at the time, it was full of happiness and satisfaction for the couple.
Their child was born the year after they got married.
Cai Ming and Ding Qiuxing have been hesitant to name their children.
They considered it carefully, and even consulted the Xinhua dictionary, but they were still unsure of what kind of name would be more appropriate for their child.
When the relationship between the husband and wife has not yet been confirmed, the issue of the child's household registration has become a matter of urgency.
Time is running out, but the child's name has not yet been decided.
At this time, Ding's father proposed on the side: "Maybe it should be called Ding Ding." ”
When they heard the name, they thought it was smooth and easy to pronounce, so they decided to give it to their son.
Little did they know that a name had been used for 38 years.
Tintin was a skinny kid when he was a child, he liked to be quiet and not too noisy.
When Tintin was in first grade, he worked hard to save money for a long time in order to send Mother's Day wishes to his mother in advance.
When the festival came, he hurriedly bought a bouquet of flowers and rushed home.
Tintin was too happy to notice the petals on his hand until he got home to find that the wind had blown only one rod in his hand.
When Cai Ming saw this scene, he couldn't help but wonder: "What is that stick in your hand?" ”
Ding Ding glanced down and said aggrievedly, "My flower is gone." ”
Cai Ming smiled and picked him up, feeling a lot of emotion in his heart.
As his career continues to grow, Cai Ming puts most of his energy into his work.
After discussing with the family, Cai Ming made a decision: to send the child to the UK for a better education.
At the age of 15, Tintin embarked on his own education and left his family.
As a mother, Cai Ming is always paying attention to the child's living situation.
Due to the distance, relying only on ** contact always seems close enough.
After spending adolescence abroad, the child's personality changes dramatically.
Eight years have flown by, and inadvertently, Ding Ding finally ushered in the day of graduation and returning to China.
Cai Ming thought that she could enjoy the time of family reunion, but what happened after that was completely unexpected by her.
Cai Ming and Ding Qiuxing went to the airport together in 2009 to receive their son, who was about to return from studying abroad.
Cai Ming looked at Ding Ding, who had grown up and matured, and felt both relieved and felt that time had passed in a hurry.
In order to express his emotions, Cai Ming personally cooked that day and made many delicacies that Ding Ding loved when he was a child.
However, after such a long time, Tintin has lived abroad for 8 years and has long since changed his tastes.
In desperation, Cai Ming once again served as an "apprentice" to learn how to cook Western food for his son.
However, the differences between mother and child are not limited to diet, but also to lifestyle habits.
Cai Ming has worked hard in the entertainment industry for many years, and his popularity has always been very good.
Occasionally, she would invite friends over to her house to play, sometimes playing cards, sometimes chatting.
However, these actions are completely intolerable in Tintin's opinion.
He believes that casual visits by outsiders are a kind of interference with personal space.
Therefore, he exchanged his views with Cai Ming many times, but Cai Ming did not pay much attention.
After Tintin returned to China, he found that he had also encountered a bottleneck in his career development.
Tintin is unable to adapt to the workplace atmosphere in China because Western culture focuses on personal independence.
In his first job, Tintin didn't get along well with his colleagues.
Tintin believes that his career needs to be created by his own efforts and talents.
He insisted on his reluctance to take shortcuts by relying on his parents' background, as it was contrary to his values.
Cai Ming couldn't stand watching his son hit a wall in everything.
So she secretly researched a lot about psychology to help her son rebuild his confidence.
Tsai Ming often talks to his son about his childhood and encourages Tintin to find himself again.
After a period of adjustment, Tintin slowly came out of the emotional trough, and then set out to start his own business plan.
A cultural communication company was founded by Tintin.
Through continuous getting along and honing, he gradually found a way to interact with his colleagues.
When Tintin was in school, he studied something related to choreography and directing, so he later worked as a screenwriter.
Tintin's hard power is indeed not to be underestimated, and it deserves special mention.
He was one of the screenwriters of the hit film "Thai Embarrassment", which was a huge success in the film and television market.
Cai Ming watched his son's career flourish, and another worry was born in his heart.
Tintin is 38 years old, but there is still no progress in marriage.
Tintin is still single, while his peers have long since followed the ranks of fathers.
Every time Cai Ming recalls this incident, he can't help but feel a little anxious in his heart.
As a mother, Cai Ming is also unwilling to persecute too much.
Cai Ming thinks that this child, who has behaved as reliable since childhood, will have his own plans.
In fact, while Tintin was growing up, we also observed another situation.
How should parents relate to their children during their rebellious period?
Cai Ming also talked about the problem of getting along with children in the program "Please Mom".
Her point is that it is more effective to incorporate the truth into the story than to tell the child 10,000 times over and over again.
Telling a great story is more meaningful and effective than simply teaching the truth.
When Ding Ding went to school, Cai Ming's mother was not allowed to enter the dormitory, saying that girls were not allowed to enter.
Cai Ming believes that his young son is exposed to new things more often than he does.
Therefore, she is willing to learn many things from her son, rather than suppressing her child's views by virtue of her status as a mother.
She will take the initiative to ask for help from her child if she has problems in the process of educating her child.
For example, Cai Ming mentioned a case in the program "Wonderful Sayings".
If the child is seven or eight years old, she cannot meet the child's requirements, and the son will be left to take responsibility for himself.
She will make the child feel the emotion of being needed in the process.
The relationship between Cai Ming and his son can be said to be a microcosm of many families.
The role of parents in their children's careers and marriages is undoubtedly a question worth pondering.