Everyone makes mistakes, whether as a child or as an adult. As an adult, you can only take responsibility for the mistakes you have made and correct them yourself. If you made a mistake as a child, your parents can help correct it. However, some parents are not "smart" enough to educate their children and adopt the wrong approach. The mother of the "boss" punished the father and son to kneel. The baby in diapers is so cute that it makes mom cry and laugh. There is a group of **by many netizens** on the Internet. , two children and a father kneel side by side. He looked funny in bed. According to the photographer and the "big" mother who punished the father and son, the eldest child threw away his schoolbag and left after coming home from school, and he didn't care that the schoolbag fell on **; Dick's Toys The whole house is in shambles, and it looks like it has been robbed by a thief. In such a chaotic environment, Bao's father had no intention of educating his two children and allowed them to be "unscrupulous". Bao's mother was already very tired that day, and everything in front of her seemed to add fuel to the fire, and her temper came up.
In order to make the three of them realize their mistakes, Bao's mother decided to kneel down to punish the father and son, so that they could recognize the problem and correct it. The posture of the eldest baby and the baby's father kneeling and punishing is quite standard, and they seem to have realized their mistakes, but the second baby is not as serious as the two of them. The second child is still too young. As a baby in diapers, he didn't understand what his mother meant at all. He just thought it was funny and imitated his father and brother's movements. The baby twists his body and makes all kinds of cute movements, constantly stealing the scene. Mom looks at the cute, diaper-clad baby in front of her. She couldn't laugh or cry, and half of her anger disappeared in an instant.
AnalysisAlthough the mother's method of punishing the third grandfather is indeed hilarious, her education method is obviously biased towards the traditional education method, that is, if the child makes a mistake, the corporal must be punished. This type of education can easily cause children to be afraid of their parents. In the future, they will pretend to be sensible and curry favor with adults everywhere so as not to be punished. Such children are too sensible at the beginning, and when they grow up, they will have low self-esteem and become the so-called "likable" character; Secondly, children will physically punish their parents when they are young. He took it to heart, and when his resentment reached a certain level, he would explode and even turn against his parents.
How can parents properly educate their children when they do something wrong? 1.Calm down firstWhen a child does something wrong, the first thing parents feel is "angry". Many parents can't control this anger, so they can't help but vent their anger on their children, i.e., corporal punishment, scolding, etc. Clearly, this is wrong. If you want to educate your child effectively without harming your child, the first thing parents need to do is to control themselves, calm down, and think about how to solve it.
2。Categorizing MistakesFrom birth to adulthood, children make all sorts of mistakes. Some mistakes are small and negligible, while others are errors of principle. Parents should get into the habit of categorizing mistakes. Small mistakes should be given appropriate criticism. For "big mistakes", the first thing to do is to get the child's mind back on track, and then educate the child bit by bit in daily life.
Let me tell you something from my heart, a child's education is always a lesson that can never be learned. Parents can only work hard to gain experience. After all, the children of every family are different, so the education method cannot be blindly copied.