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"Leaving the day is not fixed, never getting married", what is the departure day? What is the Absolute Sun
During the Chinese New Year, the hottest topic is urging marriage, marriage is a big event, there are many things to think about, when it is suitable for marriage, when to hold it, when to hold it, all of which need to be considered.
There is a saying in the countryside that says, "You can't marry when you leave the day, and you can't marry on the last day." What does the so-called "departing sun" and "dying sun" mean? Also, why can't you get married on these two days?
1. What is the day of departure and the end of the day?
The days of departure are the first, seventh, twenty-first and twenty-eighth days of each month. During this period, it is not advisable to hold celebrations such as marriage, marriage, etc.
The Day of Departure" ** in the ancient Chinese as a philosophical theory of "Yin and Yang Five Qi".
This theory holds that everything in the world is made up of five elements: metal, wood, water, fire, and earth.
Our lunar calendar is divided by a type called "metal", "wood", "water", "fire", and "earth".
The first day is when the yang energy is strong, because the wood attributes and wood attributes in the five elements are very poor, which is not suitable for weddings.
In a seven-day cycle, Yang Qi will slowly rise, and on the fifteenth, there will be a full moon, and at the fifteenth, it will become weak.
On the seventh day of the first lunar month, it is the time when the yang energy is declining, if the yang energy is declining, it is easy to attract ghosts, and it is not suitable to get married at this time.
"Breaking the sun" is a Chinese custom, which is based on the cycle of the full moon, that is, the first day of the lunar calendar.
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Ten. V. Verses 22 and 27. These five days are generally not suitable for holding important meetings or making important decisions. And the origin of "extinguishing the sun" is also related to the "five elements of yin and yang".
According to the Five Elements Theory, the "absolute day" is regarded as the day of the solstice.
If you're unlucky, everything you do will be negatively affected.
If you get married on a gloomy day, it will be a certain disadvantage to the families of both people, so Chinese believe that it is not appropriate to get married on the day of menopause, and it is not appropriate to hold any important events.
As far as we know, the 24 solar terms are the crystallization of the wisdom of the ancients, and the 24 solar terms are divided into four stands, and the day of the four stands is also called the "absolute sun".
The ancients also pointed out to us the words "absolute" and "departing" in the words "absolute day" and "leaving the day", "absolute" means "broken", that is, "absolute", that is, the last day of a season is called "absolute".
It also means that the beginning of spring, the end of winter, the end of summer, the end of spring, the end of autumn, the end of winter, and the end of autumn have their own reasons.
Since ancient times, the end of the day and the day of departure have been recognized as a chaotic situation, that is, the day when spring, summer, autumn and winter end.
Therefore, under the influence of such thoughts, we attach great importance to the day of the trial marriage and the day of good fortune, believing that as long as the time is right, we can do more things, and there will be no ominous things.
Therefore, the end of the day and the day of departure are considered ominous.
Because the end of the day is not conducive to marriage and great achievements, when is the right day for marriage?
2. When is a good date for marriage?
Chinese have a habit of avoiding inauspicious days, but on many days, people like to celebrate and do big things.
However, the exact timing depends on local customs and individual needs.
We can choose the date of the wedding on the holiday, the holiday itself is a festive day, and the yang energy is also very sufficient, so when the wedding is held, it is even more joyful, the atmosphere is rich, and the relatives can live in harmony.
In our opinion, even numbers are an auspicious number, and many people will choose even numbers for their weddings, such as August 8.
Some people will choose to hold a wedding during the long holiday because the National Day is relatively long and it is a good holiday.
When some elderly people choose a wedding date, they will also look at whether their birth dates match. Bazi refers to a person's birthday and birthday, and whether the Bazi of two people match is the key to determining whether the marriage is happy.
Now there are fewer and fewer eight characters, and even most people don't know what they are.
Marriage is a matter between two families, and it is necessary to choose a date with special significance to celebrate the wedding according to the customs and habits of each family, but it is necessary to avoid certain special ceremonies. It can not only prevent contradictions, but also reflect respect for the sacrificial ritual.
Conclusion. Nowadays, people pay less attention to this custom and pay more attention to their needs and hobbies.
While a trial day is important, choosing the right day for marriage can make a double difference.
Whether it's a good day or something that suits your needs, make two people happy and a family happy.