A new type of unfilial piety occurs quietly, and the children struggle at the bottom, but they feel disappointed by their parents!
Many parents want their children to excel. Therefore, they will do their best to provide their children with the best educational resources and a good environment for growth.
Especially in families with better economic conditions, parents are willing to spend more money to ensure that their children have access to the best educational resources. However, this is not the case for all families, but they still want to create favorable conditions for their children, even if sometimes beyond their means.
Despite the family's limited financial situation, parents have high expectations for their children. They hope that their children can be admitted to prestigious schools, have a good career in the future, and can get a high salary.
In addition, parents have worked hard to bring up their children for many years, and they also hope that their children can repay the family when they grow up, create wealth for the family, and honor the family, which is also the embodiment of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation.
Although students who receive higher education under the modern education system should be more respectful of their elders and filial to their parents, sometimes students do not earn enough money to pay for their parents' education despite their hard work.
To a certain extent, parents will feel that their children cannot repay their parents' kindness, which is a lack of family affection. And now, a new lack of family affection is quietly emerging, which makes people feel very helpless.
Xiao Jia, a college student, graduated from a well-known university and initially planned to continue his studies, but due to financial pressure from his family, he had to work early and gave up his plans to go to graduate school.
Although his salary is not bad, the cost of living in the big city is quite high. Every month, he would send money to his family on time, but his parents felt that it was not enough, and often complained that he was not in good health, asked other children what gifts they bought for their parents, how much money they transferred, and so on.
His parents always blamed Xiao Jia for being unproductive, thinking that he had a decent job in a big city, but they were unwilling to give more support to his family, feeling that he lacked filial piety. This situation made Xiaojia feel very aggrieved, he worked hard in the big city every day, and he didn't even dare to ask for leave because of illness, but his salary was almost eaten up by living expenses and family expenses, but he couldn't get the understanding of his parents.
He comes from an ordinary family, and his parents did not help him much in his employment process, but he did not blame his parents for his failures. However, his parents thought that he was not doing his job properly and had no filial piety. He couldn't help but wonder if he was really not filial enough.
Nowadays, college students are facing considerable employment pressure and work challenges, which parents should understand better. Parents want their children to contribute to the family after years of studying, and it is understandable, but in many cases, the work of students does not pay well. However, in many cases, the work of students does not pay well.
Parents may mistakenly think that it is easy for their children to earn money outside the home, but in reality, most college students work hard at the grassroots level and struggle for a living. However, parents are often unaware of this and feel disappointed with their children, which is one of the reasons why a new lack of belonging is widespread.
According to statistics, the employment rate of graduates in 2022 is only 23%, and most students are still unemployed. The labor market is highly competitive, and many students choose to take the civil service or graduate exams, but it is difficult and competitive.
Even if some students find a job, the modern workplace is highly competitive and stressful, often requiring unpaid overtime. As a result, fresh graduates work very hard and are not paid as they should. In particular, students from ordinary families face greater difficulties due to their lack of background and connections.
Therefore, we hope that parents will recognize the hardships of their children's work outside the home. Financial support may not be necessary, but mental and psychological support is also very important for students.
Face"Ungrateful"College students should strive to renew themselves, plan for the future, and avoid the embarrassing situation of unemployment after graduation. College students should cherish their college time, keep learning, improve themselves, and prepare for the future in order to gain more advantages in the labor market.
Today's topic: What do you think of a new type of ingratitude?