Can't get a wife when you're old? This problem has plagued many young men in rural areas, either the local ones are married, or the people from other places don't want to marry in, what can be done? Some areas of Guangdong, Shaanxi, and Henan began to want to recruit children, and introduced a policy called "Matchmaker Award", what is the "Matchmaker Award" for? To put it bluntly, it is to protect the media and pull the line, and the money will be given when the introduction is completed.
For example, in Qingfu Village, Maoming, Guangdong, the village committee will reward those matchmakers who introduce spouses to male unmarried young men over 30 years old in the village and finally complete the registration of marriage. This sounds interesting, but the phenomenon behind it is still worth nagging:
First, in terms of facts, if you want to get the "matchmaker award", you have to communicate and match, whether people can succeed depends on the meaning of the two, hundreds of thousands of rewards may not be too attractive, whether it can effectively solve the problem of "difficult marriage" for rural youth, it remains to be seen.
Second, the intention of rewarding matchmakers with cash is good, but it is a palliative measure. So how to cure the root cause? The village committee should find a way to improve the economy of the village, improve the level of workability and livability in the village, and make all kinds of employment opportunities close at hand, so that men and women can be retained, and the village has industry, money, education and medical care are convenient, and young people are willing to stay.
Third, whether you can't marry a wife or can't get married, the real "savior" is actually yourself. If there is an opportunity for re-education and re-training in the village, go there, learn more technical and employment skills to "recharge", do not wait, do not rely on, dare to go outside one acre and three points of land, expand the social circle, economic income will not go up, income will go up, and it will be easier to find a partner.
Matchmaker: "Okay, in the end, it's a matter of two people, whether the village can do it or not, in order to substantively solve the problem of whether young people can stay, in fact, as long as you can keep people, everything is easy to solve."