"Our Days" Wang Xuehua was squeezed, Qianqian was picked, and Wang Mingzhong was selfish
Wang Mingzhong took his girlfriend Qianqian home, and Wang Xianping always seemed a little unhappy. Although Qianqian was six years older than Wang Mingzhong, Wang Xianping, who was traditional, could not accept his son marrying an "old" woman.
Liu Shuxia reminded Wang Xianping that she should save some face for her son and not make people feel embarrassed. Wang Xianping tried to control his emotions, but what he didn't expect was that Qianqian was not only old, but also divorced, and had a three-year-old daughter.
1.Wang Xianping angrily dropped his wine glass and left the table, Wang Xuehua and Yang Siyu's relationship had given him a headache, and now Wang Mingzhong found a divorced girl with a child, which made Wang Xianping feel powerless.
The whole family took turns to persuade Wang Mingzhong and Qianqian to break up, but Wang Mingzhong was resolute, he thought that love was free and no one could interfere, he loved Qianqian deeply and didn't care about her conditions.
However, Qianqian didn't know how realistic Wang Mingzhong's real reason for "picking" her was. 2.Wang Xianping was troubled by the relationship between Wang Xuehua and Yang Siyu, and Wang Mingzhong found a divorced girl with a child, which made Wang Xianping feel powerless to deal with it.
The whole family took turns to persuade Wang Mingzhong and Qianqian to separate, but Wang Mingzhong was resolute, he thought that love was free and no one could interfere, he loved Qianqian deeply and didn't care about her conditions.
However, Qianqian didn't know how realistic Wang Mingzhong's real reason for "picking" her was. 3.The relationship between Wang Xuehua and Yang Siyu gave Wang Xianping a headache, and Wang Mingzhong found a divorced girl with a child, which made Wang Xianping feel powerless.
The whole family took turns to persuade Wang Mingzhong and Qianqian to break up, but Wang Mingzhong was resolute, he thought that love was free and no one could interfere, he loved Qianqian deeply and didn't care about her conditions.
However, Qianqian didn't know how realistic Wang Mingzhong's real reason for "picking" her was.
Qianqian's "politeness" Qianqian came to her mother-in-law's house for the first time, brought rich gifts, and was polite to Wang Mingzhong's family. Although she is a rich girl from a big city, she does not have any contempt for Wang Mingzhong's family background.
Uncle Wang Xian'an was worried that she was not adaptable, so he specially prepared a lot of snacks and drinks, and after learning that Wang Mingzhong's grandmother had made tea in advance, Qianqian knew how to understand the old man's hard work and said that she wanted to drink tea.
Qianqian's performance made her grandmother leave a deep impression on her.
Qianqian smiled and calmly answered her in-laws' questions, using courtesy salutations to show respect. She spoke openly about her age and marriage history, appearing more sincere.
However, Wang Mingzhong only told his family that Qianqian was six years older than him in **, and did not mention her marriage history, which made Qianqian look embarrassed in front of her in-laws.
Wang Mingzhong's son was crying at the dinner table, and Qianqian took the initiative to comfort the child and share her experience of having a three-year-old daughter. Her candor surprised everyone present.
Qianqian's feelings for Wang Mingzhong are sincere, so she treats his family very sincerely. Although she knows that her background may not be as good as she wants, she doesn't think there's any need to hide anything on the road to marriage.
Qianqian's honesty made the family banquet unpleasant, and the people of the Wang family looked down on her and were unwilling to let her enter the door. But Qianqian always maintained an elegant demeanor and never said a word of anger.
Despite the indifference and prejudice she encountered, she always maintained her dignity and sanity.
Wang Xuehua actually accused Wang Mingzhong of falling in love with her in front of Qianqian, which broke her grandmother's heart. Qianqian didn't show any anger, but apologized to Wang Xuehua and said, "Xuehua, I'm sorry, I brought conflicts to your family and made grandma sad." ”
However, Wang Mingzhong, who was supposed to protect Qianqian, did not stand up in time when his family humiliated Qianqian. Although Wang Mingzhong keeps saying that he loves Qianqian, he doesn't really care about her.
Only by seeing his attitude towards Qianqian can we understand that he has another purpose for marrying Qianqian.
In "Our Days", Wang Mingzhong's behavior makes people question his feelings for Qianqian. He took Qianqian home without telling his family in advance, causing Qianqian to be rejected by the whole family.
What's even more chilling is that when Qianqian was in a predicament, Wang Mingzhong did not give her any comfort. Another key detail is that Qianqian received her home ** and learned that her daughter was sick and was in a hurry to return, but Wang Mingzhong did not show the slightest anxiety.
If he doesn't have any feelings for Qianqian's daughter, it means that his love is not deep.
Comprehension: 1Yang Dashan's true feelings for Fang Hui's mother and son. 2.Wang Mingzhong's "love" seems hypocritical. 3.Yang Dashan's love for Fang Hui made him marry her, and he regarded his son as his own.
4.After Yang Siyu grew up, Lin Junsheng appeared, and Yang Dashan was worried that Yang Siyu would be snatched away. 5.When Lin Junsheng was young, in order to follow his career, he married the daughter of the provincial **, and he couldn't have children, so he could only pretend not to like children.
6.Lin Junsheng wanted to see Yang Siyu, but he was afraid of losing the support of his father-in-law, so he didn't dare to recognize him publicly. Build: 1By observing Yang Dashan's deep affection for Yang Siyu and Fang Hui's mother and son, we cannot deny that Wang Mingzhong's "love" is hypocritical.
2.Yang Dashan married Fang Hui and treated her son Yang Siyu as if he were his own, this deep love made Wang Mingzhong's "love" pale and weak.
3.With the growth of Yang Siyu, Lin Junsheng reappeared, and Yang Dashan's love and protection for Yang Siyu showed his true love for Fang Hui. 4.When Lin Junsheng was young, he married the daughter of the provincial ** for the sake of his career, although his wife could not have children, Lin Junsheng still chose to compromise and pretended that he didn't like children.
5.Lin Junsheng has always wanted to see Yang Siyu, but he is afraid of losing the support of his father-in-law, so he is full of hesitation and fear about openly recognizing each other.
Lin Junsheng's worries far exceeded Yang Dashan's worries, but Yang Dashan still chose to face Lin Junsheng humbly, for fear of causing him dissatisfaction. Yang Dashan used to be a gangster, Wang Xian'an once said: "Fang Hui was forced to marry Yang Dashan, if anyone gets close to Fang Hui, Yang Dashan will not hesitate to swing the knife." ”
However, it is such a ruthless character who has his own weaknesses, that is, Fang Hui and Yang Siyu, who are the people he tries his best to protect.
Wang Mingzhong and Yang Dashan were put together, and the height was immediate. Wang Mingzhong attaches more importance to his own feelings and interests, and Qianqian's marriage contract is also a choice for him to weigh the pros and cons. The hidden illness of his childhood and the ridicule of his classmates and villagers made him feel inferior, and although the operation was successful, the psychological shadow was not **.
In the face of Yan Bing's love letter, although Yan Bing was four years younger than him and had a beautiful family background, he did not accept Yan Bing's show of love due to low self-esteem.
Wang Mingzhong was attracted by Qianqian who was divorced and had children for three main reasons: first, Qianqian had some regrets in her marriage, but it was not perfect, and it did not bring huge pressure to Wang Mingzhong; Secondly, Qianqian is an older and experienced woman, gentle and virtuous, mature and generous, and knows how to take care of people, which forms a sense of closeness to Wang Mingzhong's experience of being raised by his grandmother since he was a child; In the end, Qianqian's family runs a medical device business, while Wang Ming's middle school is medicine, their careers just complement each other, and Qianqian can become Wang Mingzhong's right-hand man.
Wang Mingzhong, a former dreamer. When he was a child, his family was poor and couldn't afford the cost of surgery, so he almost let his sister Wang Xuehua drop out of school. However, when he saw the prosperity of the big city, the materialistic desire in his heart was aroused, and he gradually forgot his former dream - to study medicine to save people, but began to pursue Qianqian, who had a superior family background, hoping to live a prosperous life.
However, his original intention has long been overshadowed by desire, and he has forgotten what kind of dreams he once had. His grandmother favored him, but she didn't notice his calculations, she just thought that he was carried away by love.
The core idea of the new copywriting: Wang Mingzhong gradually forgot his original intention because of the influence of poverty and materialism, and he began to pursue wealth and status, while ignoring his former dream - to study medicine to save people.
At the same time, his grandmother's preference for him also allows him to continue to pursue his desires without being noticed.
The grandmother in "Our Days" has always been worried about the future of her grandson Wang Mingzhong with a kind and caring attitude. She deeply understands the trivialities and complexities of life, and is full of worries about Wang Mingzhong's future marriage.
In private, she expressed her worries to Liu Shuxia, and she thought that the child who was not her biological child might bring trouble and trouble to Wang Mingzhong's life in the future. However, the grandmother's heart is out of deep love and concern for her grandson, hoping that he can live a better life.
Wang Mingzhong's indifferent attitude towards his family is where his grandmother's disappointment in him really begins. Although he wanted to be with Qianqian, his family objected. Instead of communicating with his family, he quarreled with them and even threatened his family with his painful experience.
Such behavior makes the family feel disappointed and helpless.
Wang Mingzhong, do you know what your condition means to your family? It was you who let grandma run around for medical treatment, and let Wang Xianping and Liu Shuxia save money for surgery. Your physical illness has given you preferential treatment from your family since you were a child, and your sister Wang Xuehua mistakenly thinks that we are patriarchal.
Your illness is not only your own pain, but also the trauma in the hearts of our whole family. You should be grateful to your parents, especially your grandmother, for their love for you, instead of waiting for your wings to harden and dare to scream.
I always feel a little wronged, I feel wronged for Mingzhong, and I feel wronged for us. Look at my hair, it's all white. When he was a child, his grandmother took him to see a doctor to find a remedy and give him special care and love, but he did not get the return that Wang Mingzhong deserved.
Wang Xuehua was surprised by Wang Mingzhong's sudden decision, even though they had just finished arguing. Wang Mingzhong did not discuss with his parents in advance, and the first thing he thought about was how not to spend the family's money.
He said: "I have decided that I want to go abroad for a PhD, and I will try to get a scholarship so that my family will not spend a penny more. ”
Wang Xuehua reluctantly said that this is not a matter of money, Wang Mingzhong has been away from home for a long time, and his grandmother is old and loves Wang Mingzhong very much, how can she accept his behavior of saying goodbye without saying goodbye?
Wang Mingzhong didn't seem to feel guilty, he directly threw the problem to Wang Xuehua: "I've made a decision, you go back and help me slowly infiltrate, I have to be honest, I have made my family worry a lot, you can help me bear more." ”
Wang Mingzhong was able to roam freely outside, completely ignoring the feelings of his parents and grandmother, because he knew that there was Wang Xuehua at home, and he could rest assured that he would hand over all the matters of filial piety to Wang Xuehua and constantly put pressure on Wang Xuehua.
Wang Mingzhong's attitude made people chill his grandmother, he was well-behaved and sensible when he was a child, and he thanked his grandmother in college, but after going to the big city, his attitude became cold and selfish.
In contrast, although Wang Xuehua is reckless and willful, she is more filial, knows how to be grateful for her parents' contributions, and treats love sincerely, which is in stark contrast to Wang Mingzhong.
Wang Xian'an's evaluation of Wang Mingzhong and Wang Xuehua emphasized that everyone has their own characteristics and values, and there is no need to force comparison with others. Every child has their own talents and strengths, and it is important to nurture their physical and mental health so that they can grow up happily.
Respecting children's individual differences and letting children learn to be grateful and reciprocate is more meaningful than any pampering. Let's treat every child equally with our hearts, avoid the harm caused by favoritism, and let every child feel warmth and love.